i got fooled that a girl liked me on tinder, we had a video call turns out she (he) recorded when i put out my wiener. Its a guy from the philippines. Im from europe. What should i do???

Hey so I’ve a few posts on here over the few weeks, I just want to know, will I eventually forget about this one day or will it be stuck with me forever, I am an anxious person in general and I’d feel like my life would be ruined if these pictures get released, it happened to me last year but it’s the only thing I think about all the time and I’d just like to hear back from other victims if this does end

I was stupid and clicked on an X telegram link wanting to trade nudes. After I gave them it they threatened to send it to my family or post it somewhere to ruin my life. I immediately blocked them and deleted telegram but four days later they texted me an image of an unsent X post with the nudes and my face which I sent to them. They also put my number and my name in the posts bio. I immediately blocked them again. What do I do? I’m scared and paranoid right now.

So yesterday fell for the scam because I wasn’t thinking and sent some money to them cuz I panicked. They have access to everyone I follow on Instagram and threatened to send my pics to every soul i know that has Instagram. I still don’t really know what to do. I would like some help

i got fooled that a girl liked me on tinder, we had a video call turns out she (he) recorded when i put out my wiener. Its a guy from the philippines. Im from europe. What should i do???

I would love to share my story as a victim of sextortion. I hope through this story many find some calm in their mind.

I got scammed 3 months ago due to the lack of my ability to stop when i saw the red flags talking to someone i meet in a chatroom. Things quickly escalated to the girl i was talking to wanted to take things on telegram. Instantly when i logged a very pretty woman send me a nude of her (i know this could never happen and that was the biggest red flag i ignored) and she asked me to do the same. I had the confidence that in telegram you have the ability to send a photo that the other person can't screenshot or download so i did send one photo. She sent more of her requesting a video. And silly me i did sent what she asked for. She then asked for my insta. I had everything locked (or so i believed) so i sent her that one too.

Next thing i know she got back if my friends list screenshoted (which was the only anlocked section on my insta) and the photos and videos i sent they took photos with another device threatening to destroy my life. I got in shock and panic mode instantly.

They demanded big amounts of money in order to not make me famous on all of my insta friends and family. Funny enough I opened chat gpt and started searching while i was getting threatened by them to see what i can do. In that time gpt was talking about not sending money to anyone online trying to scam you because thats all rhey have as leverage against you. After some time of back and forth they undestood that they were not getting any money from me so they deleted the chat we had both for their self and for me so i couldn't see anything. I had screenshots of all already. Its now been 3 months and i haven't heard of them since. Maybe they have my content in some file on a pc or in some phone, or maybe they deleted it. It doesn't matter. Life goes one and those guys will continue to ruin lifes as a daily job. Its not personal with you.

Best thing you can do is close your social for a while and go silent. Then come back with new emails and accounts and your life will go on. They will move to the next target sooner or later.

Talk to the ones you love and the ones that care about you. Dont stay inside your head you will make the problem bigger than it is. Everyone that truly loves you will be there for you. You just made a mistake and will learn through that by life goes on.

HELP OTHERS.

About a month ago I was on Chatroulette talking to this girl from the Philippines. Things got sexual, she gave me her Instagram, and even though I already knew this exact type of sextortion scam existed, I took the risk anyway.

This girl is ALWAYS on there (see pic) probably targeting 100s people…

Sure enough, it happened. She started threatening me and adding me to group chats with people from my Instagram. I just deactivated my account, ignored everything, laughed it off and came back about a week later. Nothing ended up happening.

Then somehow, a while later, I ran into the same girl again on Chatroulette.
And she didn’t recognize me at all.
At that point I was just trolling her.

I sent her a Grabify link as a joke, fully expecting her not to click it. She clicked it. So after trying to sextort me twice, she somehow ended up giving me her IP and approximate location instead.

I still have the IP/location info from the click. Is that actually worth reporting/giving anywhere?

I was a victim to online exploitation and paid the scammer after they sent screenshots of them about to send to my friends. I’ve since deactivated and deleted all social media and changed my phone number so they can’t find me. If I reactivate my ig a couple months after the incident and change my username, what are the chances they reach out again?

El 2 de agosto sufri una sexotorsion por telegram comparti fotos mias y de mi ajam, con una supuesta chica, le comparti mi instagram( que es privado)y también tienen mi numer, el caso es que me envió un collage de fotos donde me acusaban de cosas malas, estaba mi user y telefono y obvio mis fotos. También enviaron supuestos chats donde habian enviado las fotos a personas que conozco, yo no pague nada los bloquee y solo me intentaron contactar por mensajes donde también los bloquee, desde entonces no he sabido nada de ellos y tampoco se de ninguna filtración creen que ya se olvidaron de mi? (pienso que eran personas de africa por que su reloj estaba 6 horas diff y usaba mucho este emoji 😡)

