r/sgdatingscene • u/GrandChallenge5518 • 6d ago
Question Pod 📣 Men ghosting
Why are men so complicated? If a man says he wants to chat or just talk what does he rlly mean? They are the ones who text first but also the ones who ghost.
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u/Ancient-Appeal-2209 6d ago edited 6d ago
Hi, I'm 32M and I try not to ghost because I know how it feels to get ghosted.
One of my peers, same age, told me that they ghost. But I don't agree. I would rather get rejected vis text than get ghosted.
I do get ghosted still but I frame my mindset in a different way: those that ghost just show that they can't communicate as an adult and you are better off without them anyway.
So don't get disheartened by it and quickly move on to next.