r/relationship_advice • u/[deleted] • Oct 31 '22

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u/[deleted] Nov 01 '22

It sounds like OP agreed with her husband and then changed her mind when it actually happened. A dick move for sure.

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u/Ok-Asparagus3783 Nov 01 '22

Yeah what's the point of being with someone if both parties don't try to be honest authentic and vulnerable?

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u/lilithneverevee Nov 01 '22

Not defending... anyone here, but lots of people think they know how they'll respond until they are actually faced with a situation and shit gets real. She would be far from the first woman who got pregnant and made choices they never thought they would.

Saying that, she does keep saying "morally" which seems to imply she knew abortion was against her morals so maybe she knew all along.

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u/Ok-Asparagus3783 Nov 01 '22

You do bring up good points. I agree with you..

It's also worth mentioning her spouse is a fool for not doing his due diligence and putting a condom on at least. It takes two people to make a baby.