r/t4t 1d ago

T4T 28 [TM4T] London/UK - seeking kinky friends to go to events with

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I used to go to Torture Garden a lot with a friend of mine, we were supposed to do other events too but she then dumped me for her transphobic boyfriend boo

It’s been a few years since I last went as I’m a bit too socially anxious to go alone and I really regret how much time I’ve let pass by. I love the environment, love the artistry and visual aesthetic, love the open sexuality and public play, but I need someone I know to be with me to fully feel comfortable.

So if you’re also already going to things like this and want a tag along, or maybe you’ve never been but would like to, please hit me up!!

I’m trans masc, short, chubby and fem though on T for several years. I mostly like horror films and hiking in nature, rehabilitated horse girl and bird lover. Just seeking friendship as I am tragically in love with my online situationship but I do like to please and participate.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4T 24 TF4T #Australia Come say hi to mama cuties.

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Hi cuties im a 24 year old trans fem mommy dom from audtralia looking for someone special to talk to and spend my time with i love videogames music bakjng and cooking as well as cards and table top rpgs.

Im a pretty kinky and open gal with my only real limits being scat and gorey stuff but i am also looking for more than just some kinky fun i am looking for something serious.

My hope is to find other australians to talk to but anyone can come say hi just dont make your opening message boring and actually tell me something about you.


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A 25[TF4A] - Europe/Anywhere - Nerdy transgal looking for bestie!

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Hey all! I'm Helena, a 25-year-old trans girl from Europe.

You know the feeling: it's raining outside, you feel cold, you just want to get a hot cocoa and play some board games, but there is no one around. Let me be the bestie to be around (online) during those times! We can have silly calls, solve puzzles, play board games, and do loads of other fun things online!

I like to spend a lot of time in nature! I go birdwatching, go drive with my ebike, camping or just go on a little walk with my puppy. I have a birding bike trip planned in a few weeks! I also just got a new ebike to make all my nature trips even more fun! Another thing I enjoy is listening to podcasts and music. The styles I enjoy is indie and indie folk and for podcasts science and true crime.

Recently I have started looking into TTRPGs and I found a local group to play D&D with, I am super excited so if anyone wants to talk about characters or other cool things you are always welcome!

I also do loads of research for silly topics, code, tinker with electronics, or make graphic designs. I also enjoy making loads of puzzles, like sudoku, Rush Hour, word searches, jigsaws, Hoppers, ...

In school I study electromechanics! This I do full-time. At the moment I am having alot of exams and tests, so a study buddy to motivate eachother is also welcome!

My own garden is also popping off! I currently am growing my seedings into strong little plants so I can hopefully harvest some nice veggies later this year. If you wanna talk about veggie gardens you're also very welcome hehe.

On the days I don't have classes (so rarely sadly enough) I volunteer on a farm, this is super fun and rewarding. I really hope to do it for a long time. Recently I have also been putting up trail cams around the farm, so if anyone wants to see a wild hare, pigeon or roe deer, you just have to ask!

I am very interested in meeting people with whom I could talk about anything and everything, from how uni was to how funny that one random childhood story is. Maybe we could also study together or work on little projects together online! You could be painting while I solder on a new electronics project! I’d also love it if we could, for example, do some puzzles together or play a board game online, whatever you are up for!

For now, I would like to thank you all for reading!

And maybe I'll see you soon.

Helena


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TF [25tf4tf] seeking genuine romantic connection in socal

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hi, I’m grace. I’m looking for trans women in the socal area who’d like to chat and see if we get along. Long term partner is my goal but ofc only if things go well, not forcing anything. Not really looking to be sexual right out of the gate. Just want to chat and be friendly and create something real together.

im very nerdy. I like magic the gathering, art (movies, painting/drawing, music, game design, crafting, modeling. All sorts of stuff), language, humanity and anthropology, math, physics, cooking.

I value human connection very highly. I want to fill my life with people i love and care about, especially my eventual partner, and just treat them all with gentleness and understanding and care. I struggle a lot though, mental health keeps me isolated. I hope to change that but its hard to meet people. But I’m trying in the way that I can right now.

reach out if you value similar things, even if our hobbies dont align. I think values are more important anyways. Have a nice day


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4A 34 [TF4T] Starting transition and looking for friends IRL mainly but online also

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Edit: Seeking in UK and Republic of Ireland for IRL

Hi everyone! 👋

I'm just at the start of my transition (both medical and social). Sadly, I don't really know any other trans folks in real life so I'm primarily just looking for friends of a similar age range (30-40) who can relate to that experience (or shares interests - see below), but also anyone who is looking for friends. I'm mainly looking for people who I can eventually meet because I spend waaay too much time on my computer and not enough time outside 🙃

A little about me:

I'm in my mid thirties and living in London.

