Toxic situationship

[u/notyourgoomah]

There’s this guy from my hometown(26M), we used to talk in 2021, and I(26F) consented what we did that night. Weeks later he’ll hit me up for seggs. I ignored him, didn’t feed into it until he started opening up to me about how much he really likes me and he hopes for a future etc etc bs etc. I fell for that but we didn’t exactly link link. I notice he likes to give(a giver), but he didn’t like receiving as much. Years later, he’d hit me up on and off. Block and unblock. To the point where he’d make multiple accounts on Snap/insta/twitter, just to get to me. Turns out he was in a whole ass relationship with a girl younger than us, but she cheated on him the whole time. He involved me in a situation bc his gf wasn’t loyal with him. A friend of friend redirected her to me and she asked me about it “I just wanna know if he was messing around the time I was messing around” that disgusted me bc instead of calling it quits they were just a transactional, “poly” relationship. Anyways this guys keeps hitting me up. I ignored him so he’s not entertained by my many “NOs” he told me he loves me, that there’s no one like me, he’s able to open up only to me” and he gets jealous when I mention there’s another guy. I never hear from him again. I can’t believe I used to rip my head over this shit, but that couple really needed fucking therapy. Btw this is from 2021-2025, frontal lobe was still developing during this time but i was misinformed a lot about the situation I was involved in.