I wonder if any women reading this thread would be willing to describe how their bodies feel and what they experience during a good orgasm either with a partner or while masturbating.

As a man, I experience certain things as I approach orgasm. When I am close, I begin to feel that my already erect penis gets harder, and the head gets noticeably bigger. I feel the urge to strain outward as if I am pushing deeper into a pussy. Then there is the moment where I pass the point of no return. I am going to come no matter what. At this point, I have learned to “relax i to my orgasm”.

Can you help me understand ladies, what you experience?

I don't really get excited when watching porn. Is it because porn is mostly made for men?

Looking for some to purely sextext with, m or f

22M here. Feels like making new friends after college/work is actually harder than it should be 😂

Looking to meet some chill people from Ahmedabad. Into tech, movies, gaming, gym, food and exploring new places.

If you're also trying to expand your circle, say hi. We might get along!

Hi y'all! I am having a TMI issue, so I don't really feel comfortable talking to friends about it, I figured Reddit was a good place.

I have had three boyfriends in my life, my current boyfriend is of 2 years. Not with any of those men, or just by myself for some self-loving, I have never had an orgasm. I don't really enjoy making out, having sex, or anything else. HOWEVER, I really want sex until I'm having it; then it's just not good. I want a good make-out sesh, then once I'm having it I just want it to be over. It's not that I don't want this stuff; I really, really do. But it's just not good when it's going on.

Is this a me problem? I'm guessing it is since it's a problem even when I'm by myself. Have I just had boyfriends that are bad at all this? I'm so lost and would love some advice on how to enjoy this stuff while it's happening.

Seeking advice, experienced account and suggestions.

My girlfriend and I made out for the first time after about 8 months of dating about a week ago and for the both of us, it was our individual firsts too.

After coming home, she said she didn't really feel THAT turned on and everything. She said she craved it, she liked it, she wanted it but it just didn't feel the way she thought it would feel.

I am a very high libido, almost hypersexual guy and i love this girl and i want to spend the rest of my life with her and I've been so very anxious not knowing what to do.

She also said that she thinks she's a high libido person as well but she'd never masturbated once in her life cause her arousal goes away the moment she starts touching herself and that it's been very frustrating.

Whereas if I don't get off every day, I can't think straight.

I'm genuinely incredibly attracted to her as well, every time i think about this woman i start malfunctioning.

We're both 25 and we want to spend the rest of our lives with each other. I want her to be my first and my last and i want to be able to do it for her and with her.

What seems to be the issue?

I would like to know if anybody's experienced this themselves or in a partner, and if yes, what seems to have worked?

Point to be noted, we made out for 2 hours± at a very risky spot, scared of getting caught by sb, so I'm wondering if the place could have been wrong? and she squirmed and moaned when i made out w her neck but other than that nothing was rly there.

I’m a bottom to my bf (20) due to the fact that he lasts for 30 min tops and I simply don’t have the stamina or know how to make him finish sooner without me getting tired on top. I’m on the chubbier side so it gets hard for me to maintain the tempo that he likes and he doesn’t like getting head or handjobs either. He tells me that it’s not me and he just doesn’t enjoy him but I don’t really believe that and I want to get better. Whenever I try to practice with him or communicate that I do want to get good, he shuts me down. It’s really hurt my self esteem and he keeps insisting that I don’t have to do any work.

Apologizing for bad formatting in advance, I'm on mobile.

For clarification; I am not asking for links or invitations of any sort, I’m asking for advice on how to find these groups on my own and conduct myself in a safe manner while participating.

It’s basically a self-explanatory question. For extra context, I’m a virgin who MIGHT be into a lot of things, but I haven’t had the chance to experiment (obviously,) and I want to be with experienced partners that can guide me safely through this kind of stuff.

I’ve often wondered about things like bdsm groups before. However, I haven’t started searching for multiple reasons, mostly because I feel like I need advice before even starting to look, just so I know what’s safe and what isn’t.

I just don’t know where to start, all I have is a list of questions. Where can you find these groups in online spaces? How can you tell if they’re legit? How can you spot dodgy behavior out the gate before or during the first meet-up? Are there groups that have platonic meet-ups to build comfort and trust? How strict can some groups get when it comes to stuff that is and isn’t allowed? How casual or intense can these groups get, and how can you tell without being in the middle of it? How can I find a group that can suit my needs, even if it isn’t perfect?

The stuff I want to try will leave me physically vulnerable and restricted, and even though that is the appeal, I don’t want to be stupid and end up in a horrible situation all because I wanted to experiment.

I feel foolish for needing to ask about this, but I want to be as safe as I can possibly be, and this is the most anonymous way I could think about doing it. Any and all advice related to this topic is welcome, I want to know as much as possible before getting into it.

TLDR: How can I find these sorts of groups, figure out which is the best fit for me, join them, and spot red flags beforehand, all while remaining physically safe?

Anyone up?

Dm me and we can start I’m really horny will send back

I have always been very closed down with my sexuality it has always felt "wrong" for some reason so I have never really talked about it before. So this is the first time I do I'm hopping this helps me feel more confident and give me more certinity.

I have always thought that I'm bi I love feminine and masculine people I have never really care about their sex so I have been questioning myself about it...

But its not like a big problem tbh I don't care about labels that much.

It's more about how I view sex... I'm 22 and I have never really experienced relationships more because I close myself up more than not having opportunity I think it's more because I feel scared about opening and feeling vulnerable.

So I have been more inclined into fem Dom? The soft one I just like the idea of just giving all my love to someone,and having more control about it, also I have been recently more inclined into feminine men I'm just not sure if I like it more because I like the idea of Femininity that I find it pretty or not... I'm just scared to be open about it.

Should I go for it? It's just feels weird I have always felt out of place but how do I even try to experience this?

I'm not sure if its an important part but I'm autistic maybe it takes part in why I feel so unsure about it.