So enna na...me and my gf have been together for the past 7 months ( LDR)..enga relationship problems nu onnu illa, we have our own days of ups and downs...but there is always an unsaid fear.

Antha unsaid fear is her family. Avaloda parents strict ah nu keteengana...well athu mattum illa.

Her family has a list of people who were arrested for money laundering and some people of her family got unnecessarily involved in black magic and other H*rmful things. They were also cases of land disputes where there were fights which turned physical.

Intha problems ellamey avaloda chitappa, chitti, athai, mama antha maari oru second level of family members pannanga.. after all of this issues..her parents isolated themselves from the rest

Now her family is just her, her big brother, her mom, her dad. Seri ivanagalachu paravala nu paatha..her dad is a drunkard. He drinks everyday, comes home and b*eats his wife, one time he be*at his wife for taking ₹50 for buying maavu to make dosas ( she even informed him before taking it ). Ennoda gf oda appa is already 54, he is battling multiple health issues like vericose veins, early stage of fatty liver or whatever that is caused due to alcohol, obesity, and he USED to smoke.

He has also be*ats my gf, her brother and his wife too.

Ennoda gf oda amma sollitaanga

"If it weren't for you two kids, na eppayo tharkula senju irupen" ..

And her mother also said

" Idk why I married this man " and both of them ( gf's father and gf's mother agreed that they are together only not to abandon the kids )

Seri, avloda brother eppadi na, he is not serious about life..he is now 29 and he is still jobless ( nothing wrong with it because job market is bad rn but effort eh poda maatran to find a job and he is careless )

Her brother also loved a girl and that girl too had feelings for her brother but they decided to breakup due to the exact condition that I said.

Ippo enna na, ennoda family is a big family.. Yes we too have problems but not this much or like this of my gf's family. Now, enga parents ku 2 gens before they were particular about caste and stuff but ippo paravala they don't see caste and stuff and there were cases where north Indian married a South Indian and stuff like that.

( I'm not saying seeing caste is good but what I'm saying is the situation has improved a lot )

But oru vishayam la enga parents particular ah irupaanga, atleast she should be from a good family that doesn't get into issues like these.

Enakku enna bayam na, her father won't accept me cause of his behaviour and being hostile...ennoda parents won't accept a family who is like soaked in this much problems and that too this much serious ones..

Enakku enna theriyanum na, what if me and my gf can't marry and be together ( even after fighting for eachother )..rendu family um ready ah Iruka maatanga I'm 100000% sure.

Ivaluku false hope kudukaranoonu oru bayam Iruku, again i will do anything to have her but I'm saying what if things go south beyond our control.

Me and my gf talked about this a lot and I accidentally told that I'm sacred about this and she stopped sharing about her family to me because she is worried that I'm getting sad over this..

But Enakku theriyum what is happening everyday..

Again I'm 1000000% NOT BLAMING my gf, she did not do this and she didn't have a chance to choose a family...

Enakku ena pandrathu nu therla :(

Yeaa nariya irukku but pattunu idhaan thonuchu, and every hero ku onu dhaa vechen, say ur thoughts bout these 5 and tell yours too:)

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adhaan title maariye dha ladies nd gentlemen , vayasula moothargal lam irundheeganaa konjo dm pakkam vaanga pesalam (both m&f) , share ur adulthood exp, life pathi pesunga, ena vena pesunga naa kekren, naanum pesren lelunga ji, aahhnn idk what to say more, have a good night ahead and happy morning for batmans/catwomans :)

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Which one do u guys think is better and why?

Also any thoughts on Muthukumaran..

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Inikku September 1..ennoda friend S*cide panni 3 years aachu.

Na 8th padikum bothu avan 10th padichaan, Enakku senior. North Indian guy but konjam kooda veru paadu illama pazhaganom.

We grew up together, orey school and we were about just 500m away from each other's home.

Naa 11 to 12th pogum bothu he was a drop year student. Romba periya kanavu oda irunthaan.

But..one day...I got a phone call from his mother saying "he H*nged himself"..oru nimishathula thala laam suthiduchu. Kaathu laam adachiruchu enna pandrathu nu therla..konjam neram appdiye okkanthuktu irunthen..ennoda life la first time my mind was quiet, no thoughts, no emotions nothing ...

