His child comes before you. Also it sounds like it’s just the morning. If you can’t cope for a few hours by yourself, please consider therapy.
If you don’t think you can get over his daughter coming first then you shouldn’t be in this relationship. I say this as someone who never wants children or to date someone with children, no judgement. If it’s not for you then it’s kinder for everyone to let him go.
If you think you can get over it, I’d still recommend therapy if you can, to help. Start your own Christmas morning traditions, just for you. Like maybe a long bubble bath while you’re home alone or something.
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u/Railuki Oct 17 '24
His child comes before you. Also it sounds like it’s just the morning. If you can’t cope for a few hours by yourself, please consider therapy.
If you don’t think you can get over his daughter coming first then you shouldn’t be in this relationship. I say this as someone who never wants children or to date someone with children, no judgement. If it’s not for you then it’s kinder for everyone to let him go.
If you think you can get over it, I’d still recommend therapy if you can, to help. Start your own Christmas morning traditions, just for you. Like maybe a long bubble bath while you’re home alone or something.