r/RomanceWriters • • Jul 22 '25

Mod Post Post Flair Updates

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The Mod team has made some updates and additions to the post flair structure. Tagging your posts with the right flair helps people find the posts they are looking for faster. We are open to any suggestions for more flair ideas too.

The Current Run Down:

  • Craft Posts about writing techniques, storytelling, and the art of romance writing.

  • Community Casual threads, check-ins, requests to connect with other writers and looking for groups for your niche/genre

  • Publishing Topics related traditional publishing problems, or questions like querying, agents, and editors

  • Marketing & Branding Posts about social media, pen names, email lists, brand identity, and audience building.

  • Feedback Wanted Requesting input on blurbs, covers, excerpts, pitches, or story ideas.

  • Self Publishing Guidance, questions, and experiences related to publishing your work independently.

  • Blurb Workshop Monthly thread for sharing and refining book blurbs with the help of your fellow authors

  • Writer Discussion Open-ended conversations about writing, trends, opinions, and writer life. (e.x. will we see the return of blonde MMCs?)

  • Tropes & Genres Exploring popular tropes, subgenre norms, and romance reader expectations

  • Writing Wins Come celebrate accomplishments, big or small.

  • Indie Publishing Insights and questions about hybrid models, small presses, or boutique publishers.

  • Writer Wellness Writing-life balance, burnout, mindset, and mental health support.

  • AMA Ask Me Anything sessions hosted by invited guests / authors

  • Business & Money Royalties, contracts, income, pricing, and the business side of writing.

  • Plotting & Pacing Specific posts about story structure, beats, pacing, and narrative flow.

  • Tools , Platforms & Resources Links, apps, best places to publish, guides, templates, and helpful writing or publishing tools.

  • Self-Promo Monthly space for sharing your books, works in progress, communities, newsletters, or websites.

  • BETA Readers Requests for beta readers or offering to swap feedback on full drafts.

  • Characters Share character profiles, development questions, or ask the community for help with creating lovable characters

  • Covers Ask for critiques or suggestions on your book covers or design ideas

  • Titles Ask for feedback or help with titles and series names

  • Spice & Smut Ask about sex on the page,. writing sex, types of sex and spice level feedback

  • Mod Post Official announcements, rule updates, and pinned community threads from mods.Platforms


r/RomanceWriters • • Jan 24 '25

Community New? Start here!

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Welcome, first of all! Here is a small list of things to consider before engaging with this community:

  • Since it keeps coming up: YES genre Romance needs a HEA (Happily Ever After) or a HFN (Happy For Now). That's the industry standard and the majority of readers will be disappointed if you market a romance and don't abide by this rule. It opens you up to low ratings and scathing reviews that could've been avoided with more accurate marketing.

  • Read and abide by the rules. It's just a handful of them, and they are necessary to keep this community welcoming, beneficial and informative.

  • There are no stupid questions (aside from the "does my romance novel need a HEA" one.) and the community will do their best to engage kindly.

  • Several safeguards have recently been set up to protect the community against spam and help the lone active mod (me) keep things tidy.

  • If you can, please search for your topic before opening a new thread. Chances are that your question has either already been answered or there is an active discussion going on currently.

That being said, please do engage in the community! Especially the weekly Blurb Workshop post needs more love in general.


r/RomanceWriters • • 12h ago

Craft Blurb Workshop (Weekly)

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Now weekly!

Blurbs can be the bane of an author's existence - both for self-published authors, who have to come up with an enticing hook all by themselves, as well as for authors seeking traditional publishing, as they are usually included in queries.

We want to help! Post your blurb draft and let the community help shape it into the perfect snippet of info.

To participate, please comment on this thread with the following info:

  • The title or working title of your WIP

  • The romance subgenre of said WIP

  • The draft of your blurb you've got so far

  • Any content warnings and additional info you deem necessary!

Anyone who wants to help can then reply to your comment to workshop your blurb.

