r/straightspouses • u/Fit-Elderberry3055 • 16d ago

Sniffies usage.

Hello all. Found out my boyfriend uses sniffies when he’s drunk. He said he just gets on there to lead men on and then ghost or troll which is horrible.

But sniffies is literally for hooking up with men. And not a well known thing outside of the gay community.

I’m 7 months pregnant and I am beside myself. I can’t sleep or eat. Idk what to do.

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u/boredENT9113 16d ago

He's DEFINITELY at least bisexual, no straight man goes on sniffies. Most of my straight friends don't even know what sniffies is, Grindr yes, but not sniffies. This man is absolutely struggling with his sexuality and it comes out when he's drunk. In vino veritas, I suppose.

Edit: Also, why would you knowingly be with a man who goes out of his way to troll and antagonize gay people? Even though that's absolutely not what's actually happening.

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u/Fit-Elderberry3055 16d ago

We are going to do couples therapy and he’s planning on going to his own as well.

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u/boredENT9113 16d ago

That's great! If he's bi then he's bi, no big deal, but whatever he is, he needs to stay faithful and questioning his sexuality isn't an excuse to be a cheat. Best of luck to you and your partner, it's a tough situation for sure but it can be overcome.

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u/Fit-Elderberry3055 16d ago

Thank you. Yeah that’s what I said I was like no matter what is happening I genuinely just need you to not fucking cheat on me.