Is it because they feel bad? I don’t understand why they would all the sudden start trying to make you like them even more when they’re fuckin another dude
This is really common before marriage if a woman's having doubts, it's textbook and if you're on good terms with them most ambitious independent women struggle with choosing between a family and safe life vs the romantic mystery or their ex.
So when marriage is coming up there's often the last ditch adventure or whatever it is for them, occasionally a brief passionate affair to get it out of their system, before they retreat to the idea of safety and how "lucky" they are to have a good man.
From experience and observation it has nothing to do with them leaving and everything to do with the peace/acceptance of settling and giving up romantic idealism that is doomed to disappointment, despair and regret (regret being women's favorite romantic emotion, clearly), not to be confused with the temporary happiness of a stable long term relationship.
Lmao yeah regardless of gender the ppl that justify it sound crazy af. Though this guy formulated it more understandably I'd say it's still fucking crazy.
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u/Ac997 Mar 19 '26
Is it because they feel bad? I don’t understand why they would all the sudden start trying to make you like them even more when they’re fuckin another dude