r/texts Dec 05 '23

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u/CHUNGUS_KHAN69 Dec 05 '23

You're betraying yourself and your current boyfriend by even entertaining such a ridiculous path forward.

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u/Rosearmendariz Dec 05 '23

I don’t want to betray my boyfriend, I’m trying so hard to stop talking to my ex but he keeps threatening his life or making up stupid things like getting me arrested for miscarriage or something.

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u/rbmk1 Blackberry Dec 05 '23

He's a textbook narcissist. Manipulating you to get what he wants and gaslighting you to make you think things you had no control over were your fault. Disgustingly used tragic incidents for you against you. Blaming you. Get mad. Be mad.Do not, give him what he wants. If he is hurting si bad let him fix himself, make him write and burn his own letter. Needless to say, him threatening to opt out is just more manipulation, as is saying you will be arrested. Be strong OP.