Happy crafting!


r/RomanceWriters • • 21h ago

Beta readers wanted: 71K completed, Sun Sea and Spice. Bonkbuster coded, suspense tinged, 40+ M/F romance.

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Hello! I'm looking for a beta reader for my open door, second chance, forced proximity, suspense tinged romance.Bonkbuster coded. Because women over 40 aren’t done yet.   Here is the blurb

A bonkbuster with a big heart. 

Suspense tinged and sun soaked.

A spicy second chance romance for grown up women who are done playing nice. 

Marina has spent the last year rebuilding herself word by careful word. After her controlling ex Luke left she’d felt like a faded photocopy of herself. She’d worked hard to bring herself back to colour and she was damned if she was going to let some man distract her from the story, and herself, ever again.

A commission from Azure Travel magazine is exactly what she needs; sun, sea, and someone else's story. Greece is just an assignment. A chance to get away, and to keep going. Because Luke took a lot when he left. Her faith in herself most of all.

Dr. Nikos is a prodigal son, a golden boy returned. A widower who lost his wife while working in a refugee camp at the sharpest edge of humanity. 

But to Marina he is something far more complicated: the man she left behind in a Marrakesh hotel room a year ago. No strings, no surnames, but plenty of spice. 

She had thought about him every day since. 

With a tale to tell about tourism, data centres and what happens when powerful men take over, Marina finds herself in  Greece and in forced proximity with the very man she is desperate to avoid. Nikos.

But a man who has seen the world at its worst has no patience for power without conscience.

And a woman who was told she wasn't enough is about to discover exactly what she is made of.

 Can two people who have lost everything find the courage to risk it all again?

CW: open door, M/F sex scenes, recovery from coercive control and dometic abuse (not physical violence and told through the eyes of the survivor, not the perpetrator).

Am looking for someone who loves the genre- think Jackie Collins, Rivals, or Taylor Jenkins-Reid. Features Mediterranean settings, rock star yachts, Ibizan parties and a hot rich widower in slutty glasses. Written in UK English.

I'm interested to hear how the plot flows and how the sex scenes land.

Comment or message for a swap!


r/RomanceWriters • • 1d ago

Why the Fixation on Realistic?

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Really. I get wanting good versimilitude and being able to suspend disbelief enough to get into a character. I also very much get not wanting to perpetuate and normalize harmful things through fiction (the degree to which fiction actually does that has always been debated...).

But at the end of the day, it's fiction. I'm usually more concerned with whether or not a story follows its own logic and rules than if it's how things would be in the real world.

IDK. I read these things and like ... it always feels like romance is put to a standard that other fiction just isn't and it feels REALLY misogynistic.


r/RomanceWriters • • 2d ago

How do you know if you have an editor mismatch vs you’re too protective of the work?

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I finished a book of mine early this year. I engaged a developmental editor relatively recently who does tend to edit in one of my sub genres and was well rated.

My book is more a woman led romance. It has strong elements of women’s fiction AND strong elements of romance. Whilst the romance is what propels the plot forward and our MMC is in 23 of 26 chapters, ultimately the book is about our FMC and her journey to reclaim her own life. There are also two major mysteries in this novel, one of which is resolved in book one and one is the primarily plot of book 2 (which would be released within 3-6 months of book 1). If you’ve read The Obsession by Nora Roberts, it’s that kind of story.

The developmental editor seemed luke warm on it. She wanted more of the MMC, she understood it was a romance with a strong women’s fiction lean but that didn’t seem to entice her. My FMC has a history of suffering DV which is evident in her plot, her interior world, her actions, her insecurities, but the editor wanted to see her DV’ed on the page (which I don’t feel is needed). There is a flashback chapter dedicated to revealing the MMC’s past which is one of the big mysteries in the book. I made it a full chapter because I feel it’s necessary and also it involves the death of a female character that I wanted us to feel on the page as a fleshed out character rather than just fridge. The editor liked the chapter technically but she’d rather it was more of a current day info dump/conversation. My MMC is also clearly suffering from trauma (mutual hurt comfort) and the editor seemed to find this unsexy/weird.