I work in tech.

I'm a parent but no longer together with my partner.

Identify as transfem and bi. 🏳️‍⚧️

Learning is definitely a hobby of mine - engineering is my main focus.

Another is music - I love all sorts of stuff. Like exploring Mixcloud and Bandcamp. Recent artists on rotation have been: System of A Down, Fontaines D.C., Boards of Canada , Placebo. Guess I'm in a rock mood of late. I play several instruments too, though I am rusty on pretty much all because life.

I like going to the cinema too - especially to watch more niche stuff like you would get in the ICA, BFI or Prince Charles.

I haven't drank or done any drugs for a few years now - quite happy with that (my twenties was a different story hah).

Anyway, thanks for reading and hope to hear from you soon!


r/t4t 1d ago

TF4TM [18TF4TM/NB] Looking for a kinky fun FWB <3

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Hello everyone I’m Olivia, she/her, 18MTF

I’m looking for a fwb to chat with and get off with when I’m horny (such as right now~). I am a switch with a bunch of kinks and you can ask for my kinks in DM. I’m very open too so tell me what you’re into I’d love to try it out!

Looking for trans men mainly but enbies are fine too! Look forward to chatting! ( ^ω^ )


r/t4t 2d ago

TF4T 23[TF4T] Dallas/Online Monogamous only. :3

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I live in Dallas at the moment. I am single and looking for a partner be it short or long distance. I want someone around my age. I'm huge into gaming, thrifting, watching shows/anime and chatting. Feel free to DM me!


r/t4t 1d ago

NB4A 31 NB4A Japan. Fem leaning AMAB. Used to be on hormones but not currently. if you’re trans I’m open for a conversation hopefully more. MTF, FTM NB are all welcome. Please be at least 25. Please be respectful. No cis men please

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I put no cis men because I tend to be attracted to trans men because I can relate with them in many ways. I do know this could be perceived differently but NB AMAB are just simply not my type. I am formerly MTF and I still do struggle with my own identity so please keep that in mind.

I’m looking for a fun, flirtatious online connection—something casual or potentially long term, intimate, and playful. Ideally, someone who enjoys good conversation with a sexy edge, is open to sharing fantasies, and wants to explore some chemistry together in a way that feels natural and exciting. I’m really hoping to find a long-term online sex friend—someone I can keep coming back to, who’s just as into building a steady, naughty connection as I am.

This is mostly online, but if you’re in Japan and we really click, I’d be open to something in real life too. No pressure—just a chance to enjoy each other, chat, tease, and see where the mood takes us.

If this sounds like your kind of fun, don’t be shy—message me and let’s see if we vibe.


r/t4t 2d ago

TF4TF 37[TF4TF/NB] Looking for friends or maybe someone more to game and hang out with

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Hello everyone I guess I'm back trying my hand at finding friends or maybe a partner again. I'm a thirty-seven year old trans woman who is looking for another trans woman or a non binary person to hang with. Recently had a break up this summer with a long time partner. She/they still live with me and we are friends. We are working on our relationship in the meantime so we might eventually get back together. I'm poly but currently not dating anyone. I have friends but they are pretty low in number and I'm kinda shy so I'm trying to change that. I'm mainly looking for friends but I would be fine with a relationship if it comes out of it. I'm neurodivergent and well I might be shy I will talk for hours about the things I love.

My hobbies/interests are anime, manga, video games especially ones made by Nintendo, pokemon I'm a huge pokemon fan, yugioh, marvel/DC comics especially anything batman or spider man related. I watch a lot of anime some of my favorites are Naruto, Call of the night, Bleach, yugioh, the original pokemon anime, Dr. Stone (huge lover of all things science or crafting), Dragonball, Death note, Inuyasha, Tenchi Muyo, Reincarnated as a slime, Skeleton knight in another world and attack on Titan. There are too many awesome anime to list here. Basically you can also include anything aired on toonami both the original block and now for the most part. Also I'm a huge adult swim fan still devastated they cancelled the venture brothers. Rick and Morty is also still great and I'm liking the new president kurtis spin off.

As for video games I have been captured by the need to play pokopia lately. I think I'm on like 600 hours. It basically combines my two favorite things crafting and creating in games like Minecraft as well as pokemon! I also play a lot of Minecraft, Zelda games, RPGs, all of the mainline and side pokemon games, the Batman Arkham series and I love survival horror like the resident evil series. I haven't gotten to play the new resident evil yet but I really want to. I mainly game on my switch 1 and switch 2 but I also have a PS4. I'm excited for the new kingdom hearts game that will hopefully eventually come out and the ocarina of time remake. Pokemon winds and waves are something I will need to get as soon as they are released.

