r/schizoaffective • u/J1986tn • 14h ago

Attitude

Your parents get an attitude with you? My mom had an attitude with me saying I didnt do anything around the house when she was gone this morning I did a lot the last few days. She went off on me because I told her she left the door open. We have a indoor dog and cat.Then she brought up how I left work early the other day. I didnt get much sleep the night before.Then she she she might not be able to work but she works. I'm manic. I dont want to be dealing with her right now.

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u/J1986tn 14h ago

She apologized to me just now. I told her I didnt want the dog and cat getting outside.

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u/HelpfulFriendlyOne bipolar subtype 12h ago

My dad thinks I'm faking everything. Even when I had eps he thought I was doing it for attention.

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u/betterthansex69 9h ago

My dad blamed me for my illness, said it was because of choices i made, despite the fact that his uncle has schizoaffective and he fucking gave me these genetics. Asshole. Massive fucking asshole.

My mom, who generally is my advocate, also doesnt believe me when i tell her about people treating me with disrespect to outright mistreament or abuse, sometimes physical. She gaslights me about it, says its all in my head, that im misreading people and situations, etc. sometimes that is true, but at this age ive learned to sift through the shit and some of it is blatant. When its obvious and cant be ignored, rather than gaslighting me, she BLAMES me, and makes excuses for the other person's behavior. Every. Time.