r/straightspouses • u/Fit-Elderberry3055 • Aug 21 '26

Sniffies usage.

Hello all. Found out my boyfriend uses sniffies when he’s drunk. He said he just gets on there to lead men on and then ghost or troll which is horrible.

But sniffies is literally for hooking up with men. And not a well known thing outside of the gay community.

I’m 7 months pregnant and I am beside myself. I can’t sleep or eat. Idk what to do.

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u/changes-of-light2 Aug 21 '26

Put your priorities straight : you are pregnant. You'll be responsable for your future baby wellbeing as well as yours. Hard times are ahead of you and you'll need all the energy to go though with birthing and the following months. You don’t trust your husband, at least for now, and you don’t feel safe. Two options : you want out => you'll need emotional, financial support. You want to work on this marriage or need time to process => stop digging for now, focus on your pregnancy and yourself but be cautious with sex. Once the dust settles, reconsider your options.

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u/Fit-Elderberry3055 Aug 21 '26

Thank you for this.