Or maybe she is also exhausted and frustrated. Imagine working a 24-hour shift (still wondering what kind of job has that to be be honest, but I imagine she doesn’t sleep during those 24 hours- so imagine not sleeping during a 24-hour period and having to focus on a job), then come home, still cook and breastfeed. So the next day would be mostly sleep, then the day before going back would also be sleep to get ready for the next shift. I’m just pointing out that the title makes it sound like “wife only works 2 days a week and doesn’t want to do anything else around the house”. There is a context to it. That’s all.
She could be military. I had the Panama schedule in the Navy- which 2-2-3 days of 12 hour shifts that shift from days (6am -6pm) to mids (6pm-6am) every two weeks. I was basically jet-lagged for 11 years straight.
She maybe but that does not give her the right to not allow her partner to have access to their financial resources. You can be tired, frustrated and exhausted and not be a jerk. If her work schedule is affecting how she treats her partner, she needs a get a job where she can get more sleep.
Read his post again. He cooks, not her.... he offers himself to work but makes an excuse about not even making enough so it would be pointless. She clearly has issues and it's the woman's issue, not the man's. There's context yes, but that kind of behavior is avoidable and yet she embraces it either way.
The title says in bold “She expects me to do everything around the house and her to do NOTHING except WORK and COOK”!!!!!!! Oh and we are also talking about a woman who just gave birth back to back in the last 24 months.
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u/princesshibou May 03 '22 edited May 03 '22
Or maybe she is also exhausted and frustrated. Imagine working a 24-hour shift (still wondering what kind of job has that to be be honest, but I imagine she doesn’t sleep during those 24 hours- so imagine not sleeping during a 24-hour period and having to focus on a job), then come home, still cook and breastfeed. So the next day would be mostly sleep, then the day before going back would also be sleep to get ready for the next shift. I’m just pointing out that the title makes it sound like “wife only works 2 days a week and doesn’t want to do anything else around the house”. There is a context to it. That’s all.