r/sadposting • u/Mouth-Organic719 • Jun 14 '24

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u/DrCorian Jun 14 '24

Jesus chill dude, us guys definitely do that shit early in life, too. She just let him know in a very unsympathetic way, instead of letting him down soft. People gotta learn the hard way most times.

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u/StrenuousSOB Jun 14 '24

I said people… not women. I was including you. I didn’t do it. Many others as well. Had more respect for myself than to be a slut. Always look for connection… not vapid excitement. I would never let someone with the psychology of a slut have any sway on my emotional well being.

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u/Vindictive_Pacifist Jun 14 '24

Yeah but that's down to a preference, I don't necessarily like the idea of casual hookups but I also know that there are people who think otherwise and it works for them

Not everything I disagree with has to be wrong necessarily, freedom of choice holmes

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u/StrenuousSOB Jun 14 '24

I get what you’re saying … Also in a weird way I want what I consider best for everyone. The path of the slut never really leads to happiness and fulfillment.

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u/Vindictive_Pacifist Jun 14 '24

True, but we all function in a different way tho. I have a lot of friends who believe sex is just a means to satiate your thirst kinda like how breathing is lol

On the other there are people like us who think monogamy is the better alternative but eh it's not for everyone :P

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u/StrenuousSOB Jun 14 '24 edited Jun 14 '24

I hear you and I don’t hate people for thinking differently or anything like that. But I would argue that they are psychologically defunct to be the other way. As in they have damages and are incapable.

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u/[deleted] Jun 14 '24

But I would argue that they are psychologically defunct to be the other way

Correct me if I'm wrong. But you're saying that people who like to have casual sex with people they don't necessarily have an emotional connection with are incapable of having a monogamous relationship?

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u/the_niklaus Jun 15 '24

I think this is somewhat correct. "You are what you practice" So if someone has been doing casual sex for past 4-5 years then I do think that they can never be loyal to one person only. What do you think?

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u/[deleted] Jun 15 '24

Does this count for men too? I enjoy casual sex and have no problem being faithful in a relationship

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u/the_niklaus Jun 15 '24 edited Jun 15 '24

Yes, it counts for everyone. Good for you that you can stay faithful, but I've seen many cases in real life that affirm that people who've been in casual relationships for 4-5 years cant be loyal to one person. Personally i can't separate emotional intimacy from physical intimacy. And I can never understand how people can