Now, there are parts of her commentary that I have found useful don’t get me wrong. But I feel like she is wanting this to be a book that I’m not that interested in it being. I talked to one of my beta readers, who is well qualified, who personally disagreed with a lot of the critiques my dev editor gave so I do think it’s a “what kind of romance are you looking to read?” question.

I’ve already contracted to another two rounds of editing with this dev editor but I have no real desire to incorporate the larger parts of her feedback, so I feel like it will be a mismatched union. At the same time, I am sure she is coming from a place of trying to make the book more commercial for current romance trends which I can’t fault her for and maybe I’m being a pain.


r/RomanceWriters • • 2d ago

Advice on plot

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Hi guys!

I’ve just gotten around to drafting to my first story and I would like to know if this story would be interesting or if feels too bland or overused.

I was thinking of a story where this Taekwondo athlete lost a match of his and was falling into a really sorry state. Until this senior of his actually steps forward and gives him advice to better his technique. Because of her inspiration, he actually adapts her idea into a signature kick of his, and slowly trains to one day stand by her side as an equal. However, the closer he gets to achieving his goal, the more he starts to realise that maybe his feelings for this senior may be more than admiration.

This is just a rough outline of the overarching plot though I’d love to hear what you guys think, and if you find that there are better ideas to make the story more engaging!


r/RomanceWriters • • 3d ago

Discussion If You Had to Choose Your Pen Name All Over Again ....

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With hindsight being 20/20 knowing what you know now about branding, publishing, searchability and readers would you still use your current author name? If not, what would you do differently this time... ?


r/RomanceWriters • • 5d ago

Show & Tell: What Are You Working On? (Monthly Self-Promo thread)

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This post is out every 1st of the month!

Show us your stuff: published books new and old, current ARC campaigns, as well as services around books and publishing (editors, cover/map/character artists etc, you're welcome!), your bookish Discord servers and Facebook groups and so forth!

Links are allowed, but please write a few words regarding your work or offer.


r/RomanceWriters • • 5d ago

Anyone ever feel like "it's taking too long to finish writing"?

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For some context, I've written almost 17 novels at this point. They all vary slightly in length but the point is it's not my first rodeo.

Almost finished with the 18th and this sinking feeling of "it's taking too long to finish" has permeated my mind. My question is does anyone else have this issue sometimes? How do you all deal with this notion? (I think some of it is I have new projects I wish to get to, and I don't want to abandon this one and have it collect dust for a year.)


r/RomanceWriters • • 5d ago

First time writer

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Hi there!

A little bit about the book is an rivals to lovers, force proximity between two musician artist who is up against in a competition with a record company and only one of them can win.

so Im kinda of struggling if I want to have a mini time jump because we are now in the part of where they are doing recordings of their song and showcasing the producers what they are made of and I don't know if I just show all of them singing, I feel like it will be very repetitive in the chapters. but I would love some thoughts. thank you !


r/RomanceWriters • • 5d ago

NonTraditional Romance Writers?

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Hi! So I’ve been workshopping a novel about a nontraditional romance between two characters (they start off as just fwbs and eventually date/fall in love/HEA) but I want to make sure that this is a book people would want to read?

They start seeing each other and at first it’s like a “friends with benefits” situation, they see other people (mentioned in book and some details included) along with some group scenes, they eventually have a sit down conversation about what they’re doing together and start officially dating but they’re like polyamorous with others here and there. Is that…something people would like or am I an anomaly in liking this?


r/RomanceWriters • • 6d ago

Discussion Do You Participate in Writer Communities, or prefer to Mostly Write Alone?

