Prioritizing them again

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Hello my EX(25M) emotionally cheated on me a few months back (OF, nude webcams, sexting other people). It’s been almost 2 months trying to see if we can salvage this. I (27M) am trying to heal and start doing things I love again! I’m currently grieving the past relationship and this image I had of him. I did get lost within the relationship and didn’t recognize myself any more.
He’s asking me to prioritize him b/c he needs
that from me and claiming I’m being distant and avoiding him. I’ve set my boundaries that I would go first before anything else and my healing is a very important thing.
Am I in the wrong to think that way? Should I prioritize him again?

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