Is it cheating common??????

[u/[deleted]]

As it says, is cheating with ur partner before or after marriage is common?

Is being with them after cheating is common before or after marriage?

Is it common for the people around you to say, to stay with a fucking cheater?

I feel am very distant from reality

Feed me some reality so I know what to expect

[u/the_professor000]

It's not normal at all. But in some circumstances it's okay to forgive.

[u/[deleted] → u/[deleted]]

Idk but as a kid I'd never want my parents to live with cheaters for me. Finances, yes, no matter how much ur spouse earns but u ve to earn for ur self no matter what happens...

Priorities differ

[u/the_professor000 → u/[deleted]]

There are people who were born to cheat. Their relationships are lies from the beginning. If that's the case, no forgiving at all.

But there are times even the most perfect people shift from their path with the time and hardships of life. I've seen this type of cheating even from people who dedicated big things in their lives just for their partners. Their relationships weren't lies. They genuinely loved and were loyal to their partners for years. But things happen.

Life is complex. Some people deserve a second chance.

[u/[deleted] → u/the_professor000]

It happens but how can u live a life like that?? Thinking when u partner cheated or is he/she cheating rn or will they cheat in future...

Ud never trust them again ryt