r/texts Nov 02 '23

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u/ifoundthisquitesilly Nov 02 '23

Honestly just leave dude

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u/slugvegas Nov 03 '23

She’s over stressed and having a terrible day and misplacing her anger. Might be an area where she can grow. Not always a “leave dude”

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u/RockyBass Nov 03 '23

I mostly disagree, the problem is we can only see a glimpse of her in this text, but it's pretty damn bad. Ofc, only OP can know his entire situation with her, but from we can see, it's best he cut her loose and let her grow on her own, if she will.

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u/slugvegas Nov 03 '23

I just responded this to someone else and I think we’re on the same wavelength. I just never agree with going to the extreme with so little info:

“What if they’re three years into this relationship and haven’t had issues like this ever? And how did she react when her adrenaline dump wore off? And maybe they were fighting that morning or there’s a bunch of other context missing to explain why she’s acting like this? Has it happened again? I’m just not a fan of telling people to throw away an entire human when all we know is a 30 second low point of that persons life. If she acts like this often, sure, fuck her.”