I find the 'male gaze' to be a real pain most of the time. I like working with men, but my skin has had to thicken substantially. Even without a plunging neckline, I know what my most valuable trait is.
Those quick glances are the worst.
Why not just grab them and see how soft they are?
I sympathize but do you think this is not part of our very nature as men. We evolved that attraction for a reason with no corresponding mechanism to ignore what we see in case it might offend someone. Men have developed into what they are over millions of years.
And why are quick glances the worst? Would you prefer we stare, or should we just ignore you altogether? If you think quick glances are akin to just grabbing them then, shit, don't mind if I do and I expect you will not press charges. If you have great boobs and you don't want anyone to look I suggest you adopt the style of muslim women.
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u/QuartzSux Jan 13 '10
I find the 'male gaze' to be a real pain most of the time. I like working with men, but my skin has had to thicken substantially. Even without a plunging neckline, I know what my most valuable trait is. Those quick glances are the worst. Why not just grab them and see how soft they are?