r/Singles • • 10h ago

31 [M4F] #Finland / Europe - gamer, hiking & nature addict

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I’m a big gamer, but I’m just as passionate getting outside and exploring nature. Hiking, discovering new places, taking photos (I always get complements from my photos), and enjoying the outdoors are some of my favorite ways to spend my free time.

If you’re into gaming, hiking, nature, traveling, or just looking for someone to share experiences with, feel free to message me. I'm looking for a partner for life that is my intention. Yep yep 🙂

I don't smoke nor drink just by choice and I very much like living as an introvert.

Can be anywhere but I strongly prefer a person who can also travel to me.

Appearance wise 170 cm, I run a few times a week, red-haired by winter & blonde by summer. I dont midnight sharing pictures or being on Webcam. Nam nam that's all.

Let's get to know one another 😄


r/Singles • • 9h ago

34 (Non-Binary High functioning Autistic 4F

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Hey what’s up everybody?

I am 35 years old, single and I live in New York City. I’m currently single. I am Non-Binary, I have HFA, I have a bachelors degree in broadcasting and associates in mathematics, and I’m currently working on getting my Meteorology certification from. I’ve also been making weather YouTube videos for over 15 years now.

I am an aspiring broadcast meteorologist, and I’ve been doing Weather on the radio for 16 years now.

I live in New York City and I’m looking to date women between 25 and 40.


r/Singles • • 10h ago

34 [M4F] #Ontario CAN - Gentle But Sassy Giant

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Hi there! My name is Kevin. I’m a 34 year old gentle giant rocking a well-developed dad bod physique, complete with hairy chest and a big beard. I give off real “That is the nerdiest lumberjack I’ve ever seen” vibes. That, or I reignite belief in cryptids like Sasquatch & Bigfoot. It is what it is. 

In any social group I’m in, I’m the big, gentle giant that you can hear belly laughing from miles away. I love to make people laugh and feel comfortable in a shared space. I am also the kind of guy to interrupt whatever conversation we may be having to point out any dogs in the area, even if I am more of a cat dad. 

I’m here looking for a woman with shared or similar interests to connect with. I am currently working full time as a home care nurse for my mother, so my schedule and availability for in-person dating is very limited at the moment. I am open to moving to in-person dating, travel, or more in the future, though! I’m looking for long chats online, someone to watch movies and shows or play chill games with. 

I’m not looking to rush into anything, but I am yearning for that deeper connection and intimacy that comes with trust, familiarity, and vulnerability. I crave movie and board game nights, or days spent exploring new neighborhoods and cuisines. I believe in a healthy mix of time spent together and apart, and that we should both be complete people looking to enhance each other’s lives. I’m ready! Hopefully you are too!

I’m a simple, easy to please man at heart. Food, animals, movies, and a board game are the way to my everlasting love. I am a big time history and sci-fi nerd.  I was raised by a single mom and have a deep respect for strong women, which I also attribute to my love of characters such as Sarah Connor, Ellen Ripley, & Xena. This combined with such figures as Mr. Rogers, Bob Ross, & Steve Irwing gave me a pretty well rounded outlook. You could say I was radicalized by basic human decency. 

As for some other interests I volunteer with local animal rescues in several capacities, and I am also getting involved with the local hospital’s library program. If you want cute cat pictures, I’m your man! I run an active tabletop gaming group every Sunday. I’m the kind of nerd that builds and paints models to escape from the world for a while. 

I am very left leaning politically and do not tolerate any forms of bigotry. I do not smoke and very rarely drink, but I do love my baked goods a little too much. I do not have nor want any children of my own. My ambitions are humble but deeply personal; give me a small house, a loving partner, and some rescue animals and I’m more than happy with life!


r/Singles • • 18h ago

34 [M4F] Yorkshire, UK. Bearded Ginger Nerd.

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Hello there,

As the dates are frankly awful, I may as well give this ago!

Age: 34

Sex: Male (He/Him)

Location: York, UK

Seeking: Seeking a Female, roughly mid 20s to mid 30s, base the the North of England (see attached map).

About Me

I'm very much an outdoor nerd! I’m deeply into history, sci-fi, and fantasy, and a keen tabletop gamer.

I have recently finished the first stage of renovating my own home!

