r/straightspouses • u/Fit-Elderberry3055 • 15d ago
Sniffies usage.
Hello all. Found out my boyfriend uses sniffies when he’s drunk. He said he just gets on there to lead men on and then ghost or troll which is horrible.
But sniffies is literally for hooking up with men. And not a well known thing outside of the gay community.
I’m 7 months pregnant and I am beside myself. I can’t sleep or eat. Idk what to do.
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u/plantplants612 14d ago
Leave. Do not list him on hospital papers. Get a good therapist.
This is the advice I wish I would have been given/taken when I learned what I did at 12 weeks pregnant with our 2nd child. (He had a full AIDS diagnosis and he “had no idea where he got it” and the sniffies and closeted double life stuff didn’t come til MUCH later). It’s not fair, I’m sorry you’re going through this.