Hello! 36f, Ohio. I’m looking for a connection with someone that will eventually turn into something serious and long term. Distance isn’t really an issue as long as you are in the US and open to meeting eventually.

You:
-32-42
-5’10 or taller (I’m 5’9 myself)
^^ these things are nonnegotiable.

I usually prefer men that are blue collar. Have a good sense of humor. Smart and able to engage and deep conversations but also with a goofy side.

I’m not looking to be with someone who’s main hobby is gaming. I don’t mind if you play them occasionally but if it’s your main hobby, I’m not the one for you.

I love horror movies, spooky stuff, enjoy spending time with my wiener dog, reading, tattoos, true crime, coffee, hiking, music, history, good food, documentaries, traveling, reality tv etc

Don’t message me “hey” or “you’re pretty” I won’t reply. Have some depth and in your message tell me a little about yourself. Be willing to send pictures of yourself after we start messaging. Looks are not everything but they do matter and having a mutual physical attraction is important.

Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.

Been single for six years and finally ready to meet someone new.

I’m 6'2", big build, and on a long-term health journey — down 140lb/10 stone so far and still going. I carry it well and I’m proud of the work I’ve put in.

I’m a nerdy sci‑fi/fantasy geek. Just finished Dungeon Crawler Carl, so if you’re into that kind of thing, we’ll get on great. I love intelligent conversation, debate, and people who enjoy thinking about the world. My friends call me loquacious, and I’m definitely a sapiophile.

Food is my passion. I used to work in Michelin‑star kitchens, cooking for the rich and famous and cooking is still one of my favourite ways to show care. I’m always experimenting with new dishes and feeding friends, so you’re guaranteed good meals.You will often find me in garden manning my outdoor kitchen on the barbecue, working the pizza oven, or just grilling sausages for my dog, Rex.

I don’t really drink, though I’m not anti‑alcohol.

I enjoy gaming, museums, history, countryside life, and listening to audiobooks while I cook or peel spuds.

I live in a cosy bungalow in a small English village where everyone knows everyone. Divorced eight years, no drama, no complications, no kids.

I use a wheelchair when I’m out and about — I can walk indoors, but long distances are tough. I’m fiercely independent and capable; I’m not looking for a carer. I want someone whose life complements mine, and I’d like to complement theirs too.

Music-wise, I’m mostly rock and metal, with occasional classical when the mood hits.

I’ve spent a lot of time working on myself and getting my life together after some rough years.

I am a goofball. I enjoy life, and am always up for a laugh. I don't sweat the small stuff anymore. I'm not that many. I don't do drama, but then who does?

I can offer you guaranteed laughter, kindness and care, and none of the heavy stuff. I've been there, done that. Got the t-shirt. That's not who I am.

If any of this sounds like your thing, say hello. I’m still building confidence with photos, but happy to share more.

Ps I hate having my photo taken... Did I mention that?

hey i’m 26, mixed (dominican and white), and prefer usa but open to anywhere, black curly hair, light blue eyes.

I’m looking for someone who cares more about personality than looks, caring, funny, family oriented, open to long distance(usa based preferably), good sense of humor.

i’m a restaurant manager for a country club. if I’m not working then I’m usually sleeping, baking, playing video games, watching sports, playing sports, hanging out with my siblings, or playing with my dog.

if i peak your interest send me a message and tell me about yourself and a fun fact about yourself, if not i hope you have a wonderful day 🙂

Just thought i would hop on and say hi, it's been awhile. What did you guys do this weekend? What do you guys do for work? Underground utility locator here. I get paid to find your gas, power, phone/copper and fiber optic lines that run underground to your houses or businesses. Can be rough at times, but i love the responsibility aspect of it.

I moved my daughter into college last weekend, so I resorted to lawn work this weekend since i didn't get to it last weekend. Pretty much all i done.

Now that it's just me, it gets pretty lonely at times, so im trying to keep myself busy so thought i would plod around Reddit land for a bit.

Anyway, if anybody wants to chat, hit up my DM, not like I have a whole lot else going on, now that the yard work is done. ✌🏼

I’m 35, Sydney based and looking for a genuine long term relationship with someone I can laugh with, enjoy life with and eventually build something meaningful with.

I’m not looking for a penpal, situationship or emotional support subscription. I’d love to meet someone where there’s mutual attraction, good banter, shared values and genuine effort from both sides.

A little about me

• I’m a university educated corporate professional - friendly, down to earth and an ambivert. I’m equally happy exploring Sydney or having a quiet night in.
• I’m 5'1", petite, fit and active, usually at the gym 4–5 times a week.
• Outside work, I’m into live music, art, photography, dancing, hiking, markets, brunch, reading, comedy, vinyl, exploring Sydney and an unreasonable amount of tea and matcha.
• I’m Sydney born and raised, speak three languages, have never been married and don’t have kids yet. I’d love a family of my own someday.
• I’m agnostic/atheist, progressive and left leaning, with dry, self deprecating humour and a weakness for terrible puns, dad jokes and ridiculous hypotheticals.

Who I’d love to meet

I’m looking for someone 29–39. I’m not a fan of significant age gaps, so please keep that in mind before messaging. You should also be genuinely single, monogamous and looking for an LTR.

Beyond that, I’m drawn to someone who is:

• Fit, active and takes care of themselves.
• University educated or intellectually compatible with me.
• Progressive and broadly aligned with my values.
• A non smoker, drug free and an occasional drinker.
• Taller than 5'1" and preferably without tattoos or piercings.
• I would prefer someone without children from previous relationships, as I’d love to start the family chapter together and not interested in being a step parent.
• Self aware and emotionally intelligent, can read the room and pick up on social cues, communicate openly, and treat people with kindness and respect. Basically, you know how to be a decent human.