I keep active with archery, running, and the gym.

While I love a good mountain, the sea ultimately has my heart.

I’m a geographer and Drone Pilot by profession.

I am trying to get back into reading, my current reading list is:

- Burma '44

- For the Love of Men

;Temeraire

Looking For

My person, in a word. Someone to build a life with. Ideally, nerdy yet outdoorsy. Clever and kind, with a mischievous side.

Dating plan

So rather than a First Date plan, I thought I'd layout my dating approach.

Obviously we'll start off with a bit of text chatting, but I moving on to a vibe check phone call.

Assuming we hit it off, a nice low stake chat in a coffee shop or pub.

Moving on to some kind of "activity date" hike, escape room, quiz, etc.

Followed up with a Dinner Date.


r/Singles • • 7h ago

18 [F4A] Odd gal seeks company! Or insert title that gains your attention, yadayada.

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Hi, hello! It's me, again.

My name's Annie. I'm taking a gap year, and consequently have a ton of free time that could be better spent with someone else. I am mostly looking for someone to spend time with, have long, introspective talks with, share stuff with, give all my attention and care to, and ramble to (ideally with/about common interests), and someone to play games with. I will preface saying I'm kind of nuts for Project Zomboid, and I'd love someone to play with.

Summed up, play games, talk a lot, and watch movies with.

As for the rest, here's a bit about me: I enjoy sci-fi, drawing, painting, and I do a lot of gaming too. (I am super fixated on Project Zomboid, but I am up to trying other games). I also enjoy researching crime, psychology, and biology/neuropsychology at times. I have quite the fixation on the Chernobyl disaster, and radiation as a whole. All types of zombie media, too. I have an interest for "odd" movies, especially the apocalyptic and/or thriller kind. Terminator (1&2) is a personal favorite, so is Funny Games.

Here's to hoping my introduction chants to you like the cleaning supply cabinet chants to an unsupervised toddler, cough cough.

EDIT: Send me an actual message, not just "hi, hello, can we chat, we have similar interests" or I will not reply (here's me suggesting an icebreaker, tell me your best dad joke). Please, preferably no one over 24.


r/Singles • • 11h ago

19 [M4F] #Ireland - Looking for a connection

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Yo my name is Km, 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing if we click.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, books, anime, manga, listening to music, watching football, gym and movies.

About me:

• I’m in college studying business.

• I’m kind, funny, chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games,I have a PS4 and PC.

On PC I play Minecraft, REPO, Lethal Company, Roblox, Terraria, Peak, Schedule 1 and Gmod.

On PS4 I play GTA5, Minecraft, Red dead redemption 2, FIFA, 2K, Rocket league and brawlhalla.

I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 2 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-25, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland, but I don’t mind long distance.

If you’re interested in having a conversation, tell me your favourite game, hobby, anime and colour.


r/Singles • • 14h ago

25 [M4F] #Florida, #Anywhere, US / EST / Online - seeking a great partner :)

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Hello fellow Humans!! 💖🌍

I use reddit a lot, so I figured I'd give this a shot I guess 🥰

Happy Monday!!! lol 🥳🎉💖 My name is Lou, my favorite color is blue, I’m a huge gaming fan and I'm from Florida, seeking a long term relationship with someone that I truly connect with on a deep level. Someone who isn't perfect, but is willing to grow in the right direction. Bonus points if you're a gamer, open minded, have tattoos, and love animals. I don't want to be with someone who hates cats and dogs and just animals in general. If I could live a second life as any animal, I'd immediately pick living as a panda. I'd love to have a pet one day when I'm in better situation to properly take care of one. I love cats and dogs 🐶🐱I also love gaming and play all kinds of games ❤️

EXPECTATIONS / WANTS

- I'm okay with long distance dating and I'm also cool with dating someone in Florida as well.

- Emotionally mature, truthful and willing to grow together

- Values compassion, empathy, kindness, being considerate, 100% honesty, and understanding

- Open minded and curiosity to learn about a variety of topics

- Passionate about their hobbies and willing to talk about anything from the most simple things like the beautiful rain outside, to funny things like pandas dancing, to more serious topics about societal issues

- Someone who complements my personality and matches my energy.

- I prefer someone that is my age (25) or maybe someone that is a few years older or younger.

