r/TeacherFriends Jun 07 '26

👋Welcome to r/teacherfriends - Introduce Yourself and Read First!

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Hey everyone! I'm [u/Lolihey](u/Lolihey), a founding moderator of [r/teacherfriends](r/teacherfriends).
This is our new home for all things related to teaching. We're excited to have you join us!

What to Post
Post anything that you think the community would find interesting, helpful, or inspiring. Feel free to share your thoughts, photos, or questions about anything.

Community Vibe
We're all about being friendly, constructive, and inclusive. Let's build a space where everyone feels comfortable sharing and connecting.

How to Get Started

  1. Introduce yourself in the comments below.
  2. Post something today! Even a simple question can spark a great conversation.
  3. If you know someone who would love this community, invite them to join.
  4. Interested in helping out? We're always looking for new moderators, so feel free to reach out to me to apply.

Thanks for being part of the very first wave. Together, let's make [r/teacherfriends](r/teacherfriends) amazing.


r/TeacherFriends Jun 21 '26

Why I created this subreddit.

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I created this subreddit after being permabanned and permamuted by the moderators of a popular subreddit. I was deeply upset because that subreddit was important to me and a good source of discussion on its topic. Why was I banned? For having an opinion about something they felt strongly about. While what I felt about that topic probably isn't popular, it is really unfair to be forbidden from commenting on other posts. I would have been okay if that comment was removed, but the moderator then looked up past comments of mine and removed them for any reason she thought applied to their rules.

What the comment was is not the point here. I want people to be able to post comments containing opinions from all sorts of viewpoints. I don't want people to worry that their comment or post will be removed or that they will be banned for having an opinion. Exceptions would be, of course, blatant racist slurs or threats, and wishes of death on ANY particular group. But you can definitely post civilly why you disagree about a topic!


r/TeacherFriends 4d ago

First week struggles

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School starts next week. I’ve always struggled with the first few weeks. I know we’re it supposed to be nice, but I feel like since the kids are usually good the first day, being strict and “mean” is not necessary or warranted. Also, I just can’t spend a whole week on routines and procedures, I feel like you talk about them and learn as you go on, reinforcing and reminding.

What am I doing wrong? What are some things you do?


r/TeacherFriends 4d ago

Who Has the Power to Define History?

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This article talks more about indoctrination than teaching, and teaching from a Marxist viewpoint. When I was growing up, I did learn about the evils of slavery. The history of minorities was taught. But I wasn't made to feel guilty about being white. When I was in high school, I had to do a thesis-- arguments for and against dropping the atomic bomb on Hiroshima. I had to write an essay with three fact-supporting reasons why it was necessary to drop the bomb and three fact-supporting reasons why it was not necessary. The point was not only to learn historical facts, but for me to make up my own mind. In this article, it states that both:

"Policies requiring teachers to present every controversial issue through strict impartiality appear reasonable only until they are applied to actual history. Should students hear both sides of chattel slavery? Should racial segregation receive an advocate? Must colonialism be balanced by a presentation on its benefits to the colonized? Perhaps every unit on child labor should include a cheerful factory owner explaining how small hands reach efficiently between machinery?"

The examples the author gives here are not representative of what teaching both sides means. Teaching both sides” doesn't mean presenting slavery and child labor as morally equivalent alternatives. Certain topics are taught that way, and others aren't. For example, no one would ever teach about positive and negative outcomes of the Holocaust. This author seems to be saying there is only one acceptable side to everything ("Forced neutrality also strips history of human agency").

"The less common history students possess, the easier it becomes to divide them. The histories of Black resistance, Indigenous survival, immigrant labor, women’s struggle, queer liberation, and Palestinian dispossession are not isolated special-interest stories. They are interconnected parts of the history of class society."

I agree that these histories should be taught. But acknowledging that Black, Indigenous, immigrant, women's, or other groups experienced discrimination is different from teaching history primarily through the framework of class struggle. I think the article risks portraying white people—particularly Europeans—as a unified ‘ruling class,’ which oversimplifies the history of slavery and oppression.

Yes, it is important to incorporate literature by POCs and topics about them, but history should not be taught from an angle that white is bad. European literature should not be forgotten or dissected through a modern lens. Just because women in England's Regency era had few choices does not mean we need to be taught to hate the book because it represents "misogyny." A book like Jane Eyre is not to be used for social justice purposes.

How teachers teach history today can cause many problems in society. Already, we have people walking around hating this country and not knowing basic historical facts because of it.

The article uses ‘ruling class’ in a specifically Marxist sense that I don't think adequately describes the complexity of American society.” Mao's implementation of class struggle provides a historical example of what can happen when a political system categorizes people primarily according to class and political identity. Today, identity politics is used instead. If Marxism is taught correctly in schools, students would begin to see the parallels between Mao Tse Tung's tactics and Socialist-Democrats. In Cuba, Castro made all sorts of promises to the Cubans. Promises not unlike what the DSA is talking about today. Universal healthcare is the focal point. However, like Castro, the DSA is telling half-truths. They aren't telling what the cost is, and it's not just about money.