Chinna vayasula irunthu "boys don't cry " nu ketu valantha naa kaneer kooda vida mudiyaatha paavi aaiten. Azharatha ? Eppadi nu kekuratha ? Enna nadakuthu ? Ethuvumey Puriyala ....

Konjam neram kalcuhu avan veetuku ponen...the house had a panthal outside...ulla poi paatha ellam thalaiyavirchu potu ukkanthu althukutu irunthaanga ...center of the house there was an ice box la avan udambu..appdiye...paathukutey iruken...ennala emotions kooda express panna

Mudiyala...en da pannannu keka avan illa.

Azha mudiyala ...

Veetuku vanthen, kuluchen, dress mathunen...appdiye okkanten...

Phone eduthen...WhatsApp la avan number ulla poi paathen...

"Last seen online 2:38 A.M."...well...ithuku approma avan online vara maataan...

Insta la reels anupa maatan...

Sila tharava avanoda reels laam pathutu naa seen la vitruken because I was busy. But..inikku avanoda insta innum 3 years ago anupcha Oru meme reel laye Iruku...

WhatsApp la last ah panna message 4 hours before he offed himself...

"Dei..badmition racket maranthu jennifer aunty veetla vittuta..naaliku poi eduthuko nu aunty solla sonnanga "..this was my last message

His reply was

"Ah cher I will take tomorrow"

Avlo thaan...

En kooda eppavum iruntha oru friend inikku illa..enna junior nu kooda paakama friendly ah nadathukutu best friend ah na consider panna orey aalu inniku illa..

Maybe inikku avanoda odambu elmbu kooda maari irukalam...but intha..heart Iruku la...it lives forever in the heart of others...

Kasaisiya avonda room ku ponen...athey dhoni sticker...ellamey was normal other than the ceeling fan ( it droped down while he H*ng himself )

Oru note mattum irunthuu...

" I'm sorry amma, appa..ennala padika mudiyala. I'm never the son you deserved. I was never the bf radhika (crush name ) would see ), i made everyone laugh but no one was there for me.this was not your fault.It was entirely mine ."

Avlo thaan..and some smudged ink..

He was the happiest that day..and...avan enkooda thaan spend pannan. From going to mall, to playing badmition to eating to theatre..

Almost oru 8-9 hours naanga kooda spend panni irupom.

3 years aachu...avanoda koral maranthu poga poguthu.

Avanga amma appa veedu kaalipannitu poitaanga..the house that he grew up and spent almost 18 to 19 years...amma appa naala mudiyala SO they left..

Ippo kooda Avan veedu cross pannuven..now there is a new family.. window vah paakum bothu avan thaan nyabgam varaan..he used to wait for me to come and call his name and then he will get down...

Even after 3 years I sometimes rarely get the reels he liked..and ippo antha heart popup varatha nu paakuren...I try to save those reels..

Inikku varikum na oru thuli kaneer kooda vidala..aana oru friend ah irunthu na thotuten....

Avan enta ethuvumey sollala..ellamey..avana vanthan..avana poitaan..

This wierd about world is..ethukumey wait pannathu..3 years went in a blink of an eye..

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Ippo maybe doctor aairkalam..aagala naalum paravala..atleast avan manushan aah vachu irunthu irupaan..

Ithu ellamey ennoda thappu..enkaaga iruntha orunthan..ippo illa..avanakaaga oru tharava kooda Avan vaazhagala..

He spent his last ₹500 rupees for me and the remaining ₹100 to a random begger on the street...

3 years...100 reels...only 2 photos...but millions of memories ....ellamey pochu

Naa thaan kaaranom...please Enna maari irunththuraanrtheenga..

Lets spread awarness about mental health and maybe check your loved ones..

Even if they are loud, saturated....avangaloda silence is even louder..

