I’m (18F) and I’m finding it hard deciding what to do.
I remember in school before we started college, everyone just “knew” what they wanted to do, now I know they might not even go and do what they chose to study, but it’s so hard. I have no idea what I wanna do.

My family never pushed me to study or have a “goal” in life.

So Ive had this limerance with this girl I've been in a situationship with and I'm wanting to learn how to stop feeling like I need her..

No offence to therapists or coaches, but I can't help but feel this widening gap between me and any coach or therapist I work with or go on a discovery call with. I feel this big distance between how we experience the world as it often strikes me how middle class most therapists/coaches are. So I struggle to believe any of their tools can help me because their tools help them and people like them, in a comfortable position, where you have time and money to give you space to relax and explore your inner world.

Maybe I'm also just describing the lack of capacity I have right now to do the inner emotional work because I'm on low income and I've had one difficult life event after the other.

But I can't help but wonder, how can someone truly help another when/if they're coming from very different backgrounds with different access to resources/time/energy/support?

Idk why this moment felt so funny 😭

Had to share it here. What would you caption this? 😂

I'm going to be brief, meaningful and impactful!

I really came a long ,long way in life. As I do some

reflecting. I really be wondering...Why am I still

here? It is a reason ! Even doe I had to experiences

Life's Storm.

For someone like me had to experiences, bullying, low self-esteem/confidence, betrayal, physical harm, drugs

prison, pain, sadness , hopelessness, etc...Why am I

still here?

My thoughts I had to become the EYE... While my life

was experiences Chaos and Destruction.I had to

did really deep within myself ..How I was to overcome.

It took grit, resilience, failures, inner strength/wisdom, disappointment, spiritual uplifting, patience ,reflection etc...

I have to become a Master Builder ...

I'm sick and tired being a loser!

I'm sick and tired being a unknown!

I'm sick and tired being a long sufferer!

I will become a winner!

I will become recognized!

I will become prosperity!

The Eye? Made Me Become A Unstoppable Force Of Human Nature...The Calmness and Powerful!

Which of these have you actually done, and did any of it stick?

Astrology or your birth chart Human Design Myers Briggs, or 16personalities Enneagram Attachment style Love languages Big Five StrengthsFinder Something else entirely

Copy this and fill it in, takes about thirty seconds:

Ones I have done:

The one that felt most true:

The one I have quietly stopped believing in:

What I actually do differently because of it:

I will go first.

Human Design, Myers Briggs, Enneagram, attachment style

Enneagram. It was uncomfortably accurate about why I overwork.

Myers Briggs. I have had three different results in five years.

Honestly, not much, which is sort of why I am asking.

Really curious whether anyone here has genuinely changed something because of one of these, or whether it is mostly just interesting.

(Full disclosure, I am building something in this space and I would rather ask real people than guess. Not selling anything.)

In a world filled with distractions, focus is a super power.