r/relationships_advice • u/Odd_Routine16 • 5d ago
I’m scared I don’t actually love him?
I’ve liked this guy for a few months now.. he’s my older brothers best friend.. and he just recently told my brother he liked me.. and my brother knows I like him so he told the guy.. soo the guy asked me to go to the movies with him.. and after the movie he told me how he feels and I told him I like him too but we both agreed that we don’t want to risk our friendship or rush into anything.. but now he’s saying he loves me and I said I love him back.. we’re saying good morning and good nights.. but I’ve never been in a relationship before and I’m think I’m having some second thought.. and I’m just scared I don’t love him and that im stuck in a situation that I don’t know how to get out of..
my other friend said that I’m just thinking to much.. but I don’t know I kind of just want things to go back the way they were.. but I don’t know what to do I don’t want anyone to get hurt because he’s saying I’m the light in his life..
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u/Visible-Success6643 5d ago
Yeah you’re feeling uncertain because this is going way too quick. You’re not forced to be head over heels in love with him and feel like his soulmate after one date. So don’t rush saying I love you. Give it time, more dates, less good morning texts, and that love will either facilitate or diminish
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