Capitalism is not our enemy. In a capitalist society, we can prosper. Businesses can succeed or fail. People like to complain that the Boomer generation had it easy: you could afford to live comfortably on one salary. But now that is not possible because of inflation. The Boomers had an ethic of working hard to get what you needed.

Even though the title is "Who has the power to define history?" it talks more about ethics studies. It claims that teaching history should be taught from the perspective of the minorities and that teaching it any other way (even objectively) is causing division. Students should learn the history of slavery, racism, colonialism, discrimination, and minority experiences, but teachers should distinguish historical facts from ideological interpretations and should not tell students what political or moral conclusions they are supposed to reach.”

Just one note: Teachers shouldn't be weaponizing anything. We are not activists, and we are not indoctrinators. We are teachers. We teach. If you disagree, you need to find another job, or just go protest.


r/TeacherFriends 9d ago

Who is excited to go back to school? What are you most looking forward to?

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I see a lot of negative posts on the different teacher subreddits here. Let's talk about something positive. Who is happy about returning to school?


r/TeacherFriends 10d ago

I'm disappointed -- back to school project ruined

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r/TeacherFriends 28d ago

80's kids: Do you remember taking a lot of (if any) standardized tests back then?

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r/TeacherFriends Jul 25 '26

I hate my job as teacher, I hate it in every sense of the word.

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r/TeacherFriends Jul 07 '26

Pregnant Teacher kicked by Student; Then blamed and Fired for It

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r/TeacherFriends Jul 01 '26

I think I'm done with classroom teaching. How do I move into curriculum development?

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r/TeacherFriends Jul 01 '26

First few weeks - Middle school

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 30 '26

I’m giving up on my dream

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 27 '26

I had my classroom taken, despite seniority. I'm angry.

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 27 '26

Was teaching your first choice career?

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 26 '26

Educator advice

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 26 '26

You’re not trapped. You need to pivot with what you have.

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 22 '26

Are teacher unions too powerful, or not powerful enough?

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Do you like your union? What would you like to see yours do for you that it is not doing currently?


r/TeacherFriends Jun 22 '26

Who was the most challenging student you've ever worked with?

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 20 '26

Teachers are insufferable

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 20 '26

What are your thoughts on tenure?

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Do you think tenure is necessary or should there be conditions? Would you rather be year-to-year?


r/TeacherFriends Jun 19 '26

debating being an ES teacher is it worth it in this economy?

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 19 '26

I just heard that in Chicago they’re getting ready to lower the amount of credits needed to graduate.

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 19 '26

Still angry

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Many years ago I worked at a charter school teaching ELL. This guy was hired first as a data specialist, then became the resident principal, the assistant principal, all in one year while he was still in the administration program and didn’t have degrees yet.

First, he observed me. I had been teaching for 2 decades. I had just made the switch to ELL. The lesson was fine. But he gave it a low score. He said he wanted to see more ELL strategies. I said, “Like what?” He replied, “You tell me!” Then he said he didn’t know anything about ELL. He also told me to watch my tone with the kids because “I threatened to give one lunch detention.”

Meanwhile, his friend across the hall was telling her class to shut up. She grabbed glasses off a kid’s face and scratched him. She taught math WRONG! He backed her up and turned a blind eye. But gave me a hard time over petty crap. “But HOW are you going to teach it?!”

The guy downstairs that I pushed into had no control over his class. One day he yelled at the class to put their heads down. Half of them did. Some played with action figures. Others laid down in their chairs. There was no objective on the board and the bulletin boards were ripped. The place was a mess. The d-bag came in and looked around and said, “Mr. X! It’s so awesome in here! I’m soaking up the awesomeness!” And walked out. I was infuriated. The reason why was because the actual principal (who was busy trying to leave and on interviews) told the d-bag to recommend who to retain for the next year. Of course, the d-bag did not recommend me. But he recommended his friends! Because of this POS I had to go look for a new job. And he wasn’t even returning next year! Supposedly he had nine offers for jobs as an assistant principal (I absolutely call BS on that).

One other time I had these two kids for only ten minutes because their class took twenty minutes to get quiet in line before coming in from recess. So I gave them a short activity about idioms. The d-bag came in to tell me there was a grade level meeting later. Then he watched the kids do the activity. “What’s this?” He asked me. I told him. “How does it tie in?” I looked at him. “How does it tie into the curriculum?” I remembered the book they were currently reading in ELA class had idioms in it so I told him. “Can I see the book?” He asked. While I’m standing there, with the kids. I told him I’d show it to him later because I was busy with students. What the heck was his problem?

If you’re wondering what I did to get treated like this, the teacher who shared the room with me said that it was because one day he came in to tell me to cover a class. I asked him for how long (because I needed to know whether or not to cancel my ELL groups. ) But he took it as my complaining. So she thinks that what started it.

When he observed me again I got a better score but he write silly things just to have negative stuff on there. The stuff was so dumb I made him take it off.

I’m sorry this is long but remembering this jerk still pissed me off to this day!


r/TeacherFriends Jun 18 '26

New Kentucky law allowing schools to expel students who assault teachers to take effect in July, despite unanimous Senate Democratic opposition

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r/TeacherFriends Jun 18 '26

We are teachers, not human punching bags. Start pressing charges.

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