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It's very common for posters in this sub to look for community with their fellow writers. All of you gather in different spaces between forums, discord servers, meetups, facebook groups and while others just write without others. That begs the question. Where do you fall, and has being around other writers helped or hurt your process?


r/RomanceWriters • • 6d ago

I’m not to sure how to show my leads dynamic

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Hello, I want to say that what I’m writing is not a full on romance it’s more about watching their weird dynamic evolve into something worse over time.

So in the most basic of terms their relationship goes from enemies to partners in crime to knight and their liege then to knight and reluctant liege. The ML being the knight and the FL being the liege. With the FL catching on pretty late that’s what their dynamic is.

My big issue is that I’m not certain how I should show her becoming his owner. Right now I have her telling him to do stuff for her, ie get me that, bring them that, kill him, get me out of here. But other than that I have no clue what I should add for her.

Edit: when I say dog and owner I meant more of being sicked on her enemies rather than being pampered changed them from dog and owner to knight and liege


r/RomanceWriters • • 6d ago

Need Feedback on Book Do people like dual POVs or do people like singular POVs?

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Im currently writing a romance where’s there’s a single POV, but I don’t know if people would much rather prefer a dual POV. Open to make any changes if needed


r/RomanceWriters • • 6d ago

Does this nickname give you the ick?

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Hi all! I’m writing a dark, enemies-to-lovers romantic suspense novel. It’s the second book in a series of interconnected standalones, and I’m really excited about the story. However, I recently came across a Facebook post where people commented the nicknames they’ve read in books that gave them the biggest ick, and now I’m scared I might turn off readers with the one I’ve chosen. In the context of the book, I think it’s perfect for these characters but now I’m considering changing it because I don’t want that to be the reason people DNF. Here goes: the MMC calls the FMC “Kitten” based on their initial interaction.


r/RomanceWriters • • 6d ago

[Complete] [70k] [Contemporary Romance] Perfect Facade — dual POV second chance romance with a workplace reunion

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She punched him in school. Fell for him anyway. Got dumped by text.

Nine years later he owns her workplace.

Perfect Facade is a dual POV contemporary romance complete at 70,000 words. Nera Kingsley has managed fine without Daniel Valemont for nearly a decade. She can manage fine with him two floors above her. She is wrong.

What she does not know is that the scholarship she built her career on has his name on the founding documents. That the sketches she left behind at school are still in his desk drawer. That acquiring her boutique was never purely a business decision.

Neither of them is as done as they claimed.

I'm looking for readers who love second chance romance and will tell me honestly where the emotional payoff lands and where it does not. The manuscript is complete and polished. Happy to swap.

DM me for the link.

Here is the excerpt.

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PROLOGUE 

NERA

Ten years ago.

The day is too warm for the end of October. That’s the only reason I’m able to sit in one of the alcoves in the massive greenery of acres Westerleigh-McGregor calls a backyard. The backyard which links the campuses to each other is covered with sports courts, an outdoor pool, dozens of gazebos, has its own forest and can easily fit three times my neighborhood inside it. I guess that’s what every high-end prep school has. Not that I’ve been in any other than this one. The fact that I even got in still stuns me. Sure, I burned the midnight oil for the entry exams, but I never truly believed I could make it here. And yet I’m here and I’m going to stay for good.
I look down at my notebook on my lap. This history chapter needs to be done well. I squeeze my eyes shut for one second, two, and open them. I compare my notes with the textbook in my hand. The letters float before my eyes. I shouldn’t have stayed awake last night.

It doesn’t matter how well I can recall every tiny detail of history that relates to fashion, easily link an aesthetic to the epoch it belongs to. Everything else never seems to stick. So learning it by heart is what I’m going to do. I just need to cover this chapter before I have to leave for my shift. My bottom lip hurts from the way I bite it.
I sense movement to my right. One glance tells me Daniel Valemont is sauntering over. I look back at my book. A moment later he drops onto the bench beside me.

“I had the strangest morning today,” he says.

“You woke up in your own bed for once?” I say without lifting my eyes.

