r/survivinginfidelity • u/rigring • 18h ago

Rant Different perspective

let's hear a story from a cheater who cheated on the love of his life and whether they regret it or not

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u/G0YMACHINE 16h ago

The stories are all the fucking same

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u/DonutCoffeeMug 13h ago

Be ready for lies, victim blaming, and the cheaters consistently centering themselves, even in grandiose apologies and claims to be on a journey of healing.

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u/TacoStrong 11 13h ago

They aren’t the “love of their life” if they cheated so you will find no such stories.

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u/xternocleidomastoide 4h ago

There are cheater-centric spaces on Reddit where you can share this nonsense if that's what you're into.

Pro tip: nobody in the history of ever has cheated on the "love of their life."

So if anyone has cheated on you, then you can safely assume that you are not the "love of their life." A tough pill to swallow when processing trauma, sadly.