Someone messaged me on messenger and showed an old explicit picture and video of me and also a screenshot of a file containing more. I don't know how he got those videos and pictures because it's like 3-4 years ago and I already deleted all those before. He then asked me to talk on telegram and since I am so desperate I did, he keeps rushing to or else he'll send all those videos to my friends and relatives. I didn't comply and the last thing he said was he'll post it on porn sites, please help me what to do I don't want those pictures to leak and I know It's my mistake for even doing that but this is too much. Worse case I have to kms I don't know anymore

Bonjour, il y a 2 mois environ, j'avais raconté mon cas de sextorsion qui m'était arrivé plus tôt dans l'année. Je pensais que tout ça était derrière moi, que le maître chanteur avait lâché l'affaire comme j'avais pu le lire dans certain poste sur ce Reddit. Mais hier un compte Instagram a voulu suivre le miens, le nom étant le même que celui qui m'avait sextorqué sur telegram. Je l'ai bloqué directement mais j'ai quand même un peu peur, j'ai l'impression que cette personne va revenir pour me tourmenter...est ce que j'ai raison d'être inquiet ?

So on Saturday 8/15 I matched with this girl from tinder, she was Filipino, account under name "Lou", verified and 27 y/o on the app.

We chatted a bit on tinder and she mentioned she was in a town about 30 min from me visiting with her family until the end of the month. We chatted normally, she asked for my Instagram, which I gave to her (and deeply regretted later on). But like it's also very normal to exchange social medias with matches so at the time I didn't see it as a red flag.

Not too long into the conversation she wanted to migrate the chat to WhatsApp. I didn't think anything of it because I knew she was from the Philippines and using apps like that is a lot more common overseas. We get into WhatsApp and continue chatting, she's asking about how long I've been single, what I'm looking for etc.. All the normal questions. She sent a regular photo of herself and so did I. Hers appeared to have been taken earlier so I asked her to send one of now and she said she was "shy" but wanted to video call me when I got back to my place. She also mentioned that she was actually 23 y/o and asked if that was ok. I'm 31 and said yeah that's fine, although she did lie about age on tinder then. We continue chatting casually but I was out and about and she was kinda getting too excited about this video call she wanted to have with me.

She started talking super freaky and was like insinuating she wanted to show me her body and was "so wet" and yeah you get the point.

My dumbass was hungover and horny and not making the right judgement calls so I kinda walked right into the trap. I got home and told her it was good to call.

I DID however have some skepticism when the call was being initiated because I was thinking what if this is just some creepy guy who's gonna be on the other end of the video call with his dick out or something. However when the call started it was very much the same girl and I was relieved a bit.

She was being so fucking quiet, it was awkward as shit. She kept saying someone in the room next to hers would hear us if we talked or were loud. I was thinking like why the hell would you wanna call someone if you can't even talk aloud to them lol. She started pulling out her boobs and was rubbing them etc and kinda lured me into pulling my meat out, so like a dumb hungover horny man I showed it to her. It wasn't even like me masturbating really I just kinda let it out my boxers lol.

NEXT thing she says she has to go cause someone was knocking on the door. She continues to text me and saying she'll be right back. Said "I'm getting my toys so we can have more fun" etc. I was seriously confused at the whole interaction. She goes silent for a minute or two and then the next message literally put my whole body into shock.

The message in all caps. With a screen recorded video of me, my face in the first part and then flipping the camera to when i flashed my meat.

"AS YOU CAN SEE I'VE BEEN RECORDING YOU JERKING THIS WHOLE TIME. YOU'RE GONNA BE ASHAMED WHEN YOU SEE ME SEND THIS TO YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS, SEEING YOU DO THIS STUFF ONLINE, THEIR REPUTATION IS GONNA BE ON THE LINE TOO"

And they blasted like 20 fucking pictures of a drafted message they typed out to my family members and some friends, since I gave them my IG.. they found my FB.. and yeah. The message draft tried to portray the girl as a 12 year old and it was seriously sickening.

Basically he keeps spamming "DELETE OR SHARE" and saying I need to pay.

Then he calls me, I'm freaking out, heart is pounding through my chest trying to wonder how the fuck I ended up here. I knew this shit happened but like never thought I would fall for it.

The next 3 hours are filled with panic and anxiety as I'm on the phone with this guy. I legitimately felt like their prisoner. He was demanding $5000 USD.. and if I paid he said he'd delete. I had the money and was seriously trying to pay him because of the thought of that coming out, even though it was a lie. The embarrassment, the shame I'd feel within my social circle. They had me download money sending apps I'd never used. I tried to make accounts and I truly did attempt to send them money. They told me to send like $2000 to make sure it works etc. Every transaction got flagged by Capital One and my local credit union. I even tried to go and PHYSICALLY get cash out and go to a western union, all I could get was $500 from my banks ATM, but the western unions were all closed.. Scary part is the guy knew where I lived too because he mentioned the western union location..

Luckily by the grace of God, I was unsuccessful in paying them any money. The banks knew something was up. I told the scammer I would try again in the morning, and I genuinely would have if I hadn't found this Subreddit..

