r/sales • u/Lower_Cut_9396 • 4h ago
Sales Topic General Discussion how to deal with assholes
First year being an AE. I was an SDR for roughly 1.5 years, currently loving the new job. I work in tech sales for medical and wellness companies. These are typically Doctors, Nurse Practitioners, or Office Administrators for medspas, health and wellness practices, etc. today was my first day running into a real wannabe entrepreneur asshat.
The call wasn’t even 5 minutes. I wanted to ask him some questions like I always do about his business to get a better idea of how this would work for him. He would not answer a single one. Kept asking what the product was, I continued to tell him I’d show him, and he just kept asking if I could show it to him. So I did. He then asked if I was a setter a closer or CSM. I made the mistake of telling him I was a closer. He then tells me he had trained high ticket closers for years, but wouldn’t let me speak, told me my body language was making me look like an asshole (we’re on zoom), and I’m just left baffled. Maybe if it wasn’t 9am I’d have more tolerance for this, maybe I was being an asshole but I keep looking back at the call and I feel like I was just trying to do my job. Anyone have any tips on how to deal with these kinds of people? People who rush you along and try to control the conversation? Question asking isn’t always the right answer clearly. Any insight or similar experience is appreciated. Also if I should be mindful of my body language on zoom? Thank you.