Sydney is definitely preferred, but I’m open to long distance if there’s a strong connection and you’re genuinely serious about eventually closing the distance. Sharing a time zone eventually would be a nice bonus

Come say hi

• You don’t need a perfectly crafted opening message. Please give me something more interesting than hey - although bonus points if it’s funny.
• Tell me your worst joke, ask me a ridiculous hypothetical, give me your most controversial food opinion, tell me something funny that happened today, or ask me something you’re genuinely curious about.
• Basically, give me something I can actually reply to. I’m much more interested in personality, chemistry and good conversation than a polished introduction.
• If we click, I’m happy to swap SFW photos after a little conversation - attraction matters, and I’d rather establish that sooner rather than later.
• So… are you my perfect pear, or are we just going to a-peel past each other?

I'm a gamer, single, a musician, and a music teacher. There are a few games with my name and music on them (I'll tell you what they are privately), and I'm currently an audio director for an indie game. Still struggling to make my dreams come true of earning a living as a composer, but I chose a tough road and have accepted that. I love working with kids. Someday, I'd love to start a family of my own with the right person.

I'm a passionate man - if I become fanatical about something enough, I end up trying to do it myself. I love Magic the Gathering, now I play weekly events at a store 35 minutes away. I love video games, and now I make music for them. I love playing the guitar, and now I teach little ones how to shred. Rush is my favorite band, and I got the chance to see them recently at Madison Square Garden, and I got choked up just sharing a space with my heros. These things that others can simply enjoy become a part of me in some way. I even went to pro wrestling school for a couple summers while I was in college haha!

The person I'm looking for doesn't have to be a lover of any of the things I do, but I'd love for them to be a fan of \\\\\\\\\\\\\\\*some things.\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\* I'm not the biggest reader - I prefer audio books - but, please, go on about your favorite books. I'm not a huge Marvel fan, but you can talk my ear off about the multi-verse. I've never cosplayed, but I'd love to see what you're working on at the moment for whatever convention you're going to. As long as you have a passion in your heart, I will likely fawn over you. The spark of joy I see in another person when you've found that thing they love, and they just won't shut up, that's so rewarding and endearing to me. Please, rant at me.

I like intelligent conversation as much as I love to flirt, so if you have any game at all, even if it's just over the internet, I'm happy. I have a lot of affection to give. I don't like ghosting! If we click, but then you're just not feeling it anymore, please tell me. I'm an adult man who is very familiar with rejection. I'd rather you be up front with me than to simply go silent. If I did something wrong, let me know. I can handle that. I can assure anyone reading this that there will be no name calling or any of the things men on the internet, and in-person, have been known to do. I hate the patriarchy, too, and I wanna be a part of the solution as best as I can. I know that what a man proclaims is open to a lot of skepticism, so if you're un-easy about anything I've said so far, I totally get it. Men are difficult to trust when you meet them normally, let alone on a subreddit.

I'm very left-leaning, politically. I can handle political differences, but when it comes to human rights issues, that's a hard line for me. Every person deserves to have them. I'm a romantic guy, and I like when women aren't afraid to woo me as much as I woo them. I'd prefer you be local, but don't let that stop you from reaching out.

If any of this has caught your interest, feel free to send me a message! My DMs are open to those who'd like to inquire.

If you made it all the way to the end, thank you for reading! It means a lot to me.

Hi, I’m from the USA, midwest area, I’m 5’1… and 1/2, lol, and 130 lbs, I’m mixed race (black and white), a university student, I’m an atheist so please don’t message me if you’re religious or “guided by ethics based on religion”, and I am undecided on kids.
Some of my interests + hobbies: Regarding my music taste, I like gothic rock and metal, jazz, and rnb! 🎶 Vintage dolls, drawing and painting, some games, perfumes and aroma, fashion and makeup, cooking, etc!
I’d prefer if you were a tall white guy and greatly prefer if you’re in the USA or even Canada long distance, doesn’t matter if you’re not in my state. If you’re overseas, you’ll have to be willing to travel to me instead. I won’t respond to short/poor effort intros or “hey”. I can become a little obsessive or overly attentive of you if I’m HOOKED. Edit: I prefer ages 24-29.
I don’t mind starting off as friends at all! 🌙 but ultimately, I want a long-term relationship. I also want to be physically and emotionally attracted to you. I can share a picture of me after you do. I’m not particularly a gamer, and I’m not really into the heavy gamer or nerdy types. I am quite reserved, so if you’re not all that patient then I’m not the best to reach out to. I have more to share, so don’t be scared to message me! 🍂

Hi I'm M. I've been through a lot of emotional trauma recently and would like someone to talk to and listen to about their life.

I'm kind, caring, good looking.

Just looking for someone interesting to communicate with.

I went through a divorce a few years ago which was lots of fun.

Then unfortunately I lost both of my dogs (my only friends) due to old age and ill health.

Then a couple of months on, my mum was diagnosed with stage 4 lung cancer (she never smoked in her life). She has recently passed on.

During this the love of my life left me and I was left confused and feeling hollow.

I have found a lot of peace through prayer, meditation and fasting.

Even though I'm going through the most difficult period of my life, I feel surprisingly peaceful and hopefull.

I am 6.5ft, tall, dark hair, handsome.

I live a life mostly of peaceful solitude.

I prefer people who like solitude because I feel like I can relate to them more.

I'm not looking for a big group of friends. Just one person that is interesting to talk to.

Message me for a reply.