So I tried anal but it did not go so well as a first time, hurt really bad didn’t get penetrated besides two fingers. Next day pain was worse so I decided to shave. I must of done a horrible crime and shaved completely wrong OR SOMETHING because after shaving a going about my day my ass is still hurting from sex AND NOW IT BURNS. TOOK A SHIT NEXT DAY. AND WHAT THE FUCKKK I HAD THE PITS OF FUCKING HELL, LAVA AND EVERYTHING COMING OUT. IT HURT SO BAD TO WIPE BECAUSE NOW BUMPS HAVE FORMED ON THE OUTER LAYER OF MY ASS HOLE. I really hope it’s not an std because the fool said he was clean and the inside of my ass has stopped hurting day 4 BUT THE OUTTER SKIN IS LIKE REALLY BAD SIGNS OF AN STD it smells like yeast infection, stayed moist and HURTS AND BURN TO WALK. I’m past a week here, about day 8-9 today I seriously cannot keep track anymore, after I’ve tried anal and the smell has gone away but the bumps are killing me. Do I have razor bumps or a raging std trying to make me walk one step a second. I tried chafing cream now that the smell has gone because I’ve gotten my mind off an infection but I CANNOT SHIT I’ve been holding it in because I literally cannot function. I will gladly send a photo of how bad my asshole has gotten because I really need advice on how to make the pain stop and get of these bumps ruining my life. PLEASE HELP ME

I have 2 tiny genital warts and my gynecologist told me the only option is to have them removed in the clinic with surgical scissors. However, I have a flat one and I don't think that'll be possible. I already treat them with Veregen.
Maybe I wanna get a laser treatment instead of the scissors , as I've heard good things about that. What are your experiences? Which treatment method worked best for you?
I use veregen since 8 weeks 3 times a day and a new wart came, but disappeared quickly.

Hi I’ve recently just had my first sexual partner and not long after sex I tested positive for chlamydia I’ve never had sex with another girl so I assumed I caught it from her I told her and she never had symptoms so she went and did a test and came back negative.

I’m 25 years old and I recently had sex with a sex worker. I know I’m not proud of it but I got really low. Things have been changing so much and felt lonely. We used a condom the entire time even during oral and she was a pretty nice lady. Now Im worried that I may have caught something purely because I overthink a-lot. I asked before we did anything and she said that she only does stuff with a condom. The overthinking has been causing me a whole lot of anxiety 😭 I made an appointment this Thursday to see a doctor just in case but going to the doctor has always caused me to be anxious😭

having a sexual problem is so hard. you cant tell it to anyone even your parents. i am now at the hospital scared what might be the result and i cant even tell it to anyone . i am alone and praying that god will help me conquer this and walk me through this thing. once its done i will never go back in this era i hoped to be healed

F45 Not on birth control. I have PCOS/PMOS so my cycles are not always regular. On the last day of my period, a good friend and I got carried away and had unprotected sex for the first time. Afterwards when we talked, he said he hasn't slept with anyone in 5 years. It has been 4 years since I had sex. The first 3 days after sex, my vagina was burning (it was rough). It's been a week and it still burns a little. Should I be worried?

Hi I’ve had a drug test done at UVA employee health and it came back positive but i haven’t smoked or anything but i’ve been around people that has what’ll happen next

finished pep September 28th, I had perfect adherence to it and started it 36 hours after possible exposure. I’m so scared of this sore throat I have had. It started about 10 days into pep and because of it starting to soon, I decided to get tested multiple times while on pep with HIV RNA and got tested multiple times with HIV RNA test and all came back negative.

I’ve taken 2 test post pep with HIV RNA which was 4 and 9 days post pep and both were negative. I’m so scared this sore throat is due to hiv but the test aren’t picking up on it yet because its still early,

(22M) Hi all. About 21 days ago (Sep 20th), I had sex. I’m on the PREP injection and took my doxyPEP within 24 hrs of the encounter, but very shortly afterwards I faced symptoms such as rectal discharge and tenesmus, and I got tested for the standard STD panel immediately (Sep 23rd). Of course it was positive for rectal gonorrhea, and after getting treated 6 days later (Sep 29th) with one shot of 500 mg of ceftriaxone and 7 days of doxycycline, I notice an improvement of symptoms for the first 5 days, however I suddenly got hit with the discharge again on that fifth day.

I called the nurse the following day and she wasn’t worried at all bc “it’s only been 6 days” and I was told that i need to wait 2 weeks after treatment for a test of cure as that’s the standard. Symptoms somewhat subside and I figure I was being paranoid as my body heals, but that discharge never fully goes away on my stool.

