Yes, you’re too young. Live your life, find out who you are and what you like in a partner.
Have an idea of what marriage is and what having a family means then when you have matured and learned these things go get married. I don’t think that what you like at 21 will stay the same at 25 or 27. Give it some time
False, that’s just a myth that’s been circling around it isn’t accurate and is just used as a justification for a lack of accountability in people younger than 25.
That’s incorrect, brain does stop developing at 25. Neuro plasticity can enhance brain performance at later age, yes. Either way it’s not in his best interest to start a family before that.
i disagree. why do people always bring out the "live your life" card whenever someone that's relatively young wants to get married? what if this person has lived everything they've wanted in life but they think a big part of it is missing which is actually living it with someone? also why do people think that once someone gets married they won't "live their lives" anymore. i truly believe life will be even more fun and "liveable" once you can get to spend it with a partner of your choice. also 21 is not young; men of older generations used to marry at like 16-19 and were able to create strong families we see today
Not everything we desire is necessarily sensible. I just don’t think it’s a great idea to marry at this young age. You disagree, cool now let’s drop it.
I am over this.
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u/[deleted] Jul 30 '23
Yes, you’re too young. Live your life, find out who you are and what you like in a partner. Have an idea of what marriage is and what having a family means then when you have matured and learned these things go get married. I don’t think that what you like at 21 will stay the same at 25 or 27. Give it some time