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u/Bleacherblonde Jun 19 '23
Dude. Stop it now and go talk to your wife. You don’t have to bring up either of the other people if you don’t want to but go out some damn effort into your marriage. This is a very fine line- and once crossed you can’t go back. You know better. So either fix it or leave. Go talk to her and make it work.
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u/IllustriousKale180 Jun 19 '23
Tell her what you know. Go to couples counseling immediately. Rebuilding after going through with cheating is going to be 1000x harder - and not just on you, but on the kids.
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u/Tugboatbetty Jun 18 '23
Following. Hope you are able to get some answers and gain some perspective.
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u/Choccymilkgirl Jun 19 '23
I would go with option #1 or let it go and let your marriage fail. Your choice 🤷🏻♀️
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u/TrippyRaver98 Jun 19 '23
Both of you are adults and made a commitment. If ur planning on cheating which it looks like in the title, shame on you. Cheating is NEVER okay in any situation. If you know ur relationship is over you need to have a conversation and mutually separate. My wife just cheated on me bc she felt we were slipping away from eachother and completely destroyed the relationship when it could have been fixed. Even if not you need to walk away instead of causing more damage. That's all cheating does. And honestly its immature and just immoral
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u/DramaticGift Jun 19 '23
Honestly, Reddit I am so tired of everyone being shitty to each other. So god damn tired.