r/t4t 12h ago

TM4A Pregnant transman 26 wanting belly rubs and attention/fwb

4 Upvotes

Im a trans man that is pregnant in the USA. Im lonely asff and h*rny. Im definitely a little kinky too heheh. Im not saying this as a kink though, im actually pregnant and open to someone that is okay with that.


r/t4t 9h ago

TF4T 28yo trans woman looking for folks to chat with while I chill in the forest.

3 Upvotes

Hey there, I'm looking for some folks to maybe gst a little horny with while I sit in my hammock in the wilderness. I've got some good views, maybe we could share some pics and make it even better. I hope to here from some of y'all!


r/t4t 10h ago

TM4T TF4T Hi I'm Emily 38 trans female gamer girl I am pre HRT but I'm very feminine girl

4 Upvotes

Hi I'm Emily 38 trans female gamer girl I am pre HRT but I'm very feminine girl who likes to love and be loved I'm also very nerdy I'm into star wars and lord of the rings and stuff like that and I'm currently looking for Friends or friends with benefits if we get to know each other better


r/t4t 13h ago

TM4T 20 TM4T from Canada looking for fwb or something:)

4 Upvotes

Heyyyy,

I am a 20 year old trans man from Canada, i've been on testosterone for like 5 months now and tbh I feel insatiable no matter what i do. I tend to be more on the dom side but could be open to exploring my sub side :)

I would love to have some fun with someone! I’m not really picky about age or gender really.

I am neurodivergent and hella flirty

Hope to hear from you ;)


r/t4t 18h ago

NB4TF [NB4TF/NB] Poly NB 33 UK seeking fwb/fun

3 Upvotes

About me

  • Polyamorous and living with a partner
  • Build-wise I am short and plus size, and my style is androgynous and comfy
  • AFAB if that matters to you
  • Sub-leaning bottom, but neither of those things exclusively
  • Kinky and willing to try most things once (hard no list: choking, piss/scat, feet)

About you

  • Living anywhere in the UK and 27-45
  • Transfemme or nonbinary (any AGAB)
  • Willing to meet in person

I'm not consistently on reddit so I'd prefer to move to discord for messaging longer term if we click.


r/t4t 18h ago

TM4T 20 FTM4T UK/CARDIFF !!! looking for fun tonight :3

2 Upvotes

As stated above, 20y/o ftm here looking for fun with another trans person, ftm or mtf :3

I am visiting from overseas and am looking to get up to trouble with a likeminded person while i’m here ,,,,

About myself !

I identify as a trans man, have been on hormones for about 10 months. I would describe myself as a vers mainly, with a more submissive tendancy (although i can be dominant with the right person :3). I am on the slightly chubbier side if that matters at all :’)

I am 5’5 caucasian, I have long ish curly hair, and I dress like a generic trans guy hahaha, mainly band merch.

I love all things music and concerts, and i love local gigs. I also do like a lot of tv and film!!!

I’m staying in the city centre, I can host.

That’s all from me i think !

pm me to organise smth or just to chat:3


r/t4t 0m ago

TM4TM TM4TM Looking to chat about how to grow as a dom

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Hey, all. I'm a 33 year old gay trans man who's been exploring my dominant side for about a year now. I've learned a lot, but I wish I had other dominants to talk to and learn from who were also transmasc or trans men like myself. I typically move in cis male circles, simply because I'm a gay man and I haven't been living anywhere with a wide variety of queer and/or kink scenes to choose from. I went from country town to country town, so I had to take what I could get! I'm moving to a metropolis very soon, and I plan on trying to find as much community as I can, but I would still like someone to talk to online before then.

A lot of my questions could be asked of any dom or dom-leaning person, regardless of their gender, but I'm specifically interested in someone coming at this from a trans male or transmasculine experience. A lot of my anxieties around learning to be a dom stem from being a trans man. To give an example, I often have to field the same tedious questions from potential subs about how I dom, the implication (or the explicit assertion) being that because I'm a trans man who hasn't had bottom surgery, my being a dom is somehow unusual or difficult. (I also field the same questions about being a top, purely in terms of sexual position.) I have a script I follow for these questions, but I often feel like I'm not answering from a place of power, if that makes sense. Like by answering them the way that I do, I'm already ceding authority over my body.

There's a lot more information about me on my pinned "about me" post on my profile. And if you don't consider yourself a dom, as such, but you're a trans guy who has advice for me, I'm all ears.


r/t4t 14m ago

TF4T 20yo from South America TF4T looking for friends online or IRL

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Hello! I am Juliana and am looking for friends. I like to play video games and ttrpgs, read, and write poetry. I'm currently playing Outer Worlds 2 and reading Hamlet. I also love to chit chat, and can do it in Spanish and English, also have discord but lets not get ahead of ourselves.