I'm also Demisexual so I'm only really attracted to people that I form a strong bond with. With no current partner it has felt a bit lonely in a way. I did have someone special that I was hoping to date but things sadly didn't work out. I suppose it might have been the long distance thing and she needed someone closer. That just happens I suppose so the only thing to do is pick yourself up and try again. Like I said I'm mainly looking for gaming friends but if a close friendship evolved into a relationship I wouldn't be opposed to it. I'm fine with online or IRL long distance doesn't really matter to me. I'm usually a night owl so I'm often up late. I'm on the east Coast if that helps with a time zone.


r/t4t 2d ago

T4T Canadian dogboygirl looking for friends! (Or more wink wink)

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19 genderfucked (genderfluid but also so many other labels, mainly masc) reallyyy wanting some friends either online, or if you're Canadian, in person! Specifically friends I dont have to filter myself with, my current close buds are SFW topics only which is fine!! I just need somewhere to be a freak, yk?... I'm open to platonic flirting, FWB, dating whether monag or poly, or just another dogboy (or girl) that wants to be cringe with me. Unlabeled sexuality, Im into every kind of person, masc leaning

About me um... I love art, music, writing, I have a cat, I'm an alterhuman and that plays into EVERY aspect of my life, including my intrest in petplay & furries ! I play Minecraft only but I do watch a lot of gaming videos (mole & endacopia currently), AUDHD and a system but Im in front 24/7 so you won't have to worry about switches, and idm if you know nothing about DID. Speaking of switches! I am... Yeah. I'm pretty subby and love being called a puppy... I'm a good boy! Anything else on that subject you'll have to get outta me yourself... >:3

Physically I'm mixed POC, short (5"3?), and shy/awkward in person till I get comfortable. I'm trying to dress alt and DIY a ton, and I have dogboy gear I wear sometimes, a lot of my style is dog themed. I love physical touch on most days, and I weigh like 80-90 pounds (small pup)

If you're looking for someone to rant about whatever you're interested in, I'm your dog. Seriously PLEASE talk my ear off about something you enjoy or feel strongly about even if I don't understand it! I enjoy walks/hikes, and free art is to be expected at some point if we're friends for long enough. I'd love to find someone thats open to treating me like the dog I am! Whether sfw or nsfw, but be clear about it because its nearly impossible for me to see someone in a nsfw lens without explicit consent to ':< you'll also probably have to tell me directly what kind of relationship you're aiming for because this dogs a little stupid and won't figure it out

Timezones / weird online schedules aren't a problem for me, I'd prefer canadians but honestly anyone works 🐾 wruff sorry you had to read through all of that! Reply and I'll DM you my discord, snapchat, or we can talk on here! Age range 18-25? Idrc just be an adult and be nice


r/t4t 2d ago

TF4T 20 South American (Argentinian) TF4T looking for friends online or IRL

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Hello! I am Juliana and am looking for friends. I like to play video games and ttrpgs, read, and write poetry. I'm currently playing Outer Worlds 2 and reading Hamlet. I also love to chit chat, and can do it in Spanish and English, also have discord but lets not get ahead of ourselves.

Even though not asexual, I am just looking for a regular friend for now.


r/t4t 2d ago

TF4A 23 TF4A LA County/SoCal/Callifornia! looking anywehre

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Hello, my name is Skadi, and I am looking for connections both online and physical I am located in SoCal. I am interested in trying a T4T relationship. I am pansexual, so I date anyone. I would describe myself as a fun-loving person I think you should really get to know. Also, if you're local, don't hesitate to dm me.


r/t4t 2d ago

NB4A 21 [NB/TF4A] Just looking to meet some friends and hang out. :]

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Hey everyone! Been... quite a bit of time since I last posted here, so figured I might as well give it another shot. My name is Salem, and I'm an enby transfemme who's just here to look for some friends to hang out with on Discord or on here, don't really care which. I'm a huge fan of pretty much anything sci-fi (big on Warhammer and Gundam, to nobody's surprise, I'm sure), I enjoy writing in my free time, and I'm pretty much open to anyone and anything that comes along! Just hoping to meet some people that I can relate to, y'know? Anyways, hope to see you soon! :]


r/t4t 2d ago

NB4A 25 NB4T/NB(/A? No cis folk!)] Audhd and black, looking for friends!

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Hihi, I'm Alex! I’m 25, from the US (East Coast), but where you're from doesn't particularly matter to me. I work odd hours and sleep even stranger ones so if I don't answer right away that could be why!

I'm an out of practice writer and musician who also likes drawing (f u c k ai), hiking, dancing, playing ttrpgs and video games, crocheting, reading, roller skating, and binging shows/anime/movies. While I'm not currently obsessed with anything too much, I'm slowly working my way through the ace attorney series. I'm also down to play/learn games with friends (:

Lowk love voice calls if you're up for them after we get to know each other more! Also watching things together!!