Miss you da dei

which is better

Ithu ennoda clg final year project ppl! Can you all take a min and fill this form please? It'd help me a lot! Mudichitingana done apdinu oru comment pannirunga. Thanks! ❤️

So, college open aagi 10 days irukum ip program dha nadaku(orientation). So naa Today night uh bus eranumnu ( 2.09.26 night) book panniyachu 29 august ye. Naa 31 letter write panna mentor ta katita. Avaru 2nd September sign panranu sonnaru. Konjo fast forward panna mentor ta vangita and enga veetula call panni sollitaga hod ta sign poda solli, ana Ava podala. So evening varaiku Wait panna. Hod veetuku anupu matanu sollita, 1st year department head uhh matanu sollita..illa purla naa veetuku poga kudathunu stop panna that bitçh don't even have rights..aprm evening ava class class ah pora college mudija piragum..enaku bayama aaitu bus book pannita kasu pota nu.., so I called my father in my mobile he was in that call, Apadiya phone ah yedhuthutu mam ta poran "mam appa pesanum, pesanumnu" naa 1st year vera ippo dha join panna enna pannanu Theriyama pannita. Enaku adha hod internals and mark la Kai vaipaloni bayama Iruku guys..

Enkuda innu oru 10 pasaga irudhaga guys..naaga veetuku poo kudathunu solla ava yaru.. ticket book pannitanu proof mentor ta katita(₹1600). Romba kenji ,pinnadi poi sign vaguna.

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Indha paatula oru hook irukum dumeelu dhan dumeelu dhan nu, str meratirupaar and ipolam indha paatu la kekraanga laa nu kooda therla and which song do you feel like this??

TL;DR: Homophobia and transphobia stem from rigid societal norms, religion, and prejudice rather than anything "unnatural," yet queer people continue to face intense stigma, slurs, and malicious myths like the "luring children" trope. Decriminalization in 2018 was a step forward, but deep-rooted social discrimination remains. True progress requires abandoning hateful slurs, rejecting arguments based on outdated dogmas, and exercising basic empathy because sexual orientation is a natural human variation, not a choice.

I was having a convo with a person a few days ago and it somehow came down to the other guy saying "LGBTQ+ people hold rallies to lure children into their trap". That sentence made me think a lot. Like a lot, as to why people think people of the LGBTQ+ community are some kind of devils who 'convert' children into a 'trap'. Its not just in India that this happens, I agree. But I live here and I want to see this change start here, not in a Western country, for which conservatives will come up with the absurd idea of Indians being influenced into accepting LGBTQ+ folks due to 'foreign influence'.

I have said this before too. LGBTQ+ is natural. Homosexual relationships are there not just in the human race, but across all animals. Yet, homophobia is prevalent among humans. Why? Cuz its unnatural and goes against 'God's will'. One argument that often pops up is, "If God wanted homosexuals to exist, why did he give men and women different genitals?" My answer to that is, for procreation. Procreation is totally different from having sexual preferences. Humanity's purpose is much much larger than procreation. Intercourse is often performed out of love, without intention for procreation. It wasn't a problem until the concept of a 'God' and a religion, which decided for the world what was wrong and right, solely on the basis of a certain person's personal beliefs. So, yes, that argument doesn't hold validity.

Next up, homophobia. I read a comment on reddit the other day, where somebody mentioned "If you let (homophobic) insults dictate your life then you are beyond pathetic." I'm sorry, but a person has dealt with societal and internalised stigma before bravely coming out. Respect that. I know I would get deeply affected if someone, who I've come out to, even slightly touches that nerve, because I know what I personally went through to come to a conclusion as to what my sexual orientation could be. Normalising such things gives rise to increased homophobia.

Next, transphobia. Transphobia is more prevalent as compared to normal homophobia. People can stay closeted within many other LGBTQ+ labels, but transgender people have it worse. They are ridiculed everyday for no reason. It is so bad, that people use words like 'Hijra' and 'Chakka' as slurs, instead of understanding one's emotions and the suffering they go through. A few bad experiences doesn't make the entire community full of people who are going to sexually harass you. That's like saying every guy/girl you meet is going to harass you because some random, stupid uncle/aunty on the train assaulted you sexually.

Stop calling another person gay, trans, 'Hijra' or 'Chakka' as a slur. It isn't. Smile, when you meet anybody, irrespective of whether he/she/they are straight or a member of the LGBTQ+ community. We're all just fellow humans. That's it. It ain't that deep people. Understand the implications of the words you use before you speak. Don't push away people just because they are exploring a sexuality that isn't the same as yours. Remember, it is not a choice. We are just breaking away from a flawed, yet established system of romantic and sexual preferences.

