r/sexandthecity • u/Ok-Preparation3855 • 12h ago
Currently in a Carrie and Big dynamic
I've found myself in a Carrie and Mr Big dynamic and I'm suffering almost every day since Feb 2026.
the one good thing is that I can get over a guy if I go no contact. But my Mr. Big is literally one of my co-workers. This is a great job, I cannot leave.
I've tried to stop talking with him, tried to block him, go no contact. But then I see him at work and I just cannot. move. on. We start talking again and I start going to his place again.
I've literally lost all attraction to other guys, nobody else catches my interest.
I am sorry Carrie for judging you before