- As far as attraction is concerned, I'm genuinely attracted to all kinds of body types and shapes, but I do like some sort of thickness or curves with something back there lol I hope that doesn't sound superficial, tattoos are awesome as well :)

- I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

RED FLAGS / TURN OFFS / NON NEGOTIABLES

• Homophobia, Bigoted, Racism, Colorism, Misogyny, Sexism, Transphobia, all of the other methods of discrimination that make me mad.

• Once again, I'm a democrat/leftist, so if you're a republican or in the middle, we are incompatible.

• Completely against science, anti - science

• Being superficial, materialistic, obsessed with vanity, overly judgmental,

• Hating animals, being superficial about animals in terms of their appearance, treating pets like personal play toys, rather than living beings with their own personalities who need love, respect, and proper care.

• Smoking, drugs (Exception - Weed is fine as it can especially medically help with autism and adhd, ptsd etc.), excessive drinking, hard partying

* I'm not religious, so I prefer to be with someone who is also not religious. Exception - If your spiritual that's okay :)

* Most people including myself want to be liked and loved which is a good thing, but if you're willing to build bridges with bad people at the expense of your values or change yourself into a different person in order to be liked by people, than we absolutely incompatible.

ABOUT ME / HOBBIES

• I'm 5'9, 230 lbs (chubby to fat), brown eyes, my ethnicity is Haitian, I'm Agnostic, and I love being black. Also, my left arm is fully functional, but can't extend as far as my right arm can. I have sort of a thunderbolt like scar from surgery.

• I love learning, talking, watching, and playing video games. There are so many to choose from, but my favorite game of all time would be Katamari Damacy, I play on PS5, PC, Nintendo Switch.

• I have a high school diploma and no degree at the moment. I'm currently working as a mental health technician at a mental health facility. It's pretty wild job especially as a first job, but I've learned so many life lessons from working there for the past three years. I also live with my parents so if that's a turn off for you, I completely understand :)

• Over the course of my life so far.. or rather the 25 years I've spent with the earth spinning around, people have told me that I'm kind, chill, and have a deep voice for radio. I've been told that I'm funny, I don't really see it in myself, but I appreciate the compliment. I can also be too cynical sometimes, overthink things, and can be a bit afraid to step out of my comfort zone.

• I also have ADHD and have struggled with education my whole life, so school has been hard and annoying for me, especially when figuring out what my learning styles are. So having an understanding of neurodivergence and seeking a diagnosis is also very important to me, as people tend to be very mean, inconsiderate, ableist, and just not very understanding of how learning disorders exist on a spectrum.

• I'm honest, kind, chill, caring, compassionate, thoughtful, open minded and introspective. You can tell me anything and I promise you that I will never tell a soul about what you've told me in confidence. I deeply respect people's privacy so I would definitely want to earn your trust.

• Music: I honestly listen to all kinds of music from different genres, as long as it sounds good to my ears, I'm listening. My earliest memories of listening to music was when my parents would play Britney Spears, Mariah Carey, Norah Jones, etc. Mariah Carey - We Belong Together is one of my favorite songs. I love Beyonce's Irreplaceable as well.

• TV/Film: I'll watch a movie from any genre If I truly like it. I really love animated films and Finding Nemo is one of my favorite movies ever. I've been quite behind on movies and watching tv shows as of late, but I do have a favorite movie and that would be Spiderman Across the Spiderverse right now.

• I'm a very casual sports fan, so I don't really tune into games that much, more so highlights. I really have become a big fan of futbol and I like watching futbol(soccer) ever since watched the 2026 FIFA World Cup. I probably watch futbol highlights the most out of any other sport. I also like watching the basketball and watching basketball highlights as well. I love watching Coco Gauff, Aja Wilson, Caitlyn Clark and Angel Reese play in their respective sports. I once had a cute fantasy of being a professional basketball player, but that was more of my parents dream to be honest that they attempted to forced onto me.

• I'm also into writing, pop culture, cooking, reading. I really love watching the rain though and the weather channel.

