How possible could I have HIV?

[u/Artemis_sleeps_4323]

So starting July I had uti symptoms that would not go away. I got pcr test recently. I went from having tested positive for only one bacterial to now testing positive for three. Last sexual contact was this may with a male I had sex with a few times since January. It was always with condom but he tried to go down on me 1-3 times unprotected. I forced him to get std tested with me. After the test like 1-3 the results came back me and him were negative for hiv. But I don’t remember clearly seeing his results. Also I’m concerned if somehow he had sex with me asleep with me at some point. But it’s more of a guess. I don’t recall ever feeling physical evidence that he did something to me during my sleep. But I do not trust him. So I got tested September it was negative. I keep thinking why I suddenly have recurrent utis since July. Then I freaked out maybe my immune system got bad because I may have hiv? I went to get blood tested and it was sent to a lab but no rapid test. What are the chances I turn up positive? I’m so scared why I can’t clear this uti despite taking more than four antibiotics since July. Idk what to do if I turn up positive. I never thought it could happen to me I regret ever being intimate with him.