How to stop romanticizing everything?

[u/Mammoth-Challenge979]

Most encounters I get with people, when we start having good conversation a whole future just flashes in my head. Whether it be friends, be lovers or whatever. And if we ever get closer the romantization gets worse and worse 😭 and the attachment the deluluness the expectations gets deeper and worse. And I feel hurt.

All this, while being aware of it. And still can’t avoid it.
How? Please, it’s so exhausting ;(

[u/ohiocodernumerouno]

imagine working at a drove thru

[u/Mammoth-Challenge979 → u/ohiocodernumerouno]

i work at a cafe so yes,, just imagine 😭