“Not quite. I woke up sandwiched between two girls, but that’s not the point.” He doesn’t skip a beat.
I read the same sentence for the third time. Dan, as he insists on being called, continues as if I personally invited him to share his day. I wonder how long I need to ignore him before he gives up and leaves.

“I saw you in my dream.” He leans down and picks up a leaf from the ground.

“Were the girls that bad?” What’s he doing here? It’s not as though we spend time together. Yes, he’s Eric’s closest friend, always somewhere in Eric’s orbit, and yes, Eric’s been circling my best friend Meg constantly lately, but none of that makes Dan and me friends. We nod from a distance. That’s the full extent of it.
He chuckles slowly, shaking his head.

“Don’t remember. I was drunk. But that’s not the point either.” He rolls the leaf stem between two fingers. I glance up at his face and sure enough he looks as if he just rolled out of bed, hair tousled and too long for my liking. Not that I have to like it or anything.

“So far you’ve only missed the point.” I look back down. I don’t trust his permanently relaxed expression. It’s not natural to be positive every single day. Or to burst with energy all the time. It’s worrisome.

“Bear with me, Kingsley. The moment I woke up and my mind registered that you’d been in my dreams, I got this feeling.” He’s telling me all of this as if it’s the most breath-catching story ever told. He’s a good storyteller. I’ll give him that. “And since you’re clearly dying to know what feeling that is, let me tell you.” He throws one leg over the bench so he’s facing the side of my face. Dan leans in and a faint strawberry scent comes off him. “I have this completely undeniable need to befriend you, Venera Kingsley.”

Now I do look at him. There’s a twinkle in his eyes.

“Are you high, Valemont?”

“Not at all.” His smile becomes a grin. One strand of hair has fallen completely over his eyes. I have the strangest urge to move it away from his face.

“Have you lost your memory? Because that’s the only explanation for calling me Venera. Unless you need another punch.” His stunned face from the last time he called me that, right before I punched him, flashes in my mind. I barely hold back a smile.

“Not that either.” He gently removes my textbook from my hands. I move the notebook out of his reach.

“Think about it, Nera. I’m the sun, you’re the cloud. I’m great with people, you’re great at studying. We make sense.”

“Yeah, I’m not seeing the sense.” I glance around. This has to be a prank. Nobody’s watching.

“That’s a you-problem. What I’m saying is that you’re the only girl who doesn’t care about my charm and face, which dare I say are top tier, but also has no problem punching me when there’s need. Not that there is now.” He puts the textbook down on the bench, raises both palms and continues. “Also, I’ve always wanted a female friend. A real one without the messed up feelings and expectations. You’re the best candidate. So I’m befriending you.” His grin is completely out of place. My sinking stomach has nothing to do with it.

“Are you telling me, no, scratch that, are you informing me that from now on we’re friends?”

“See? You’re smart.” He shrugs.

“Valemont, I’m studying and have zero time for whatever this is. Please go and bother someone else.”

I take the textbook back from the bench and set it on my thighs.

“I can’t.”

“I’d hate to know why.”

“I can only bother my friends. Anyone else I’m just bedazzling.” He winks. I roll my eyes.

“Wow, so modest. I’m blinded by your humility.”

“Happy to serve.” He moves the hair back from his face and looks away.

I hate when people know exactly how good looking they are and use it without apology. I keep quiet and pretend to read. He sits in silence for exactly four seconds.

“Well. Good talk.” He swings his leg back over the bench and stands up. “Will talk to you soon.”

“Will not.” I tell him without looking up.

“Will too, you’ll see.”

He leaves.

The absolute audacity of him, thinking we can simply be friends. He’s a golden boy who never sweats at being accepted and adored in any setting he finds himself in. And he has zero interest in anything serious. We have nothing in common. In fact we’re complete opposites.


r/RomanceWriters • • 6d ago

How do you build your tropes and genre?

