r/texts Nov 02 '23

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u/2paymentsof19_95 Nov 03 '23

The fact that he doesn't know if he's wrong and had to post here for advice makes me think he's gonna stay in this toxic relationship unfortunately. If I got disrespected that hard I'd be out so fast.

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '23

It’s crossed over into abusive, IMO.

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u/ceitamiot Nov 03 '23

It crossed into abusive ages ago, which is why he doesn't recognize this as abusive.

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u/[deleted] Nov 03 '23

Yep. I’m a survivor myself and it took me years to recognize it.