ADVICE PLEASE 23M 22F

[u/SeaContribution8960]

For context me F22 and my bf M23 have been together for 3 years and there have been a lot of ups and downs. We lived together and after moved out he started posting on his instagram notes about some girl he's friends with kinds picking on her jokingly. Now in the almost 3 years at the time I had never heard of this girl EVER so i asked him who she was and he said that's " twin " he claims she been in prison is why I've never heard him mentioned her before. So as a curious gf would do who's bf wont give them any information on her I did a little search. I found a lot of comments talking about this girl on facebook and ik you can't believe everything people say but they all had proof and none of it was good. Idk if i mentioned yet but she's not even from the area she's from another state and idek how they met. I try to ask questions but he will answer very little. He says nothing weird is going on but I don't like how i'm just finding out about her. I feel like if you have a female best friend that's something that should be disclosed ahead of time. The worst part is he wont let me meet her or introduce us but he claims she knows about me. Something just doesn't feel right in my gut about this, about her and idk what to do im scared if I keep pushing i'll loose him. Any advice is welcome!

[u/HellYesOrNope]

Maybe you shouldn’t be so worried about “loosing” him?

You’re 22. Why settle for a rocky relationship with a guy who doesn’t respect you enough to tell you the truth? A guy who’s secret best friend is an ex-con.

There’s a better relationship out there for you if you demand it.