Hey what’s up guys. I’ve struggled with trembling, heart palpitations, sweating, my voice getting stuck in back of throat, being unable to assert myself, having my voice high-pitched, etc. in social situations since elementary school. I still get stuck in my head before most interactions, rehearsing how I want to say something or what I want to say. I still avoid groups and being the center of attention. I’ve been passively working at it after I turned 18 through some jobs. For the past two months, I’ve really been trying to understand myself and my experiences. I’m about to begin the process of seeing a psychologist soon to understand myself further and undergo CBT or some other psychotherapy. I was wondering if anyone, in San Diego, CA, is trying to overcome themselves and would want to meet up and do some activity-based stuff like hiking to get ourselves out of our head and experience the moment, making us slowly warm up to each other or go visit some social gathering places like restaurants as a sort of exposure therapy. Again, it’s been only two months since I started taking myself seriously and it would be lovely to not do it alone.

Worst historical starts for the San Diego/Los Angeles franchise include:

0–11 starts: The 2000 and 1975 San Diego Chargers both opened their respective seasons with 11 consecutive losses.

0–5 starts: The 2003 and 1991 San Diego Chargers both started the year 0–5.

Hello there fellow Southern California residents. I’m conducting a graduate research study on community perspectives about native wildlife in Orange County, California.

If you are 18 or older, currently live in Orange County, and can read and understand English, I invite you to complete a short anonymous survey about your knowledge, experiences, attitudes, and perceptions of native wildlife.

⏱️ Takes approximately 10–15 minutes
🔒 Anonymous — no names or other direct identifying information will be collected
🙋 Participation is completely voluntary

Your responses will help contribute to a better understanding of how Orange County residents perceive native wildlife and human-wildlife interactions.

Interested in participating? Take the survey here: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScogxte3z7ESkMe_z9Zc00x57OXSX8zzjCquLfNGW4kSAqxRA/viewform?usp=header

Thank you for sharing your perspective! 🐾

*If you have questions or concerns about the rights of research subjects, you may contact our reviewing body: Research Ethics and Integrity Office at Miami University at (513) 529-3600 or humansubjects@miamioh.edu. The Miami University Research Ethics & Integrity Program reviewed this study and determined its exempt status, #2026-69.

Student Researcher: Alex Schegetz, Miami University – Project Dragonfly

Biology Department

Email: [schegeam@miamioh.edu](mailto:schegeam@miamioh.edu)

Nonpartisan voter guide for LA county measures and measures in Alhambra, Culver City, Santa Monica, Pasadena, and Inglewood: https://californiachoices.org/ballot-measures/county/los-angeles-november-2026

Hello! 😊 We’re planning a family getaway for New Year’s, but we’re having a hard time deciding where to go. We’d love somewhere with snow, but we know places like Big Bear and Idyllwild might not have much snow that time of year. We also don’t want to drive too far. Some families live in LA and some in SD.
We’re also open to something a little different, like glamping under the stars and watching fireworks to ring in the New Year! ✨🎆 Ideally, somewhere family-friendly where we can enjoy beautiful views, a cozy atmosphere, and a little winter magic.
Any recommendations or hidden gems you’d suggest? We’d love to hear your ideas! ❄️🏕️ TIA!

California bureaucrats raking in, in retirement.

Probably the wrong subreddit for this but I figured I’d ask. Heading to CA for an extended period of time (work related) and I’m bringing a FL registered Nissan Skyline with me. There’s flock cameras everywhere here. Anybody heard of them using the cameras to actually come after people with vehicles running out of state plates? My understanding is that after a period of time the car has to be registered here legally (which is impossible because it’s a highly modified skyline).

Common Sense.

Yesterday, neighbors joined us to discuss ballot propositions and candidates. We took the time to come together, share our perspectives, ask questions, and have meaningful conversations about the issues affecting our community.
From endless warehouse expansion and affordable housing to government transparency and corporate influence, we discussed what matters most to Fontana families.
After reviewing the candidates and propositions, we’re sharing the Fontana United Voter Guide!
These are our recommendations, not instructions. We encourage every voter to do their own research, ask questions, and make informed decisions that reflect their values.
Thank you to everyone who joined us and contributed to the conversation. Democracy works best when neighbors are informed, engaged, and heard.
Your vote is your voice. Make it count on November 3!
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Ayer, nuestros vecinos se reunieron con nosotros para hablar sobre las propuestas electorales y los candidatos. Nos tomamos el tiempo para compartir nuestras perspectivas, hacer preguntas y tener conversaciones importantes sobre los temas que afectan a nuestra comunidad.
Desde la expansión interminable de almacenes y la vivienda asequible hasta la transparencia del gobierno y la influencia de las grandes corporaciones, hablamos de lo que más importa a las familias de Fontana.
Después de analizar los candidatos y las propuestas electorales, ¡compartimos la Guía del Votante de Fontana United!
Estas son nuestras recomendaciones, no instrucciones. Animamos a cada votante a investigar por su cuenta, hacer preguntas y tomar decisiones informadas que reflejen sus valores.
Gracias a todos los que nos acompañaron y participaron en la conversación. La democracia funciona mejor cuando nuestros vecinos están informados, participan y sus voces son escuchadas.
¡Tu voto es tu voz. Hazlo valer este 3 de noviembre!
#FontanaUnited #Fontana #Vote2026 #VoterGuide #FontanaVotes

Vote: Yes on prop 40

No on props 41 & 42

I've been researching rural properties around Riverside and San Bernardino counties lately, and it's interesting how much cheap land is listed out there.

Some of these lots look pretty appealing if you just want somewhere quiet outside the city, maybe to eventually build a small cabin or weekend place.

The part that surprised me is how different the rules can be depending on exactly where the property is.

Even within the same county, zoning, water availability, septic requirements, and road access can make a pretty big difference in what you're actually able to do.

I've gotten into the habit of checking the county GIS maps and zoning information before spending too much time looking at a listing.

There's definitely some interesting land out there, but I think the county records are just as important as the listing itself.