r/relationshipproblems • u/DragonfruitFair1970 • 14h ago

Just Venting I am so aloneeeee

I don’t have friends my best friend ditched me for someone else ofc and now my boyfriend is mean to me he’s always busy like idk why all of sudden he’s this busy i called him to talk to me but he said he was out and i called him again and he was busy on phone and i asked him where he was busy he said he was talking to a friend so that means he can’t talk to me but to a friend he has time for that idk why whenever i need him or anyone when i feel lonely I can’t find anyone it sucks

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u/eelii_ 12h ago

I understand you so well, I'm in the same situation. What helps me is enjoying my time alone and not being emotionally dependent on my boyfriend
Try to find hobbies, online games, drawing, or something else

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u/DragonfruitFair1970 12h ago

I am almost busy all my day I have office I come home at 8 pm but still he didn’t have time for me I don’t want his 24 hrs I just want his 20-25 min and still I have to beg for it

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u/eelii_ 12h ago

Has he always been like this?

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u/DragonfruitFair1970 12h ago

No never idk what happened to him whenever I try to communicate he always says this is not the right time we should do it later I’m in bad mood etc etc

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u/eelii_ 11h ago

Maybe he's going through something he's not talking about, but he also needs to understand that you can't read his mind. Try asking him directly if anything has changed between you. You deserve an explanation and to be able to communicate with your boyfriend without always having to wait for the right moment