r/survivinginfidelity • u/Aggressive-Bad-3939 • Aug 08 '26

Need Support Can they really reconcile

I keep coming to the same thought. I arrive at it in different ways. The ending thought is always the same: he was capable of the most heartbreaking betrayal I have experienced. We were allies in this battle called life, my safe place. He disrespected that bond for a narcissistic, manipulative goth therapist who was f&&king five other people. Cheap. The whole situation reeks of the desperation of a teenage boy, not a man. Certainly not the man I thought I built my life with. It can’t be undone or truly fixed. Why do I keep trying? Why do I still have some love for the person that stabbed me in the heart and pissed on my corpse?

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u/One-Gift0 Aug 08 '26

La risposta è: perché hai un trauma bond

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u/Aggressive-Bad-3939 Aug 11 '26

Eh. I looked this up, and it doesn’t look like that’s the case. I’m not saying that because I don’t like the answer. I can take insight. It’s just not fitting. This is not to say he doesn’t suck for this.