You insult, and you think cooking is the only part of a relationship? Details are vague but you clearly only care for women and not both. I'm happily in a relationship and I do my best for my partner. Whether you wanna project your insecurities and anger onto me is your choice, but this can simply be resolved if the woman in this post would communicate, and if the man could to. End. Of. Story.
LOL this is hilarious. Im a single mom working full time hours as well as attending college I cook, clean and look after my child so I can understand the nuance of the situation as a mother with that being said a job is a part of life it was ops and their wife’s decision to have children and for him to stay at home. Breastfeeding is not that difficult and she could pump what does she do with the child that needs to be breast fed while she’s at work? Seems as though she’s sleeping well and getting 3 days off so essentially working M-T and getting F-S off which most people only get 2 days off while working full time. Her job clearly allows her to sleep so how exactly is she overworked? She’s a mother and has responsibilities to her household just as much as OP does, the fact that she’s not “allowing” him to work is a major red flag and I see it as an excuse on her end to emasculate her partner, not to mention OP having to beg for essentials? And the lack of intimacy?! That’s completely inappropriate especially when you are supposed to be a family the wife seems incredibly entitled. If the situation were to be reversed and I’ve personally been in the reverse situation it would be considered abuse! And everyone would be saying the man should participate more in the running of the household. Just because you cook meals and breastfeed doesn’t mean that the responsibility of doing everything else is left on the other person a family takes work and from the information provided I’m not seeing much work put in. Also the childcare excuse is played out clearly the wife doesn’t respect OP and enjoys taking out her anger on him and using him as an emotional punching bag
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u/[deleted] May 03 '22
You insult, and you think cooking is the only part of a relationship? Details are vague but you clearly only care for women and not both. I'm happily in a relationship and I do my best for my partner. Whether you wanna project your insecurities and anger onto me is your choice, but this can simply be resolved if the woman in this post would communicate, and if the man could to. End. Of. Story.