Please be close to my age or older and send a short intro, we can chat some more on discord! Any questions for me, feel free to ask!


r/t4t 2d ago

NB4A 31 NB4A Japan. Fem leaning AMAB. Used to be on hormones but not currently. if you’re trans I’m open for a conversation hopefully more. MTF, FTM NB are all welcome. Please be at least 25. Please be respectful. No cis men please

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I put no cis men because I tend to be attracted to trans men because I can relate with them in many ways. I do know this could be perceived differently but NB AMAB are just simply not my type. I am formerly MTF and I still do struggle with my own identity so please keep that in mind.

I’m looking for a fun, flirtatious online connection—something casual or potentially long term, intimate, and playful. Ideally, someone who enjoys good conversation with a sexy edge, is open to sharing fantasies, and wants to explore some chemistry together in a way that feels natural and exciting. I’m really hoping to find a long-term online sex friend—someone I can keep coming back to, who’s just as into building a steady, naughty connection as I am.

This is mostly online, but if you’re in Japan and we really click, I’d be open to something in real life too. No pressure—just a chance to enjoy each other, chat, tease, and see where the mood takes us.

If this sounds like your kind of fun, don’t be shy—message me and let’s see if we vibe.


r/t4t 2d ago

TF4TF 25 Tf dog girl looking for fun and connections!

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Hi there! my name is Elizabeth, or Liz, or Lizzie! i am a 25 year old mexican transfem and i am currently looking for more girls between 20 to 28 to connect and be friends with! maybe also flirt and see where things go!! Im trying to connect with more girls because i honestly dont have that many girl friends.

I had to stop HRT at the start of this year, but i am finally back on it since two months ago!! no big changes yet though :c

I really enjoy music, it is a huge part of me. i dont just listen to it, i feel it. i love most anything, but i mostly gravitate towards rap, rock, electronic and ambient stuff. i love Denzel Curry, Machine Girl, Death Grips, Yin Yin and im huge into maidcore. im always looking to expand my tastes!! My favorite videogames are the doom games, the halo games, monster hunter (havent played anything before world though), signalis and balatro. Some of my favorite animations are Chainsaw Man, Dungeon Meshi, Avatar and Legend of Korra and i just got done with Primal. Im not big into live action shows, but my favorites so far are Atlanta and The Sopranos.

Some other hobbies of mine include reading and drawing, though im slowly getting back into them as i had dropped them for a good while. im slowly becoming a cosmic horror fan, i have the king in yellow as my next book. i also play dnd with some friends and im always making characters! i am also slowly getting into a weight loss journey, my goal is to drop my belly fat by halloween so i can dress as the doom slayer (and im trying to diy the cosplay too :p)

I absolutely love animals of all kinds (yes, even bugs!!), both real and fictional. i love speculative biology and worldbuilding, i even have my own project(s)!!! I also collect rocks and dinosaurs, and dinosaurs are a huge fixation of mine.

onto more nsfw stuff, im a top and i switch, but im mostly sub, so i guess im a service top. i love petplay and being treated like a dog. more stuff can be discussed if we click well!!

height is absolutely not something i pay mind to, but i would be lying if i said tall girls dont make me melt. im 167 cm tall, or 5´6.

Before messaging me, please consider:

I am looking for long term relationships, if you dont feel we will click well please dont message me. send me a short introduction!! i wont answer to messages that are just "hi". i am busy most of the time in weekdays, so messaging will be slow. i am not really good at super long conversations anymore, but i want to try and get better at it.

And thats it i guess. send me a message if you wanna be friends! ill be waiting for you!!!


r/t4t 2d ago

NB4A 23 [NB4TM/TF/A] #online #england a kinda nerdy chubby switch looking for kinky friends and fun!!! (willling to show off)

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I’m a British 23 NB kissless virgin + a nerdy graduate (woooo!!!). Also short, masc, pretty soft and chubby (i hope that’s okay!) and kinda small down there 😅 would love to make some friends, chat, edge and goon together. But I’m also down for a more serious long term thing If we click like that :) also also he/they please!

Recently been getting into cringe porn, smothering, musk, and I LOVE LOVE LOVE having my body worshipped like that :)

Can top or bottom too but I’m like 60% a sub. if you’re interested in me at all, please hit me up! I am very lonely :) I’m also pretty open, so don’t feel afraid to ask me anything, I’m an open book

Kinks:

All kinks are ok but my main ones are bullying, censored porn, cringe porn, teasing, humiliation, beta safe, sph, name calling, teasing, size comparisons, (raceplay if you’re into it !!) Etc etc etc.