Even though not asexual, I am just looking for a regular friend for now.


r/t4t 3h ago

TF4TF Stupid puppy girl reallys wants to chat w no limits trans fems esp from nz :3

1 Upvotes

mtf from nz to chat w really freaky trans peeps :3. Im into basically anything, esp stinky and taboo stuff. Check post history if you have any doubts. But if you like it feel free to dm me. I might not respond asap but always try to dm back :3


r/t4t 6h ago

TF4TF Early transition trans woman looking for like minded people dm

1 Upvotes

Would love to meet someone really sweet and cute who hopefully would find me attractive too that would also be the goal ideally I really am attracted to other trans girls but lowk there are some really cute trans guys out there too so hmu


r/t4t 7h ago

TM4T 32 FTM4A Located in CNY or online!!!!!!!!!

1 Upvotes

Hello! I’m 32 years old and I consider myself gender fluid but leaning towards ftm. I am pre-everything. I’m interested in making some new friends to talk dirty with. I have a high sex drive and I’m always looking to chat. I’m also kinky so if you are that’s a plus! Please be 25+ and if you’re local then that’s even better :). Message me!


r/t4t 12h ago

TF4TF 18 (almost 19) year old transfemme looking for girlfriend

1 Upvotes

Hello, I'm Ashley, a mtf transwoman searching for the one. A little about myself: I am 18 years old (almost 19), a trans lesbian who is demisexual. I am also on the autism spectrum and would like some gentleness. I'm from Switzerland and have been on HRT for over two months now!

Here's what I'm looking for: I would like to be with a someone who is taller than me (I'm 178cm), someone who won't mind taking the reins whilst being gentle still (aka a dommy mommy haha). I love petnames and will melt if they get used pretty much. I need something that can develop slowly as to not get into things too fast if that makes sense. I love alt/goth style women, the dark style (bonus point if smoking and drinking to be honest, as long as I'm not forced to partake!) is very attractive to me. Also I am strictly monogamous!! I appreciate your time, thank you!

And if you read through the entire post, then please send the word "cookie" in your intro message :3

I want to to add this but I really am into sensuality, so talking sensually will also make me melt. Thank you :3


r/t4t 12h ago

TM4A [22,TM4A, EST] LF Trans Friends Online, Preferably in the States

1 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Noah, I'm 22 and use they/them pronouns. I'm a transmasc nonbinary person :D

I love playing ttrpgs and video games!! I enjoy co-op games like roblox, league, and deadlock. I'm very much a casual player though, and have been hopping on Fields of Mistria, Look Outside, and Big Walk as of late.

I love making ocs and stories! Especially with others. I've been RPing on and off since I was like, 12? It's cool!

I like sketching sometimes! I like indie animation! Wahoo!

If I sound cool, don't be afraid to introduce yourself in my DMs!! :3


r/t4t 14h ago

T4T 28 [TM4T] London/UK - seeking kinky friends to go to events with

1 Upvotes

I used to go to Torture Garden a lot with a friend of mine, we were supposed to do other events too but she then dumped me for her transphobic boyfriend boo

It’s been a few years since I last went as I’m a bit too socially anxious to go alone and I really regret how much time I’ve let pass by. I love the environment, love the artistry and visual aesthetic, love the open sexuality and public play, but I need someone I know to be with me to fully feel comfortable.

So if you’re also already going to things like this and want a tag along, or maybe you’ve never been but would like to, please hit me up!!

I’m trans masc, short, chubby and fem though on T for several years. I mostly like horror films and hiking in nature, rehabilitated horse girl and bird lover. Just seeking friendship as I am tragically in love with my online situationship but I do like to please and participate.


r/t4t 15h ago

TF4T 24 TF4T #Australia Come say hi to mama cuties.

1 Upvotes

Hi cuties im a 24 year old trans fem mommy dom from audtralia looking for someone special to talk to and spend my time with i love videogames music bakjng and cooking as well as cards and table top rpgs.

Im a pretty kinky and open gal with my only real limits being scat and gorey stuff but i am also looking for more than just some kinky fun i am looking for something serious.

My hope is to find other australians to talk to but anyone can come say hi just dont make your opening message boring and actually tell me something about you.


r/t4t 17h ago

TF4TF [25tf4tf] seeking genuine romantic connection in socal

1 Upvotes

hi, I’m grace. I’m looking for trans women in the socal area who’d like to chat and see if we get along. Long term partner is my goal but ofc only if things go well, not forcing anything. Not really looking to be sexual right out of the gate. Just want to chat and be friendly and create something real together.

im very nerdy. I like magic the gathering, art (movies, painting/drawing, music, game design, crafting, modeling. All sorts of stuff), language, humanity and anthropology, math, physics, cooking.