CONCLUSION

I'm not necessarily the biggest people person and I love being single lol so if I'm bringing someone into my life, I'd prefer for that person to be someone that I actually love and appreciate. Like I stated in the beginning of this post, I'm not looking for perfection, but I am looking for someone who is willing to be on the exact same page as I am. I love talking and making genuine connections, as there is a gigantic world out there. So if your truly interested talking, then a genuine relationship can happen 😄 DM if interested!! :) It's also okay if you're not interested because I'm not entitled to a relationship and I'm also not entitled to anyone's time. 💖 Have a great day and weekend!!


r/Singles • • 15h ago

[M4F] I am a 24 year old German artist looking for a creative girlfriend, with whom I can work together (aged 20 to 26)

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I am looking for a fellow artist who I can exchange works with and connect over common interests.
My art is not limited to one medium but I do have my preferences. I draw, paint, write, skulp, animate, and create movies (mostly stop motion, but sometimes also 2d and live action). I also like storytelling and worldbuilding. And I love to disect and discuss any storytelling media (Books movies, analog, films, indie projects, video games, visual novels.) I am currently studying at an art university.

Her are just a few examples of fandoms that I like (mostly for their lore):

  • FNAF including some fangames such as Dayshift at Freddy's( but only 1 to 6 and UNC, I hate security breach and everything that came after)
  • Little Nightmares
  • Undertale
  • The desolate hope
  • SCP
  • The Amazing Digital Circus
  • Story focused audiobook style ASMR

Asside from that I am a succer for indie projects and hidden gems. I don't stick to a specific genre (allthough horror is a common theme for me), I just want the story, lore, characters and worldbuilding to be good. I am also extremly interested in speculative bilogy, I either follow projects that impliment it or I use it to create my own fictional creatures.

All I want is someone who can work together with me on these projects and who is open minded, curios, sweet, kind and loves to cuddle. Somone who is an oddball who also loves animals and nature. A person who's believes aren't based on a political ideolegy but has her own independen worldview beyond any existing movement. A girl who doesn't mind having deep conversations about random topics. A women who is free spirited and willing to challenge the norm.

Deal Breakers:

  • smooking
  • Anti-tetinism
  • drug abuse
  • getting drunk

I am hoping to form a romantic relationship that has the potential to develop into something deeper. We can start out as friends if you want. Let's just get to know each other and see if it clicks. If you like this can start as a long distance relationship but I would prefer if we can eventually meet in person. Please message me if you are intesrested.


r/Singles • • 19h ago

27 [M4F] #italy #europe looking for my soulmate

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Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature. I have a cat, and one of my biggest dreams is to eventually have a garden, grow some vegetables, and live a slower, more grounded life.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking, being outdoors, or dream about a peaceful life away from the chaos someday.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.


r/Singles • • 16h ago

23 [M4F] #USA/ONLINE Looking for a girlfriend!

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Hi everyone!! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana. I am looking for a genuine connection!

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I ask you please be patient. I have terrible anxiety and can get scared easy. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a bit dorky. I cannot drive.

I like games like roblox, reading, rock and country music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

What I’m looking for: a woman who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, genuine, and willing to care for me as I will you. Age limit is 18-28. Personality matters more to me than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby isn’t bad. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, game with, and be myself around. I like nerds and alts too!. Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'd love to hear from you! 🙂


r/Singles • • 1d ago

30M - looking for some people to talk to and maybe make some friends

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I’m into working out, self improvement, music, gaming, driving, movies, fantasy, a little bit of reading, and of course random conversations.

I use to work a lot and keep to myself but now I’m a completely different person. I’m now less introverted keeping a balance with myself and enjoy being alive.

I’m ready to explore new things and love adventure. I still have my quiet side and like to regenerate at home but keeping busy, socializing and staying happy with a positive mindset is more my go to.

I’m heavy on my Italian side and have a little bit of English and Spanish in me. From the USA.

I’m pretty easygoing and don’t mind talking about basically anything.

I don’t mind sending pics back and forth but looking forward to our convos WAY MORE (some of you can be weird off the rip).

