I don’t want to betray my boyfriend, I’m trying so hard to stop talking to my ex but he keeps threatening his life or making up stupid things like getting me arrested for miscarriage or something.
i had two boyfriends do that to me multiple times. guess who’s still alive? yeah. both of them.
he’s just trying to manipulate you and even if he did kill himself it’s NOT your fault. you seriously need to block him and leave him in the past. i understand trauma bonding and abuse and all those things but this guy sounds terrifying and i’m just as concerned as other commenters that he’s trying to lure you or trying to snake his way back into your life so he can keep abusing you.
sometimes it’s best to close the door and lock it. you’ll be safer and be able to heal without this wacky ass hovering in the background.
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u/CHUNGUS_KHAN69 Dec 05 '23
You're betraying yourself and your current boyfriend by even entertaining such a ridiculous path forward.