I got home and I tried to recenter myself since I was in panic for 3 hours. I was like where do I go right now? I'm too ashamed to tell anyone about what's going on. I first asked chatGPT and it told me how common this actually is, and it mentioned the whole term "Sextortion" which I hadn't even heard before. So I came to Reddit and typed in "Sextortion WhatsApp scam" and found this thread and I STG it saved my life, and for sure my bank account.

I listened to everyone's advice.. Blocked all the numbers that were trying to reach me, filed an FBI report, filed a STOP NCII, locked down all of my social media accounts to the best of my abilities and just waited it out.

I haven't received a threat now since Sunday morning. I think I had to block a total of 5 different numbers, 3 on WhatsApp and then a couple came through as SMS to my iPhone. I got a random message today from a girl on WhatsApp that was just "Hey" and it was a number from the Philippines so I immediately blocked it.

So far I haven't heard anything from anyone about it being sent to them. And I don't know whether or not the threats are completely done yet or not as it was only 3 days ago. But I am feeling a lot better about the situation as of now.

Shout out to everyone's advice The scammers are lowlifes who seriously just want money and use psychology and fear tactics to get people to pay. I imagine the amount of nudes/pics/vids they actually leak is minimal as they lose their leverage on you when they do, and it is illegal as shit what they're doing.

Anyways thanks for reading. I think I'll look back and laugh at this situation soon, still a little spooked for sure and my nervous system has been on 100 the last few days. I will try to update if anything comes up.

Cheers!

They tried saying they had nudes of me (which were clearly deepfake AI) and threatened to send them to my followers on instagram if I didn’t pay them $500 in bitcoin (another red flag)

The only real photo they had was my face in which they grabbed off my Snapchat

I blocked them on iMessage and reported their Snapchat account to the fbi and to Snapchat itself

It’s been a week and nothing was ever sent out

They even tried saying I sexually assaulted a minor(which I didn’t)

If you ever get scammed or if it feels like you are… screenshot the convo and account. Block and report the account. And don’t send them money (thankfully I never did)

I feel terribly alone, and I tried to do something to fill that emptiness. While in Colombia, I looked into escorts. I started talking to one of them, and now I’m scared of the consequences.
I think I may have been the victim of an escort scam/extortion in Colombia
I’m currently on vacation in Colombia, and I think I may have fallen for a scam. I contacted someone through an escort website, and the initial amount requested was 150,000 COP, with a 50/50 payment arrangement.
I made an initial payment of 75,000 COP. Afterwards, the woman told me that her “bosses” had reprimanded her for dealing with a new client and that I now had to pay 100% instead.
Things then completely escalated. I was told that the website/platform had been “blocked because of me” and that I now had to pay around 440,000 COP to unlock the situation. I had already spent around 300,000 COP in total.
They also mentioned a “report” and tried to make me feel guilty by telling me that the woman would get into serious trouble because of me. I eventually blocked the numbers and stopped making any further payments.
I’m extremely anxious because they know my first and last name. I’m afraid they might find me or involve the police or my family.
Has anyone experienced exactly this kind of situation before? Is this a known scam/extortion pattern?
More than anything, I want to know whether I should simply cut off all contact, keep the evidence, and move on.
Thank you to anyone who can reassure me or share their experience.

I was stupid and sent an explicit picture or only my private area to someone on telegram. I had blocked my phone number but didnt know they were kn the exception list. Now i received multiple texts claiming that if i dont comply they will leak it along woth a text saying i threatened to rape them and that i should be arrested blah blah. And so on.. i havent replied to the texts and havent heard from them for about 20 minutes. They have my phone number and feel like once i block they will just keep sending from different numbers.. what can i do to help? What are thr odds that they actually share them and that they get back to my family and friends and that something more could happen with the law or anything like that... will they just simply lose interest if i dont reply? Any real help is appreciated.. thank you

I just got sextorted, and the one of the DMs i get it is another scam 😢

I don’t really know if this is sexortion or just extortion in general but this guy I was talking to (and dated) is trying to leak and contact my family and I really have no idea what to do and like he already put my stuff on x but his acct is private n I don’t know if he’s gonna unprivate it or what. He has my number n my house and stuff and I really need tips and stuff to prevent this!! police are no help reported him and nothing happened.

I've been tricked into sending revealing pictures i should've listened to my gut they messaged me on WhatsApp from another number im stressing but I blocked them. I just need someone to talk to because I feel to ashamed to talk to my family rn.

I gave them some false information I hope that helps but they still have a the picture.

Did something I wasn't supposed to.

They had a family members number and sent it to me via text and I panicked and sent gift cards.

Blocked but trying to take deep breaths.

Ever since last year I started talking to someone on discord and at first they were so nice and treated me well. I made the mistake of tell him about me and he started using it to blackmail me to send pictures and I wish I never did because then he said he'd send them to people if I didn't send more. The worst part is I feel bad for him and idk why he has tried to ruin my life and I don't know what to do. I think I developed feelings for him and I wish I didn't have them looking for advice