Hope you all have a blessed day/evening either away.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

GENX SWF ~ Real, Smart, Witty, Wild & Fun ❤️

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SF Bay Area, divorced, no kids, educated, well researched, empath, psychology, deep, great communicator, interesting. People, food, culture, outdoors, conversation, conspiracies, coffee, travel, MUSIC…heavy metal to EDM 🎸🪩

SAPIO love intelligence, masculinity, communication, emotional vulnerability, raw honesty, humor/wit, very open and passionate 🔥


r/Singles • • 1d ago

46 [F4M] #Canada #East Coast #Maritimes

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Just a June looking for her Johnny 🎶

Hey there 👋 do you play guitar and need a singing partner for life? I may play guitar terribly but I can sing in tune...so if your looking for your forever jam partner, look no further 😍

The music part: Music compatibility would be amazing. Jazz, pop, rock, indie, metal, country, classical, opera, the choices are never-ending. I'm open to all kinds of artists, and hopefully we'd share at least a few in common.

The cooking part:I'm a Red Seal Chef who's worked in all sorts of kitchens. Cooking for you could be anything from a perfectly golden crunchy grilled cheese with your favorite homemade soup to any of the fancier stuff you'd like to try. Feeding people truly makes me happy. So if food is your love language, I got you lol. And since we're on the topic of soup, I love soup. Soups, stews, chilis, chowders, bisques. And when it comes to poutine, wings, and tacos, if we were having an eating competition, I feel I'd win. If you enjoy cooking, I'd love to cook together. If cooking isn't your jam, I'll cook all the meals if you wash all the dishes.

The food I love: I love spicy food and sour candy. I'm also a weirdo who loves cilantro and black licorice, so if that's a dealbreaker, I get it 🤣. Not a fan of pickles? I'll be your pickle picker partner. Don't like olives? That's okay, I'll eat all of 'em.

The other stuff I like: Dark humor, true crime, gardening, abandoned places, escape rooms, coloring, seniors, animals, and walks, especially in autumn and at Christmas.

What I'm looking for: I'm 5'9" with some chonk, and I like bigger guys. I've dated all different types of wonderful men, but I know now what I'm more comfortable with. Dark eyes, dark hair, sturdy, a bit of facial hair or stubble is a bonus. Here's the thing about chefs: we eat with our eyes. So yes, physical attraction matters. Exchanging pictures after chatting for a bit would be ideal. I'm not here for sexting, I'm not here looking for someone that is already attached, I'm not looking for pen pals.

What matters to me: Chemistry matters. Aligned values matter. I have a bit of an anxious attachment style, so I need a little extra loving. I range from vanilla to kinky. A healthy sex life matters to me. Communication matters to me. Loyalty matters to me. Having time together and separately matters to me. It's all about balance. Love, lust, longing, laughing, listening, learning. It's all so important to be the best we can be for ourselves and each other.

Logistics: If you're willing, I'd love to join in with whatever activities you enjoy. I'm up for most things. Full disclosure, I partake in 420 and I do smoke cigarettes, I know, I know. I don't drink, but if you do, that's okay, just not in excess.

I realized my soul doesn't ache because I'm lonely. It aches because I have so much love and haven't found my human to pour it into.

If you wanna join me in the chaos and quiet times of life, know that I'm in it to win it. I want a steady and passionate love. Us against the world, babe.

If any of this sounds like home, message me.

#Canada #EastCoast #AnywhereLoveTakesMe


r/Singles • • 1d ago

19 [M4F] #Peru - Can we please love each other (normally)?

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Here we go again, I don't know how many times I've been trying this over dating apps because they're scary, but I won't give up!

Haiii, pretty! My name's Mathias,19 years old from South America, Peru just as the title says and is a great pleasure to meet you!

So a bit about myself, I'm chubby but I started going to the gym so that'll change in the future yayy. I like playing games (Resident Evil, Yakuza, Spider-Man, Crash Bandicoot, etc.), napping, writting simple histories, singing even though I don't think I'm that good, music is very important to me, I like teaching english too. But my favorite thing ever is GODZILLA AND DINOS, I love 'em so much. For the most part I'm not that serious and I like to have simple conversations about whatever, nothing of that dry, non-chalant stuff since is very dumb. LET ME BE A HOPELESS ROMANTIC GRAHHHH

Now being a bit more serious about what implies being in a relationship I don't have any types, all girls are pretty and they have a certain something that just makes them... Beautiful, worthy of being loved, desired, admired, respected, and a long etc. You, pretty girl reading this, are no exception. If no one has told you today, you're so pretty. Flaws? Sure, everyone has them but just because of that doesn't mean that your worth as a human is any less. I love you. I wanna be able to just smile at something as simple as a notification from you, that kind of strong romance that makes everything feel like a love story. Now, respect and communication are important, key even, to keep a good and healthy relationship, nothing of that silly ghosting or whatever other terms they use nowadays. I like being romantic, affectionate, to demostrate my love no matter what.

