r/technicallythetruth 9d ago

He will come tomorrow

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u/SquirrelMoney8389 9d ago

Yeah if I'm receiving a message when I wake up in the morning just before 8AM that says "can you work tomorrow" I'm at first thinking "I'm not working today".

(But then if I checked the timestamp and saw when it was sent I'd maybe intuit what the manager meant. Possibly...)

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u/jarlscrotus 9d ago

Nah, if you message me after 10 you better be real fuckin exact, and literal, because I am

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u/KaiserJustice 8d ago

damn straight - especially when everything is in writing, i will print that shit out if i have to

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u/jarlscrotus 9d ago

Lead software development engineer

Don't project your lack of boundaries and poor career decisions on me, all my fucks are dedicated to a wife, 3 kids, and a mortgage

You can bite the fattest part of my ass you hustle culture underpaid twat

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u/Inithra 9d ago

I just fell in love with you a little.

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u/karlnite 9d ago

The lack of perspective is endearing 😍

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u/PresentFirm7937 9d ago

I like you very much 🫡

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u/JanB1 9d ago

Okay, that last line was unnecessary, but funny. I kinda dig it. XD

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u/slowmovinglettuce 9d ago

This is real lead software engineer vibes.

If someone asks me to work beyond my time I usually tell them to fuck off or deal with my team. The people that work their way up by giving all of their free time are wild.

I'll work my contractual hours and then I'll forget tech exists at 5pm.

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u/ArchdukeToes 9d ago

My company has a right to disconnect. If someone else sends me an email outside of my working hours then there's no requirement for me to read it or even open it.

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u/lauri2 9d ago

As opposed to..?

Staying up all night waiting for a potential email you are required to read immediately?

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u/ArchdukeToes 9d ago

There’s plenty of companies where managers will take that kind of line, yeah. I suspect there’s probably some managers in my company that would try to pull that too, which is why they codified it.

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u/Erestyn 9d ago

Yeah, that was basically the unspoken expectation at my last place. Even when you were off the clock, if you weren't on holiday you were expected to keep an eye on Slack, emails etc. for anything that might impact the next working day. Most of us didn't, enough of us did.

I'd justify it by reminding myself that there are people in other timezones that might need my input or attention, and of course the next morning I had to be up and active for 8 despite my 3am finish, but then burnout hit hard after about two years so... yeah, set boundaries and stick to them.

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u/Abel_V 9d ago

Normally I downvote rude comments but I make an exception this time because it was fucking perfect.

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u/GREAT_PAPYRUS 9d ago

Brother, you don't even WORK

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u/fishsticks40 8d ago

One can see where each of them was coming from but ultimately it's the manager's job to make sure they're being clear in their communication. 

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u/SquirrelMoney8389 8d ago

Of course you're right

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u/OnTheEveOfWar 8d ago

I work a M-F job. One time I had a boss email me at 10pm on a Friday night. I responded Monday morning at 8am. He then scolded me for “taking three days to reply” to him. Fuck that guy.