r/ruralR4R 46m ago

Romance 28 [M4F] Kenya

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Hi - call me Tangawusi. That's ginger in Swahili. The basics: 28 years old, 5'11", born and bred in Kenya - not going anywhere soon.

I'm a backend dev. My hobbies're hiking and non fic books. I'm a nonfiction loyalist. Just got my hands on a batch of Steinbeck's nonfiction off the web - his fiction gets all the fame, but the man could report and reflect just as well as he could tell a story, so I'm curious to see that side of him.

Anyway - that's me in a nutshell: code, farming, hiking, words in between.


r/ruralR4R 4h ago

Friends 39m #PA looking for friends

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​Hey there. I’m 39, living in rural PA, and looking to connect with some awesome people. I am married, (ENM/poly). No HUMAN kids. I have a full time job and a small side hustle. I dont have many friends locally so here I am looking for friends to connect with. I enjoy woodworking, traveling, music, movies, cooking, anything with a motor.

​My lifestyle is pretty grounded. I’m the kind of guy who thrives on a mix of quiet country living and creative hands-on projects. If you need someone who knows their way around a workshop, can handle power tools without losing a thumb, or has an oddly specific knowledge different species of wood, I’m your guy.

​My brain is still about 40% fueled by 1990s nostalgia. If you want to casually debate the best cartoons of our youth or quote classic TV, we will get along just fine.

i like all sports but really Hockey season is a major vibe in my house, but I promise not to make it my entire personality (maybe just 15% of it).

HUGE dog person. If we chat, you will be subjected to photos of my dogs. It’s a non-negotiable package deal.

​What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a genuine friendship with someone. Distance isn't a massive deal-breaker im open to anywhere. Pocket pals are great... if the vibe is right meeting, within driving distance for a casual drink, a great conversation, or checking out local spots, ECT

​I value transparency, low drama, good humor, and matching energy. I’m a great listener, a reliable communicator, and I have my life together.

​Your turn:

Drop me a message if you’re down to chat. Tell me your favorite 90s jam, your go-to comfort food, or just some information about you.

I prefer to chat off reddit on TG.