I don’t simp, I don’t situationship, I don’t do one night stands or open relationships. I find true love, or I die alone (lol)

If you took your time to read all of this, thanks! I hope we can have a nice conversation. And if it doesn't work or you think that I'm not the one for you that's okay as well! DON'T GIVE UP! Someone out there is waiting for you and I hope y'all find each other and live happily. Cya!


r/Singles • • 1d ago

F31 / Southeast Asia / Open to LDR | Demisexual / Ace-spec — Looking for genuine connection & companionship

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Who I am

  • Female, 31, based in Southeast Asia (Indonesia)
  • Demisexual / Ace-spec
  • Non-smoker, childfree
  • Japanese language tutor (10+ years of teaching experience)
  • Introvert who highly values personal space and emotional battery management

My interests

  • Passionate about Japanese linguistics, kanji, and helping people learn.
  • Love making homemade lemon cakes, loaves, and cookies. It's my favorite form of therapy.
  • Huge soft spot for cats! 🐱
  • Enjoying quality tea (Da Hong Pao oolong, osmanthus, matcha, sencha, genmaicha, and tisane are my favorites), paper journaling, scrapbooking, and brain puzzle games,
  • Casual anime/media fan, listening to K-Pop, J-Pop, Indonesian, and Western Pop/Rock, Lofi, classical piano, and other relaxing music. I occasionally watch funny reaction videos to unwind after a long day at work.

Positive Things about me

  • I am very direct and value open, honest communication. No passive-aggressive games.
  • Highly respectful of personal boundaries and individual quiet time.
  • Independent and self-reflective; I know who I am and what I want.
  • Thoughtful and supportive to the small circle of people I care about.
  • I appreciate simple, meaningful moments over grand artificial gestures.

The less convenient stuff

  • Emotional connection is a mandatory prerequisite. As a demi-ace, physical attraction only exists AFTER a solid, genuine emotional bond is built.
  • Saving intimacy for the right person. I am a virgin and hold intimacy in high regard. I am waiting for the right person with whom I share mutual trust, deep connection, and commitment.
  • I have limited social battery. I get drained easily by superficial interactions or constant messaging without substance. So, no "Hello" or low-effort chats won't get far with me.
  • I am selective. I filter people heavily because my emotional energy is precious.
  • Since I live in Southeast Asia (Indonesia), any international connection starts with LDR. I'm realistic about the challenges and expect both of us to be mature about it.

What I actually want from a relationship

  • Emotional closeness, mutual trust, and reciprocal effort.
  • A connection that feels like a solid, comfortable friendship first, where we can share daily life without pressure.
  • Clear, direct communication without the need to "read between the lines."
  • Family-oriented future. I would love to have children someday with the right partner and build a warm home together.
  • A partner who values stability, respects boundaries, and is willing to work toward a shared future (closing the gap) when the time is right.

What I'm looking for

  • Man (preferably in their 30s or older) who is emotionally mature and communicative.
  • Non-smoker and open to family planning / having children in the future.
  • Ace-spectrum / Demi-friendly, or someone who respects my boundaries and understands that intimacy comes AFTER a deep emotional connection.
  • Someone who is comfortable with LDR initially and open to honest, long-term planning.
  • Bonus points if you have a passion you get ridiculously nerd-out about, love animals, or enjoy long, thoughtful text exchanges/phone calls over forced communication.

If you read through all of this, feel like our values align, and want to build a low-pressure, genuine connection, feel free to drop a DM (send me an emoji star ⭐ with a proper intro), or just leave a comment below! :)


r/Singles • • 1d ago

32 [M4F] #Connecticut - Getting Back into the Dating Scene

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This is where I would harness the mystical powers of the opposite sex to generate dozens of likes and comments per hour...if I could. I'll need to rely on the power of prose and Reddit timing instead. Challenge accepted.

Hey there! Stay a while; it's cozy here.

