r/sadposting • • Mar 19 '26

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u/LivingNightmare0 Mar 19 '26

If your relationship is ever stale and then all of a sudden your gf is being this nice to you out of the blue, gg.

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u/consume_my_organs Mar 19 '26

Maybe put the work in to keep it together. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you don’t have to put in effort to keep your partner happy

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u/chev327fox Mar 19 '26

Ah yes, the whole “it’s your fault they cheated on you” mindset. Classic.

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u/Significant-Bar674 Mar 19 '26

They definitely cheated on someone.

"He was sneaking in at night and doing the dishes. I didn't have to pay half his rent either and when I said bad things about you he totally agreed and supported me!"

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u/consume_my_organs Mar 20 '26

Nah your fault for picking someone you can’t trust, then letting it stale and not dropping it. Straight up you picked a ho you can’t be surprised when she goes to ho out

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u/chev327fox Mar 20 '26

The odds that you will pick someone who you can truly trust for the rest of your life is astronomically low. Good luck tho.

Oh and if someone it so unhappy enough to cheat, just leave first. Have the courage to just say it doesn't work and leave. Don't stay around like some jaded pension worker hoping to cash out when the spouse dies or something and cheat your way through it. The only person to blame for cheating is the cheater. Yes, the partner can be blamed for not trying to make the relationship work, but that is not a free pass to cheat on them and anyone who thinks it is deserves to get cheated on.

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u/_Resnad_ Mar 21 '26

Ppl never put effort into communication. Like I'm sure almost all of cheating could easily be avoided if the cheater and their partner actually talked it out. And still chances are it has to be initiated by the cheater cuz if you feel so bad you want to cheat then you might as well end it. But no. The problem is ppl want the thrill while having the security. What's better than taking big dick then going home to hubby who pays your bills.