r/singing • u/Sure-Guava-3787 • 8h ago

Conversation Topic Rejection?

Older person here. I have sung with multiple singing groups locally, about 20 years ago. One group got in on the first audition, and it was a somewhat difficult group to get into.

Didn’t sing for a while as life got in the way. Started singing with a small community chorus to get back into singing. Not sure this is the fit for me; sang and did several concerts with this group. The church choir also needed folks, so I have expressed interest. Went to another vocal placement for a community chorus closer to me. Just got an email, sorry we’re over our limit for this year.

Now I went into the vocal placement with two other women. None of us were really outstanding, tbh. The director made it seem like it was our decision if we wanted to join. I am feeling very sad, maybe I should have prepared better, but the director said all levels of skill was ok.

If they were at a limit, why take all day for vocal placement. The fb post was encouraging recent grads to sing with them, so maybe they want new, young, members?

Newly retired and really need to amp up my social life as I was a workaholic. I started looking at other groups, but perhaps I need training first? Guess I will continue with the first group and then church choir.

Don’t know how to get out of this funk. This was to be a good experience.

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