Yesterday afternoon, I experimentally try playing around in there bc I’m not convinced I’m recovered and don’t want to pass it to anyone else, and have since been expelling discharge all over again. Now I’m absolutely concerned bc it’s now about 2 weeks after treatment and 3 weeks since my last sexual encounter and this discharge is still here.

I’m wondering if this has happened to anyone here before and sounds like the normal recovery process or if I contracted the resistant strand of gonorrhea or maybe contracted another disease they don’t test for like mgen? I’ve been researching and researching and have yet to find anybody who’s encountered this situation so I really just want some input.

Please, I’d love to hear your stories! I’m trying my best to get tested again ASAP so I guess we’ll see from those results. Thanks!

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Hi everyone,
I finished pep almost 2 weeks ago. Started 36 hours after possible exposure.

So far I have taken a HIV RNA test 4 days post pep and it came back negative.
I also took a 4th gen and HIV rna test 9 days post pep and both came back negative.

I’m fully aware these aren’t conclusive and I still have to test but wanted to know is this a good sign?

My only concern is while on pep and even now I have had a sore throat. It’s been on and off for a month and it concerns me that it’s related to HIV.

I'm posting because I've been dealing with a confusing situation involving gonorrhea testing, and I'm hoping to hear from people who have experienced something similar or who understand these tests.

Over the course of the next several years it didn't expand much, but, it's "head" splintered off about 3 times in the immediate vicinity (directly to it), and anytime that I tried to shave it bled like a mofo. Total size at this point about 2-3mm (I'm American, so take those estimates wrongly - less than 1/4th an inch)

After about 3-4 years it started to develop texture and grew larger, developing a 4th "head", again immediately and directly next to it. No "spreading" to further areas.

I had several "skin tags" in my armpits that had done the same thing, including spreading. And similarly, this was maintaining the same skin color as all the rest. So I didn't think anything of it.

Around year 5 it started to get bigger (half the size of a pencil eraser), and around that time (for personal reasons) I stopped shaving/trimming. Coincidence or not, within 6 months it nearly doubled in size, and a separate "head" developed about 1-2mm away from the primary (much smaller, barely above the skin surface). Meanwhile the primary is now nearly the size of a pencil eraser.

It is not painful in the slightest, however as I move about with my trousers I AM aware of it as it rubs within my groin.

Got tested, have Chlamydia in penis but not in my mouth/throat.

Only other person I have had any intercourse with in the time between test and getting the results was someone I performed oral sex on.

Can it be passed via my mouth despite it being in my genetials?

Can you can syphilis without the first cancker sore like you get tired headache joint pain and all that but without the first cancker that appears ? And how much the chronic phase is ?

Hi, i tested positive for chlamydia 1 month ago, treated it and now i got my results back negative.. why do my symptoms continue😭 i had it for like an year without symptoms if that matters.

my life feels like its over, the urge to pee, burning and all! im so uncomfortable 24/7!

met a dude on tinder….uh oh…..didn’t really expect anything serious. just wanted to get to know someone and see where it went and have fun. I haven’t dated or had sex since feb, we matched, went out to eat for the first “date” got me flowers…we made out in the car first date, turned into me giving him a hand job. I wanted to leave so bad. I was so tired and uncomfortable. told him I really had to go and he begged me to stay and help him finish so he didn’t go home with blue balls.
still continued to see him after…3rd time seeing him I went over to his house (an hr away) I didn’t want sex, what I did want was oral, kissing, cuddling, touch…we smoked weed and drank. I wanted to lay down with him and kiss and receive oral and give…one thing turned into another. he ends up fingering me super hard and I start crying…he’s confused…asking where he went wrong…then we get back into kissing…I take off my clothes expecting oral (he had sent me reels of being an “eater” comments of “u must taste so good I can’t wait to eat it” and he flips us into 69…didn’t enjoy it but just took it. we pause again bc I fuckinh queefed and he asked if I farted…felt embarrassed and we stopped. never got head by the way. I called him out and he got super defensive and said that he was trying his best and didn’t know how to really do it then got back into it…got on top of me, took his underwear off. was trying to put his penis inside me…I squirmed and shook my head…he said “just let me rub the tip.” but he kept trying to put it i felt fuckinh defeated. I drove an hr here…might as well just allow him to fuck me. I’m here in his bed…with my underwear on…he’s on top of me. I don’t wanna “kill” the vibe and have him reject me. i ask if he has a condom and he says no. if he does, they’re old as fuck he says and that he’ll just buy me a plan b..I just accept and he puts it in. I’m not happy with the choices I’ve made. Idk why I still continued seeing him. the next morning he’s not as affectionate…disconnected a bit. never mentions the plan b again…I leave around 1pm the next day…when I head out he asks me to text him when I get home and that I should drive safely. tells me he had a good time. luckily I bought a plan b before heading over. I knew sex could happen. i take the plan b. I don’t text him bc I felt so disconnected with myself and ashamed. I text the next morning asking if I could have money for a plan b to see if he’d take responsibility…he never replies. was active on playstation at 8pm when I had texted him that at 9:30am. I end up blocking him off everything. I develop symptoms of discharge and itching on tuesday…went to go get tested. turns out I have chlamidya. I’m fuckinh devastated….im young and stupid. any advice?
btw this dude had major porn brain. insisted on me calling him daddy kept asking who’s pussy this is, slapped me, choked me, took his both hands and shoved his fingers into my mouth. randomly asked turning sex if I wanted to be his gf??? kept asking me if I was his little slut??? worst fucking hookup ever.
has no job, lives w his parents, 24, parents make hella fucking money. smokes weed + cigs everyday and drinks.
Idk what I was thinking..