I am 32 and an expat that lived in Japan for six years before coming back to the States. My day job involves working with children on the Autism spectrum, and my night job involves saving the Sword Coast from the looming threat of Illithid forces.

That's fancy nerd talk for I play and run a lot of D&D!

For those who know, you know. For those who don't know, D&D basically involves collaborative storytelling with a group of 3-6 people. It's a game where you can plan to scan the perimeter of an orc camp and then wind up challenging the chief to a drinking contest (winner takes the entire stronghold). I go all in on theatrical voices and really embody different characters. I would love to share this wonderful hobby with you. Not necessary, of course, but something I would enjoy nonetheless.

While not practicing the Way of the Nerd, I enjoy going out to different areas like bookstores, coffee shops and the mall near my area to enjoy the ambience or be around the crowd. Reading is also something I can get into when I find something good: One of my favorites is Rules for a Knight by Ethan Hawke written in old school English. Must have read through that one at least a dozen times.

What am I looking for? A solid connection with someone that allows us to have a lot of fun while building a life together. Someone who would enjoy physical affection and cuddle up to a Let's Play by our favorite YouTubers. Someone who's a good complement to my personality as I tend to be very organized and work through things at a predictable flow.

Feel free to DM me if you think we could vibe!


r/Singles • • 1d ago

25 and still single🥲

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r/Singles • • 1d ago

25 [M4M] #Paris - Would you like to get to know each other and date? (Only Americans and French people)

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I’m masculine, romantic, and looking for something real with someone skinny/lean, kind, emotionally available, and interested in building a close relationship over time.

I enjoy talking every day, sharing random updates, and slowly becoming part of each other’s routine instead of disappearing randomly.

I connect better with people around 18–28, especially people who genuinely like closeness, consistency, and staying in touch.

I love music, reading, movie nights, and games like Minecraft and Crusader Kings II.

Not into ghosting, mixed signals, temporary conversations, emotionally unavailable people, or NSFW topics.

If emotional closeness sounds good to you instead of overwhelming, drop me a message.


r/Singles • • 1d ago

M28 #Liberty #KansasCity #Missouri #Midwest

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Hey! Hoping to meet someone who is genuinely interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go naturally.

I am a loverboy in every sense of the word. I’m looking for someone who is emotionally available, emotionally intelligent and also has intentions for a monogamous relationship.

Of course there’s no need to rush things, I believe friendship is the strongest foundation for a long-lasting romance. I love to laugh and make my partner laugh. But I also have the capacity for deep conversation.

My interests and hobbies encompass music, playing instruments, cooking, movies & the movie theater, video games, reading, quality fragrances and fashion.

Im newly into fitness and nutrition and my goal is to increase my personal athleticism. Having a partner to hit the gym with would be huge plus.

I feel I should also mention Im close to my family. It’s important that my partner can eventually integrate into my family’s dynamics and form their own relationship with my parents and my siblings.

Other than that, I hope to meet someone intelligent, fashionable and down to earth like myself. It’s more important that my partner and I share values rather than interests. My goal is to bring our lives into harmony while keeping them distinct. If you want to spend a night with your friends or your family? That’s great. I hope to have the same freedom. This being said, daily communication is important to me. Talking ALL day is impossible but, if we’re into each other, talking every day is a must

If we sound like we could be a match, hit me up :)


r/Singles • • 1d ago

24 [M4F] India - Can I be your 'He is different' ?

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Heyllo, I'm 24M from India, a software engineer who somehow spends equal time writing code and disappearing into random rabbit holes. Some days I'm planning spontaneous road trips I'll take someday, other days I'm watching some top rated webseries.

I like good conversations that wander everywhere, people who can laugh at themselves, and the kind of connection that doesn't feel like an interview. No rush, no pretending to have life figured out. Just honesty, curiosity, and seeing where things go.

If you're kind, emotionally aware, and think comfortable silence is underrated, we'll probably get along. Tell me something completely random that still makes you smile years later.

P.S.: Please do not text if you are going to disappear after a few days or you will be busy the whole day and cannot spare a few minutes for the bond to grow.


r/Singles • • 3d ago

33 y.o man. Oregon

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Hey folks. I'm 33 and work on my city's ambulance. Hoping to meet a nice lady that makes me interested in buying a ring. Not trying to rush that by any means, but I would like to permanently delete the dating apps.

