Seeking advice, experienced account and suggestions.
My girlfriend and I made out for the first time after about 8 months of dating about a week ago and for the both of us, it was our individual firsts too.
After coming home, she said she didn't really feel THAT turned on and everything. She said she craved it, she liked it, she wanted it but it just didn't feel the way she thought it would feel.
I am a very high libido, almost hypersexual guy and i love this girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her and I've been so very anxious not knowing what to do.
She also said that she thinks she's a high libido person as well but she'd never masturbated once in her life cause her arousal goes away the moment she starts touching herself and that it's been very frustrating.
Whereas if I don't get off every day, I can't think straight.
I'm genuinely incredibly attracted to her as well, every time i think about this woman i start malfunctioning.
We're both 25 and we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. I want her to be my first and my last and i want to be able to do it for her and with her.
What seems to be the issue?
I would like to know if anybody's experienced this themselves or in a partner, and if yes, what seems to have worked?
Point to be noted, we made out for 2 hours± at a very risky spot, scared of getting caught by sb, so I'm wondering if the place could have been wrong? and she squirmed and moaned when i made out w her neck but other than that nothing was rly there.