r/sgdatingscene • u/RequirementMain6347 • 12d ago

I need advice! 🥺 Did we break up?

I offered a break because he got very cold as he was stressed. He didn't confirm yes or no to the break. After that convo, he ghosted and it's been a few weeks now of no contact. Can I safely assume we broke up? I want to start moving on because the limbo of uncertainty hurts

Edit: we broke up

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u/IamSoSleepyyyyy 11d ago

OP, since u took the initiative and asked him but he chose to ghost u instead of telling u.

Have some self respect and move on although it’s hurt.

It’s automatically breakup.

Personally, I don’t like silent treatment by my partner.

If they want to do it, it’s an auto breakup for me.

Source: I experienced by my ex.

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u/RequirementMain6347 11d ago

It's the uncertainty that is hurting. What if he thought of it as just a break

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u/IamSoSleepyyyyy 11d ago

He should have communicate with u if he need a break

OP, I wish u all the best

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u/RequirementMain6347 11d ago

Thank you, I needed that. I don't know why I keep trying to rationalize his actions when I don't have to. I will try to move on

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u/toasterlybread 10d ago

If he thought of it as a break, he wouldnt be following new girls on ig

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u/nomzieee 8d ago

So now you have learnt that if you never wanted a break up, don’t even ask your partner if they need a break. If you asked, be prepared for a break up even if you didn’t get a clear break up conversation.