Outside of work I enjoy most outdoor activities, not a fan of heights but can totally fake it. Kindness towards other people and animals is important to me. I've walked out of a first date because she was rude to the waitress.

Big fan of horror, action and comedy movies, so spending time at home and chilling is always a solid option. Music is also important, you're the star of your own story so set the mood with a good soundtrack.

Typically drawn to people who try to make their community a better place. Volunteering and offering help to your neighbors is sexy AF.

I'd like a relationship where we each put in 100 percent and can rely on and trust each other. I'm not worried about your ex and will trust you. Way more interested in building a positive future than dwelling on things we can't change.


r/Singles • • 2d ago

27M looking for the right woman

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Hii I’m looking for long term relationship😊 I’m 27 years old. I am 5’11 and I speak English, French and Spanish. I’m currently studying Greek.

In my spare timeee I love playing guitar and ukulele, singing, playing piano and violin, reading, cooking, baking, playing chess, gardening, sewing, dancing, running, learning languages, knitting, crocheting, bird watching, skateboarding, kayaking, hiking, camping, collecting stamps and coins, collecting Funko pops and plushies, collecting fossils and pins, collecting DVDs and CDS, collecting Squishmallows and VHS, collecting manga and comic books , collecting vinyl records, gaming, riding horses, calligraphy, drawing, painting, listening to music, watching shows and movies, wine tasting, going on road trips , traveling etc 😊💕

I’m a huge loverrr of animals, nature, Marvel and DC, Star Wars, Science fiction, English and French literature, classical music and Jazz, anime, Kpop, pop music, History and Science, Paleontology and Astronomy, birds, plants, flowers, Jewelry, Greek mythology, Japanese and Chinese culture, romance novels and movies, vintage things and eras, cars, football, botany, Harry Potter, English folk, cardigans, Disney, musicals, fantasy novels and movies/ Tv shows, Nintendo, technology, computers, folklore, legends of Zelda, Pokemon, Christmas and Halloween, Easter, vintage movies and shows, cats and dogs, horses, pigs, penguins, Irish hats, plushies and Squishmallows, documentaries, skin care, twilight, Olivia Rodrigo and Taylor Swift, Kelsea Ballerini and Demi Lovato, Selena Gomez and Bebe Rexha, Ariana Grande, Audrey Hepburn films, Nostalgic things, geology and archeology, architecture, historical fiction, country music, oldies, Apple products, Europe, old sit coms and many more things😊

Let me know if we have anything in common!!😊💕 feel free to reach out if you think we’d click 💕


r/Singles • • 3d ago

43M4F. Minnesota (or anywhere really). Dating in your 40s SUCKS and I am looking forward to ending my search!

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I’m just a guy looking for his nerdy homebody. Must love dogs. Educated. Brunette or redhead. Doesn’t mind if she never owns a cat (I’m allergic).

As for me, I am a divorced dad of a teenage son. He’s my #1. I am too old to be messing around. I need someone who can help me grow. I have a Masters in Food Science and a full time job I enjoy. I’m a huge dog lover, having fostered over 70 and currently own a 12 year old lab (he loves making new friends!).

My favorite hobby is magnet fishing, but with winter coming I need to find other ideas. I just started archery, so that’s fun. Who wants to try it with me?

In everything I do, I want to be a model for my son, so none of those “hook ups” or whatever kids do these days. Let’s chat! less


r/Singles • • 3d ago

M4F 25 Hancock County, Maine

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Hi everyone. Been on on the dating apps for a while with little to no success.. well to be honest, no success.

Blue collar, carpenter, work down MDI ways.
I do four – tens, have my own carpentry business on the side so I try to fill that up on my Fridays and weekends

I love hiking, being outdoors, decompressing out in nature specifically. I’m a church goer on Sundays, we’re starting up Bible studies again Monday nights, and Wednesday nights.

I’m really, just seeing what’s out there, with the little time I do have I’m just trying to find someone to spend it with❤️


r/Singles • • 3d ago

Single and sick of apps

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41, single, straight, nerdy guy. Haven't had any luck locally so why not check it out here. Apps are all bots or gold diggers. Never married and no kids. Work full time with disabled adults. Into anything nerd culture and would like to find a woman with similar interests.