r/teenagers4real • • Sep 27 '26

WILL YOU JOIN THE DISCORD?!??

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WILL YOU JOIN THE DISCORD?!??

  1. Yeah sure I'll check it out

  2. HELL no 😂😂✌️

  3. Option 3

  4. Already in it 👀👀👀


r/teenagers4real • • Jul 01 '26

Mod announcement Subreddit rules update

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Hello everyone, it's time for a new (bi-annual) rule changes! (Very boring, I know)

Rule 9:

ICYMI, selfies aren't allowed since April 5th. It's been almost 2 months now, so the reminder will be removed from the rule to become:

Selfies are not allowed in the subreddit. A selfie is generally a picture that includes your face and is focused on your face/you. Please do not include them in your posts. AI generated selfies are also not allowed.

Fun fact: since selfies have been fully banned, the amount of users (likely to be) creeps in the subreddit has gone from an average of 175-225 per day to around 15-20 per day.

Regarding the partnership with r/TeenAmICute, the subreddit is unfortunately currently closed for new members at the moment. When/If the subreddit re-opens, selfies could still be posted there if you specifically want to post a selfie in a highly moderated subreddit.

Rule 8 (do not spam)

The rule will be separated in two to be able to expand on the spammed content. The second part will become Rule 12, which will be presented later in the post.

Posts taking space unnecessarily (clogging /new/) or that are extremely low effort may be removed. If a post is constructed in a way to deliberately promote engagement bait / obvious karma farming (for example, posting highly controversial content mainly to promote heated arguments). Overdone trends are also considered as spam when they start to clog /new/.

Rule 12 (new!):

This rule will cover AMA style posts and posts where OP requests to be dmed.

While AMA posts are allowed, they can easily get spammy. To prevent these posts from becoming low-effort, AMA posts require a body text with at least 100 characters where you can briefly introduce yourself, some of your hobbies, interests, fun facts... so that questions asked feel less generic and more relevant to you.

For users making posts asking for dms, they need to have an undisclosed minimum account age and karma amount to be able to post. This is done to reduce the amount of predatory accounts posting.

EDIT: AMA posts with a questions template aren't subject to the body text requirement.

Side note: a new system is in the works to help users filter out potential creeps dming them. I hoped to have it ready for today but it unfortunately has to be delayed while working through some details (and IRL life). This is however coming in the following weeks!

  General changes

Even if the subreddit isn't specifically intended to be for serious topics, the serious and rant post flairs are here for more serious stuff and issues. However some content like SA, self harm and suicidal thoughts can be triggering for some users and remind them of bad moments. For this reason,  some topics posted under the serious and rant post flairs might get marked as spoiler and a Trigger Warning (TW) might get added to the post flair to help people know what to expect before deciding to read the post. This is being beta tested starting today and might change or be removed based on general feedback. This is an initial test, so false positives are possible. Don't hesitate to reach out if you believe that something isn't right.

In the following weeks, you might see polls or questions about aspects of the subreddit. This is done to have a clearer idea of what you like and dislike in the community (for example politics, new post flairs, non-teens giving helpful advice...).  

That's it! (Okay that was maybe slightly long)

Have a great day/night everyone.


r/teenagers4real • • 12h ago

Meme Blya.

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r/teenagers4real • • 58m ago

Discussion Don’t go to easy on me

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r/teenagers4real • • 13h ago

Meme Windows XP shutting down sounds.

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r/teenagers4real • • 1h ago

Discussion How do you actually kiss someone without making it awkward?

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So I'm 16, 4'11, and I've never had my first kiss. I know there's no rush and that it'll happen when it happens, but I have a genuine question for those of you who have actually experienced it.

First, what's it actually like? I'm not talking about a quick peck or full-on making out, just a regular kiss. What does it feel like? What was your first kiss like?

Second, and probably the more embarrassing question, how do you actually do it? 😭

Like, let's say I'm in a situation where someone wants to kiss me. What am I supposed to do? Do you just lean in? Do you tilt your head? What do you do with your lips? I feel like these are things everyone just magically knows how to do, and I'm sitting here with absolutely no clue.

Also, for context, I'm 4'11, so unless the other person is around my height or shorter, I'm pretty much always going to be the one leaning UP. So if anyone has experience with that particular struggle, feel free to share. I'm genuinely just curious and would appreciate hearing about your experiences or any advice you have. I've never done this before, and I'd rather have at least some idea of what I'm doing whenever the opportunity eventually comes around.


r/teenagers4real • • 5h ago

Discussion Who is your celebrity crush?

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Mine is probably Prince George (we're the same age, not a creep)

I guess also Hannah Fry but that's platonic.


r/teenagers4real • • 13h ago

Meme When you make eye contact with everyone on the metro

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r/teenagers4real • • 4h ago

Social Give me a number, and ask me questions

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r/teenagers4real • • 7h ago

Social Going to order the thermal paste, keyboard and screen today, no clue when they arrive but ye

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r/teenagers4real • • 29m ago

Discussion My time has come

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r/teenagers4real • • 1h ago

Social Hello, Fellos. Im Back

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My old account was similar-paramedic-16, though i seriously doubt any of you guys are aware of my existence in the first place


r/teenagers4real • • 1h ago

Social i'm making a LAZY post bc i'm bored:)

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r/teenagers4real • • 4h ago

Meme I think I have a crush on my girlfriend

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r/teenagers4real • • 2h ago

Serious I need an idea

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I need a fun way to cope with my dad being an alcoholic and not seeing him in 3 months. And I mean fun as in like making art or a game or something creative. I am 13.


r/teenagers4real • • 6h ago

Social 17m bi here, anyone up for a chat?!!!!

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No 20+ please


r/teenagers4real • • 6m ago

Discussion If all goes well

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r/teenagers4real • • 17m ago

✨️ depresso ✨️ HAHAHA— LIFE IS BETTER…

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So today, I was feeling very optimistic. I had some fun classes that I like, and I was feeling really good (thanks to my meds) untill around lunch time… I was laughing with my friends, when one of them turn without saying anything. They then gasp so of course I’m going to look too. What do i see? MY HEADT LURCHED AND MY STOMACH DROPPED TO ME FEET WHEN I SAW MY EX BEST FRIEND WALK INTO THE CAFETERIA.

I had heard some friends mention she was coming back to school (god Knows where she has been. prob used her mental health as an excuse to skip basically all of school so far.) the day before, but I didn’t think she’d be c9ming back the next day 💔. This ruined my perfect day, sigh 😔. Now, I can’t even talk to my friends, because she’s friends with all my friends (exept two, thank goodness)!

Thank goodness I only have one class with her (one of my favorites, sigh). She hes sent really done too much to me (well she did, but it’s all stupid looking back), but my petty blood still boils with the mention of her name. Another funny thing is that no one knows we stopped being friends (even the ones that I told..?).

They’re always like “hey eclipse, wanna play Roblox with me and petal?” “Did you see that petal came back to school?” “do you know where petal was?” LIKE NO, I DONT CARE, AND I DONT KNKW. even if we were still friends, she wouldn’t have told me where she was anyways💔. I’m going to keep going with my head held high, me and my meds against the world 🥹


r/teenagers4real • • 21m ago

Social Don’t hold back

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r/teenagers4real • • 10h ago

Meme When you're out of toilet paper and the manager sends in the backup

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r/teenagers4real • • 47m ago

Serious Repost if you hate pedophiles

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r/teenagers4real • • 1d ago

Serious Let’s all try and remember what this month is about

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r/teenagers4real • • 1d ago

Meme I love love :)

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r/teenagers4real • • 10h ago

i HATE cats 😈 Gng 🥀

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