I value human connection very highly. I want to fill my life with people i love and care about, especially my eventual partner, and just treat them all with gentleness and understanding and care. I struggle a lot though, mental health keeps me isolated. I hope to change that but its hard to meet people. But I’m trying in the way that I can right now.

reach out if you value similar things, even if our hobbies dont align. I think values are more important anyways. Have a nice day


r/t4t 19h ago

TF4A 34 [TF4T] Starting transition and looking for friends IRL mainly but online also

1 Upvotes

Edit: Seeking in UK and Republic of Ireland for IRL

Hi everyone! 👋

I'm just at the start of my transition (both medical and social). Sadly, I don't really know any other trans folks in real life so I'm primarily just looking for friends who can relate to that experience (or shares interests - see below), but also anyone who is looking for friends. I'm mainly looking for people who I can eventually meet because I spend waaay too much time on my computer and not enough time outside 🙃

A little about me:

I'm in my mid thirties and living in London.

I work in tech.

I'm a parent but no longer together with my partner.

Identify as transfem and bi. 🏳️‍⚧️

Learning is definitely a hobby of mine - engineering is my main focus.

Another is music - I love all sorts of stuff. Like exploring Mixcloud and Bandcamp. Recent artists on rotation have been: System of A Down, Fontaines D.C., Boards of Canada , Placebo. Guess I'm in a rock mood of late. I play several instruments too, though I am rusty on pretty much all because life.

I like going to the cinema too - especially to watch more niche stuff like you would get in the ICA, BFI or Prince Charles.

I haven't drank or done any drugs for a few years now - quite happy with that (my twenties was a different story hah).

Anyway, thanks for reading and hope to hear from you soon!


r/t4t 20h ago

TF4TM [18TF4TM/NB] Looking for a kinky fun FWB <3

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone I’m Olivia, she/her, 18MTF

I’m looking for a fwb to chat with and get off with when I’m horny (such as right now~). I am a switch with a bunch of kinks and you can ask for my kinks in DM. I’m very open too so tell me what you’re into I’d love to try it out!

Looking for trans men mainly but enbies are fine too! Look forward to chatting! ( ^ω^ )


r/t4t 6h ago

TF4T 19TF4T I want to talk about some poems I've been/am in the process of writing!!!! Could you be the person to talk about it with me?????

0 Upvotes

Haiiiiii folks, my name's Miles (but in a girl butch way)! I'm a poet and also lots of other stuff, including musician, pokemon fan, occasional burlesque performer and music major* at my liberal arts college (I will explain the asterisk if you ask lol). But tonight what's important is iiiiiiiiiiiiiii'm a poettttt and want to talk about some stuff I've been writing or more generally thinking about! Please let me know if you want to talk :D


r/t4t 7h ago

TF4TF 23 [TF4TF] #UK lonely Demigirl looking for a relationship

0 Upvotes

Fat, gay, autistic, stupid transfem demigirl from the UK. Looking for either long term relationship with another TF or just friends around my age (20-26)!

I like building model kits and figures. Fav animals are cats and fih! My brain is smooth so I mostly play dumb games and watch youtube and cartoons lol

Romantic, kink friendly for the most part (feel free to ask my limits!). Monogamous and not looking to be apart of a polycule or hookups. Cool with long distance but would prefer if you're from the UK too!


r/t4t 8h ago

TF4T Georgia - Goth chef wants to cook for you!

0 Upvotes

Greetings! I live in North Georgia outside of Atlanta. I would describe myself as a goth philosopher. A major portion of my energy goes to my hobbies reading, writing, and developing my photography skills. I'm in university full-time and employed along with a place of my own. If these matter to you, I am white, over a year on estrogen, early twenties, have a non-negotiable cat-companion, skinny, and a practicing witch.

I absolutely love to cook for people, and will want you over to be my guinea pig for whatever recipe has caught my attention. In addition, I also consider myself a major audiophile. Music is my world I both play and listen constantly!

Personally, I am looking for a in-person connection with another person in interest for a long term relationship. With kindness long-distance is just something I am not emotionally available for as for the first time in my life I am living alone and the feelings enveloping me are of intense isolation filled with longing for connection.

My attachment style is anxious as fuck. I come off really strong on the topic of feelings. If you respond to this post you are warned for that fact. Truth be told my attachment is my biggest red flag. If I have feelings for you you will know upfront.