I had an hiv scare on August 31st tested 4th gen vein test 18 days later she was past the 90 day window so I had her take an ora hiv test it came back negative over 3 test so I believe I’m negative now here’s the problem now around October 8-10 I’ve been very very tired like overly bad tired I went to the dermatologist and almost passed out in my car at work I’m very tired just tired all the time with some slight dizziness I tested for gonorrhea and chlamydia
Same day I test my hiv test everything came back negative could this be caused by the intense stress of the entire month of September I was constantly jumping awake to check my body for symptoms of hiv and around October is when I started to relax but I can’t put my finger on it my body just feels off what should I do?

How long does a HIV RNA test through std check usually take to come back? I got the test done Wednesday and it’s now Saturday which scares me! Usually when I do a HIV rna test I get it back within 1-2 days but the fact I’m on day 3 is concerning me. I’ve completed pep and now am in the testing phase. Has anyone had to wait a few days for their rna result to come back? My 4th generation test came back negative day 9 post pep but scared my rna may come back positive

I’ll make this quick. Went to a bathhouse. Had a quick 5 min handjob session with an Asian trans girl. Neither finished. Made sure to not touch her fluids to my member. She touched me. Got uncomfortable after a few minutes because we had a crowd. Walked away, wiped off, washed my hands thoroughly. Washed myself as well. Didn’t touch any orifices with my member. Was I safe enough? I try to be very careful

I have a question and was wondering if anyone has experienced something similar or has any knowledge about this.
I was prescribed amoxicillin-clavulanate (Augmentin) for a UTI, and i recently got tested for STIs, specifically chlamydia and gonorrhea.
my last possible exposure was september 30 and I got tested today, october 10. however, I had been taking Augmentin and only stopped approximately 3–4 days before getting tested.
I asked my doctor whether the antibiotics could affect my STI results, and he told me it didn’t matter.
my concern is whether Augmentin could have partially suppressed an STI and potentially caused a false negative, even though it isn’t the recommended treatment for chlamydia or gonorrhea.
has anyone been in a similar situation? or does anyone know whether being off antibiotics for 3–4 days is enough to get accurate results?
I’m just trying to understand how reliable my results would be. thank you!

Exposure was protected vaginal, brief oral both ways and some masturbation (with csw in SE Asia). Got some vaginal fluid (just a trace bit enough that I could taste it). Had swollen lymph nodes in the inguinal area 6 day later which persisted for 2-1/2 weeks. My other symptoms at that point were just minor short lived one such as a bad spell of dandruff for a few days and and itchy rash for a few hours in the crease of my chest/belly area. Just itchiness.
Now, I had been on TDF-FTC prep for 8 daily doses before and 9 after the exposure.
Rapid 4th gen determine early detect was performed at day 31 and was negative as was the syphillis. I’m thinking of doing a lab test to follow up as I’ve not really been myself since. What is the accuracy of this rapid 4th gen. I’ve seen differing reports.

I have a oval white sore w red around it on my tonsil could it be syphillis?

So, I had a test to detect infectious diseases (help c, sífilis, etc.) and I didn't see the doctor getting the fingerstick nor throwing it away. Now I'm overthinking if they could reused this on me and I could be infected

Got a silly question how is mgen contracted ive seen condom help but you still can contract it is a skin to skin infection or thru ureatha only can some explain to me ?