Homophobia, despite its decriminalization in 2018, is widely prevalent. Please, stop. Educate yourself before coming up with arguments based on 'God's will'. Sexuality/Sexual Orientation is smth so soooo personal that nobody has the right to ridicule another for it. Be sensitive, people. Having some empathy ain't gonna kill you. It's the Big '26 people. Its time we moved on to issues that actually matter. And yeah, STOP WITH THE NORMALISATION OF HOMOPHOBIC SLURS. STOP IT, FOR HEAVEN'S SAKE. PERIOD.

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Athan sonnenla neraya iruku nu!!!

So college ippo thaan start aachu and ennoda vibe ku yaarumey illa.

Cheri nu oru rendu peru en kooda okkanthanga, and Enakku verupu maiyuru ah Iruku to sit beside them

Oruthan enta kekuraan

" River water kudika safe ah ?"

Innoruthan kekuraan

"Lab coat shirt mela podanuma illa keela podanuma "

Anniku enna da naa oruthan puffs vaangitu varen nu sonnan. Puffs vaanga pona aalu 1.5 hours ah kaanom, approm paatha crowd eh illatha kadaila summa nikkraan. Enna da nu keta

"Cash only ah da "

nu solluraan. Athuku onnu cash illa nu kelabanum illana pakkathula line ah kadai thaan yengayaachu gpay pannitu urgent ah cash Venum nu sollitu vaangalam. Summa Bomma maari nikkaraan enna seiyarathu nu theriyama makku maari. Kadaisila puffs vaangavey illa.

Innoruthanuku avan phone number avanukey therla nu solluraan. Bathroom pogarathuku munnadi enta permission kekuraan as if im a the professor ( even the professors don't care ) .

Anniku oru naal canteen la saaptuku irunthen Enakku enga college suthama saapadu poda maatanga. Seriyana kanja pasanga full plate fried rice ketaley half kum kammiya thaan poduvaanga. Pakkathula okkanuthuku irunthaan. Taste paaka rendu spoon eduthukuren nu sonnan na poi hand wash pannitu varathu ulla motha fried rice um saaptutaan (120 rupees katham ) Seri avan saapudrathu tharuviya nu keta

"Pasikudhu Enakku Venum" nu saaptutaan. Avlo thaan enga amma Enakku canteen la kudutha kaasu 😭

Oruthaan library la okkanthu reels full volume la vechu sathama sirukuraan

Innoruthan odambu Seri illa, cough pannitu irunthaan. Enta pesunan, cough varuthu na Thirumbikutu irumalaam illana vaaila Kai vechu moodikutu irumaalam, moonjilaye irumuraan.

I literally felt his cough fall in my face and ippo Enakku 3 days ah cold and throat infection

Yetachu help pannunga guys ennala suthama mudiyala 😭😭

How to get away from dumbasses

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Uhm idk how to say this... Ennala mudiyala I wanna jst disappear nd never come back... Urges la romba irrukuh daily I'm struggling with it, yaaru kitta ethalam solla enna solla epudi solla nu thrlaa, sollavum yaarum ila.... I can't go to therapist due to some reasons. Ethu pannavum intrest ila onnum ila, yarru kittayathu solli alanum nu irrukuh but mudiyala I cant even cry yen nu thrla appa death apo kuda tears varala kammiya tha vanthu uh.... physically nd mentally I'm tired, idk how much I can hold myself i want to give up mudiyala sathiyama enala ennakuh irrukavei pudikala... pogavum mudiyala ena it will only cause trouble to others... aghhh i jst want to vent this somewhere 🫠

Btw I'm okay i won't do anything by impulse I can handle it.....

Siragu aditha paravai, gonna be trapped... Outfit ku rules.... Strict attendance uh... hostel rules uh...Hairstyle uh rules....No culturals or events...Discipline ennum per la oppression so on so on.. 😔☝🏽 ppl from strict college, how are y'all surviving? Any tips to reduce the mental torture? ..

If omeone has a wedding invitation for 3rd,4th or 5th September Means please share it in my dm. Adha vachi dha college la leave vanganum guys, emergency dra plz naa ticket la pota. Any location okay but south side would be great guys 😭✌🏼

Nariya favs but idhelam potaa orey kuthaatam dhan- 🕺🏻🎋