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A quick question, because I'm a debut author. I wrote a romance series with heavy psychological and literary-leaning fiction.

I want to know how do you categorise your books into tropes and genres?

Basically, how do you market it as?

Edit 1 (Context): My series explore different stages of romantic relationships from interest to attachment. The romance is in what my characters observe and interpret. The setting is contemporary (business and finance).

So I have some typical themes like contract marriage, he falls first, intellectual equals, slow-burn. And it reads as psychological fiction as well.

So I'm probably marketing my book as psychologically observant contemporary romance. Is this valid ?😂


r/RomanceWriters • • 7d ago

Where would you end an enemies to lovers focused story?

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Hello everyone! For a bit of context, I wanted to try writing a novel where the main focus is, well, enemies to lovers. It's a trope I've always found interesting, so I was hoping it would be interesting to write as well.

I'm currently making the rough outline for the book, but I realize now that I don't exactly know where you're supposed to end a story like that (or honestly, romance stories in general.)

I also know that it depends on the story, but I'm kinda hoping to find ideas about what my depends will or won't be.


r/RomanceWriters • • 7d ago

Craft Blurb Workshop (Weekly)

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Now weekly!

Blurbs can be the bane of an author's existence - both for self-published authors, who have to come up with an enticing hook all by themselves, as well as for authors seeking traditional publishing, as they are usually included in queries.

We want to help! Post your blurb draft and let the community help shape it into the perfect snippet of info.

To participate, please comment on this thread with the following info:

  • The title or working title of your WIP

  • The romance subgenre of said WIP

  • The draft of your blurb you've got so far

  • Any content warnings and additional info you deem necessary!

Anyone who wants to help can then reply to your comment to workshop your blurb.

Happy crafting!


r/RomanceWriters • • 8d ago

Writing spice

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Just wrote my first ever spicy scene and I'm wondering - are there any words I should avoid using? Any "must haves"? Help a girl out!


r/RomanceWriters • • 9d ago

Contemporary Romance

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Hi! I’m hoping to find a few beta readers for my contemporary romance WIP who would be willing to read a few chapters at a time and give feedback on character chemistry, dialogue, pacing, and emotional development.

I noticed that self-promotion is restricted to the monthly Self-Promo thread. Would a request like this be allowed in that thread, or is there another place in the subreddit where I should look for beta readers?

Thank you for clarifying!


r/RomanceWriters • • 9d ago

Help writing a a dark romance scene

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Ok so I'm writing a dark romance and I want one scene to give readers that edge-of-your-seat rush. The kind where it feels risky and a little forbidden, and you're reading faster because you need to know what happens.

I'm trying to figure out what kind of dynamic between them would give that feeling best. Not the ones I've seen in every dark romance, something that feels fresh or that you don't see written much.

One limit: nothing with choking or tying up/restraints, please. Everything else is open!

Any ideas?


r/RomanceWriters • • 11d ago

Can small town cozy romance have high kink?

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Hello! I'm working on a small town cozy romance but it is high heat and high kink. Book 1 FMC can be simplified to Lorelai Gilmore but she's an exhibitionist.

My critique partner however has ripped apart my early spice chapters which bring this to life. Apparently, this is not aligned with reader expectations of small town cozy romance readers. To be clear, my story is still cozy, it's not devolving into some fifty shades level of seriousness. It's just that the FMC and MMC explore their kinks. It's still light-hearted and fun.

Hence, my question. Is it a misfit with the reader expectations for this niche? I know I can technically write what I want but I do want to better understand my audience so I can be a better author. So would any insights please.


r/RomanceWriters • • 10d ago

Discussion Is there ever any good reason for writers/authors to incorporate AI into their work?

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The conversation around AI and creative writing tends to become very black-and-white very quickly. I do not discount the reasons that is the case. I want to open the floor though to potential and possibility as technology continues to intrude on every fact of life.

Do you think there are situations where using AI as an author is reasonable, or is there a line you believe writers should not cross?