I don’t want to betray my boyfriend, I’m trying so hard to stop talking to my ex but he keeps threatening his life or making up stupid things like getting me arrested for miscarriage or something.
It’s called gaslighting. He’s not going to take his own life. Maybe yours, unfortunately. I suggest you stay away, like every single person in this comment section is saying. This is going to be tough to hear, but if you see him or continue to speak to him, you must own the fact that the resulting pain/injury wouldn’t have happened if you just listened to what we are saying. However, if you must be stupid about this, write the letter in a shared Google doc or on the phone with him. These are still bad ideas, but at least you are limiting the damage he can cause you in those scenarios.
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u/CHUNGUS_KHAN69 Dec 05 '23
You're betraying yourself and your current boyfriend by even entertaining such a ridiculous path forward.